why is it so hard to find a nice woman.i'm not sayin all are bad but dang it seems like when i meet someone they start out cool then make a 360 change.i'm not the kinda guy that judges a woman on her looks cause i know i'm not the hottest guy onthe planet.i'm not a thug or anything like that.i guess i'm old fashion kinda guy.i have tryed lookin for love on 2 other site and there are eaither married or party girls or porn bots.now i'm on here with the same thing no luck.

Hey, to answer your Q...There are no nice women because guys change them from being a nice girl to being mean.

Hope you find a nice woman, though

ty i hope i will find her

They are nice till you marry them

(Did i say that out loud?)

*Looks Around*

J/K

Good luck bro

well, i think all nice women are already taken ....but keep on looking and goodluck

Because you are a nice guy?

There are a lot of us 'nice' women around, just keep your chin up and head in the game. Good luck

if love was that easy we wouldn't have Country and Western music

My thoughts on this are it's not because there are no nice people, clearly there are plenty, it's because we don't know clearly what we want in a partner and you can't find something when you don't even know what it looks like. There's also other factors such as how people perceive you, if you can't love yourself [and i don't mean in a having a sneaky wank in the toilet at lunch break in work kinda way] then it's been my experience that you'll reject opportunities that present themselves when they come your way. There's so many possible factors that i won't get into right now but if what you've been doing up to now hasn't worked for you, if how you define someone nice and how you look for them isn't working then it's time to try something new. Good luck.

talldub said hit the nail right on the head in a nice way,...now im just saying it in a more clear detailed kind of way....

unfortunately for us guys, women run the world at this present time..they have been given so many rights, men have lost all control over everything, we cant even raise our voices anymore cause its abuse...women can throw knives and bottles at us when they get angry, including attacking our cars and trucks yet in the end men still get punished for it..no justice whatsoever....

Today women have received a taste of what man once had before, this is why women are never happy with just one man..its a known fact...they are just as bad as man once was...they realized how powerful the female anatomy really is, and what it can do....

in reality, women today technically never know what they want...they have so much choice and so much of a variety on what they want to make of themselves, including how they want to live.....one morning they wake up wanting a bad boy, the next day they want someone nice and someone to treat them right..sometimes they even try to juggle the best of both worlds..but why is it ok for them to do it, and not men????.....problem is, once women find what they think they want, they dont want it anymore..they get bored quickly and move on to something else..i know more women now that ive ever known who cheat, and its not because men created them to be that way, its cause they are women and they can do whatever they want..

women can pick and chose who they want to be with, when they want to be with them and chose what they want to do with them at any time.... all they gotta do is wear a low cut top, short skirt, show some skin and they can make any man be their little puppet...women today just love attention, but once they get it, they all call us creeps and perverts...

so the system you could say has balanced out...50/50..men had the upper hand before, now the women have a chance to get some payback (enjoy it while it lasts cause this is all a phase, and phases fade)....the materialistic/independant world we currently live in boils down to this...all for one and one for all....everyones been screwed over too much and have lost their shirts in relationships...people just want to mingle and have fun...serious relationships are a thing of the past at this present time it lands on a spot where no one wants to risk anything anymore.......live life, live happy and answer to no one.....

rotfl......bingo!!!

Wow SoulMate - that reads like you got burned hard, or know someone who did.

oh no sweetie, not me, lol..i know many others who have...i just sit back, learn and take notes...lol..other peoples life experience is a powerful key.....

my situation i got off lucky...thank god for law school, i found loop holes to keep everything i worked hard for all my life,......lol

It just read rather......bitter. Not being a biatch, lol, just how I read it. I know there are predatory women out there, just like there are jacka$$ men, but not all of them are like that.

Have I made mistakes in the past and gone for the "bad boy" that I thought I could fix? Yup, I did. I also made mistakes with people that I thought I wanted to be with, primarily because I was so busy trying to be what others wanted that I forgot what *I* wanted. I always tried to be honest with people though, and explain what was going on. I hate hurting people, because I know how it feels. I know that it probably made me look bad in their eyes, but all I could do was make the best decision with the information/knowledge I had at the time.

So, I hope you don't think all women are either intentionally like that or enjoy the "power", because we're not all like that :)

I never looked at it that way.

There are plenty of nice women I personally know a few...My trouble is finding a nice man.
Most of the nice people are lured into relationships with jerks.
Bad thing is they think they are nice!
I think it is just a perception thing.
I know I am nice. But there are times and plenty of them where I am a complete jerk myself. Note I didn't say B!t@#. lol But some probably would.
Honestly my exes don't think i am mean. lol Still my exes tho?

oh heavens no....far from bitter hun, its called being more aware of the surroundings,.. i regret nothing...my past life was all a great experience, what didnt kill me only made me stronger..(a familair term we have all heard more than once)...lol i just thank the heavens god gave me a good head on my shoulders and think things out before i get shafted...

in not so many words, i now walk around S*it, not step in it..lol

the more and more i dated, the more i learn about what i dont want..
again as i have said before, the world has become a very selfish place...and i never really thought about what i really wanted before, but now i think about it often, since everyone else can be selfish its time i become alittle selfish myself as well...and i cant nor will i settle for anything more or less of what im looking for......

today with many relationships, the minute someone breaks wind in the wrong direction, they call it quits immediately...comminication doesnt apply anymore i guess? almost like people dig to try and find a reason to get out of something they arent really sure of...

honesty is sometimes the best policy, however sometimes it can bite ya in the tushy, it can also hurt you or someone in return... but it should only be applied as a lesson, not something that should be used in revenge...cause thats how the cycle where women think all men are the same, and men think all women are the same...it becomes a non win situation for both sexes down the road which in conclusion, appears to never correct itself...

Very true - I hate generalizations, they provoke my "attitude" *grins*. And you're right - the cycle continues, unless you make a conscious effort to stop it.

Honesty has gotten me into serious trouble in the past, so now I tell people up front - please don't ask me to be "brutally honest" unless you mean it, because I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I can't lie to you just to spare them. As I've gotten older, I've learned tact, but it took some bumpy rides to do so.

Glad to know you're not bitter - too many jaded individuals out there as it is :)

my apologies to you my friend, didnt mean to hi-jack your thread...

no worries!...;-) as you can see on my profile, thats honesty at its best..lol...