Topic: Is It Unreasonable?
Gstraitfan's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:42 AM
Wow this is almost like a soap opera!

papersmile's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:43 AM
Almost??

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Thu 05/07/09 01:16 PM
Edited by durtydduck on Thu 05/07/09 01:17 PM
oh crap.. now I forgot what the topic of the thread was about? oh yeah.. now I remember..


I can only speak for my own actions okay? so If I was in a committed relationship I would end all viewing of Dating sites etc. BUT.. if i have friends from that site .. for argument sake lets say friends from here and the forums. I would gladly give them my e mail address. and gladly let my S.O. see each and every one of those e mails at any time. I will never hide anything from my S.O> and here is your lolipop.

Totage's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:13 PM

:heart: Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?:heart:


Not at all, I would probably stop hanging out here before then.

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:29 PM
no.. Whats the saying? If your in a barber shop long enough, you gonna get a haircut?

unreal1's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:00 PM
hi

you cant trust him if hes saying that to you tell him to pack it in or pack his bags theres only room for the two of you in any one relationship and you will be the one that will get hurt in the end

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 06:47 PM

Wow this is almost like a soap opera!
surprised I just noticed itsurprised

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Fri 05/08/09 06:53 PM
Whoa......surprised DRAMAshocked

Dang..I think I forgot the question...
I think...NO...its fine...to be on dating site..when you have alot of friends.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 06:54 PM
laugh Wish someone would have told me about this when it was going onlaugh

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:05 PM
shocked Issues in the forumsshocked

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:07 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 05/08/09 07:59 PM
:banana:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:08 PM


shocked Issues in the forumsshocked
bigsmile Remember when MissTinas ex came on here? bigsmile Sorta reminds me of that.laugh



Omg yeslaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:16 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 05/08/09 07:59 PM
:banana:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:19 PM
smitten Another online romance is blossomingsmitten

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Fri 05/08/09 07:21 PM

smitten Another online romance is blossomingsmitten


Even the LDR's laugh

misstina2's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:39 PM
:tongue: mutual stalkers is the way to go:tongue:

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Fri 05/08/09 07:45 PM
Folks -- Just a friendly reminder that the forums are definitely not the place for airing dirty laundry (or even clean laundry, really, for that matter) when there are issues with other members -- we have private messaging for those of you who need to engage in that sort of thing.






Bi_CurizGrl's photo
Sat 05/09/09 02:15 PM
That's something my ex and I broke up over. He was on a ton of dating sites claiming he was single and looking when in fact he was with me. He claimed he wasn't even on the sites anymore, but to me they were still there and he still got tons of messages from them, so it hurt me. He didn't see it that way.

raynebowbrite's photo
Sat 05/09/09 04:39 PM
I don't think it is unreasonable at all. If you are in a committed relationship, they there is no need to be on any dating sites. And if it is just to "find friends" then you should let them know that the two of you can find friends together. Maybe other couples that likes to do the same types of things you two like.

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Sat 05/09/09 04:49 PM

:tongue: mutual stalkers is the way to go:tongue:



I am good at stalking laugh