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Topic: Is It Unreasonable?
s1owhand's photo
Sat 05/09/09 04:54 PM
Edited by s1owhand on Sat 05/09/09 04:54 PM
an alert and suspicious animal...
lifts head and sniffs the wind...there is a faint hint of varmint!!

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Sat 05/09/09 04:57 PM

:heart: Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?:heart:


I think if the relationship is brand new then there should at least be a period of separation from the internet dating/social networking sites in which you utilize that time to get to know the person you have chosen to be with.

The feeling is if you met on an online website, what more use do you really have for being on there except to find someone else? I think after a period of time I would be okay if we both were still using the sites. It also depends what type because this one seems not to be dating/romance oriented as much as some others where the focus lies there exclusively.

Jess642's photo
Sat 05/09/09 04:58 PM
No.

He can log in and read my stuff anytime he wants.... but for him, he sees it as you have to put up with my blathering on, instead of him!!!!

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EquusDancer's photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:44 PM


I would hope that we'd keep each other entertained enough that we wouldn't have time to mess around on dating sites.

However, I wouldn't expect or demand that he delete his accounts, but I would anticipate him editing his settings to indicate that he is in a relationship and that he wouldn't be involved in any private chatting with strange women.


I think this makes the most sense.


Agrees. The biggest thing is talking about it with your partner. And are there a couple of husband/wives on here who play with each other and goof back and forth?

If he can't trust me online, then he probably isn't going to trust me offline.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 05/10/09 09:43 AM

No.

He can log in and read my stuff anytime he wants.... but for him, he sees it as you have to put up with my blathering on, instead of him!!!!

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misstina2's photo
Mon 05/25/09 10:57 PM
:heart: things should be talked about and some kind of an agreement worked out:heart:

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Mon 05/25/09 10:58 PM

:heart: Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?:heart:


So quit going to dating sites then, Mirror! huh

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Tue 05/26/09 12:29 AM
Not unreasonable at all. If I found the right one, there would really be no reason to continue back on the dating sites....I would be no longer looking!

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