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I would hope that we'd keep each other entertained enough that we wouldn't have time to mess around on dating sites. However, I wouldn't expect or demand that he delete his accounts, but I would anticipate him editing his settings to indicate that he is in a relationship and that he wouldn't be involved in any private chatting with strange women. I think this makes the most sense. |
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 your partners feeling should be taken into consideration perhaps putting pics up of the both people on profile would make the other person feel better I feel like someone who is in a relationship should be spending more time with their partner than on a dating site
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it is reasonable to expect a man to stay off these sites because some girls will show them their breasts although they know they are in a relationship...it is hard to trust a man that will still alow that
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Nope. I don't think that is unreasonable at all. If it's a problem for one of you/them, then it's a problem for both.
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I read somewhere that nearly one third of all divorces in the US have the internet as one of the reason I've seen that too |
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I would hope that we'd keep each other entertained enough that we wouldn't have time to mess around on dating sites. However, I wouldn't expect or demand that he delete his accounts, but I would anticipate him editing his settings to indicate that he is in a relationship and that he wouldn't be involved in any private chatting with strange women. I think this makes the most sense. 
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yes it is, it's not cheating until he cheats.
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i'd just lock her in the basement
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nope, definitely not unreasonable. any friends they want to keep in touch w/ they'll prob already have contact info for anyway, so why keep comin back? My sentiments exactly! This site was established for dating i.e. getting dates, and meeting people to date. Like metalhead said if you want to stay in contact get their private email address... |
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It all depends...
My friend Slow...is married and I am sure his wife knows he's on this site. He states it right on his profile that he is married. She obviously trusts him, otherwise I don't think he would want to still be here. JMO |
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Edited by
KayaksJuliet
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Tue 05/05/09 11:00 AM
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I would stay. I have friends here and wouldn't want to forget about them, and I would never ask them (my SO) to leave. It is all about trusting the one you are with. If I felt they were looking for more than friends, then there isn't a relationship and there is no trust. I agree.  And of course making it clear on your home page that you are taken. Also if any of my friends on your list cannot respect your decision  (old flames that are friends)then "poof" they are gone. It is about trust and luckily my sweetie and I have it.
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yes it is, it's not cheating until he cheats.
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its not unreasonable. Build trust. edit profile. post a couples pic. no private chats or e-mails.Partner must have access to account. have fun in the community.
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Why would I want to look at a picture, when I can have the real thing in my arms? One is all I want!
Ron
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 Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?
If you're in a "monogamous" relationship yet your partner is surfing date sites then it prolly isn't "monogamous" is it? That's tacky and disrespectful. |
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Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?
If you're in a "monogamous" relationship yet your partner is surfing date sites then it prolly isn't "monogamous" is it? That's tacky and disrespectful. I have to agree... NOW... if you MET on that dating site and went back there from time to time TOGETHER to see what the old gang is doing (using Mingle as the example) that is ok... If ONE of them is doing it... no... not ok. |
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Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?
To me the issue isn't the dating site at all. "...they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?" This sounds like a trust issue to me. Address the trust issue first. The dating site thing will resolve itself. |
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Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?
If you're in a "monogamous" relationship yet your partner is surfing date sites then it prolly isn't "monogamous" is it? That's tacky and disrespectful. True dat!!! |
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That depends on the couple, individual...circumstances.
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Is it unreasonable if you are in a monogamous relationship and practically living together, to expect your partner to quit using dating sites even if they claim all they are looking for is friendship but you feel otherwise?
If you're in a "monogamous" relationship yet your partner is surfing date sites then it prolly isn't "monogamous" is it? That's tacky and disrespectful. True dat!!! agreed 150% |
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