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Fri 03/27/09 05:24 PM
Edited by SoulMate36 on Fri 03/27/09 05:27 PM

Why is it so hard for people to wrap their heads around the fact that Mingle2 is not just a dating site? I'm not sure why it seems to be a problem for some? It's free dude, so why whine and b!tch?


no ones bichin man, im simply wondering where all the women who actually want to date are,... and again, i searched for dating singles, found this place, so i joined.....its so simple my 4 year old nephew can even comprehend...

anyhow id love to stay and play people but ive got a hockey game tonight, ill be back later to check if there is anymore input, thank you again for all your co-operation, comments, questions, and concerns....

dont drink and drive arrive alive...
dont be silly, cover your willies..

ciao a tuttiwaving !

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Fri 03/27/09 05:10 PM
Edited by SoulMate36 on Fri 03/27/09 05:11 PM

Yes, this is a dating site. However, it is also a socialization site. There are individuals on here that are married or in long term relationships. You are still new. Give it some time and you might find some daters! :wink:


thanks for confirming...thought maybe i was losing my mind or something there for a moment...

.........now where did i put those meds????, ....oh here they are......brb time to take my crazy pills...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 05:09 PM



Theres nothing wrong with just friends.


Your right, there is nothing wrong with just being friends..friends are great to have and im sure we all have a bunch of great friends, on yahoo, msn and facebook...

but again, just out of curiosity, and anyone feel free to correct me if im wrong, but is this not a dating site?...:smile:


not entirely. it's also a social site

hmmm ....must be an error on googles search engine then cause when i type up "Free Singles Date Sites" i get this ...

"best FREE dating site! 100% Free Online Dating and Personal Ads for Singles at Mingle2.com. Stop wasting money at other dating sites."

i guess computers can be so unreliable these days...

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Fri 03/27/09 05:01 PM

Theres nothing wrong with just friends.


Your right, there is nothing wrong with just being friends..friends are great to have and im sure we all have a bunch of great friends, on yahoo, msn and facebook...

but again, just out of curiosity, and anyone feel free to correct me if im wrong, but is this not a dating site?...:smile:

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Fri 03/27/09 04:53 PM





Depends. If emailing is going good. The person can construct a whole and complete sentence.


Tanya, take it from me -- being able to talk and/or write in complete sentences does NOT help here! I think it actually scares people away, to be honest.


My dear, Lex, I think you are right! drinker

Maybe if we 'dummy-up' for them we can attract more attention! frustrated :laughing:


now now......no need to take that path down the road...lol


Ok, 'dad' .... whoa tongue2


uh huh whos your daddy...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:52 PM



<-------------------Only here to eat souls.


uh huh...that explains the red hair which i presume is covering up the horns holding up your haylo i presume?...lol


Not at all. The horns requirement was done way with long ago.


lol....cute!

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Fri 03/27/09 04:49 PM

I met one person.. drove 3hrs. It was a big mistake!!

But I am willing and able..if I find the right one.

You're cute! drool

Welcome to Mingle!drinks


why thank you....glad to be here..!!flowers

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Fri 03/27/09 04:48 PM



Depends. If emailing is going good. The person can construct a whole and complete sentence.


Tanya, take it from me -- being able to talk and/or write in complete sentences does NOT help here! I think it actually scares people away, to be honest.


My dear, Lex, I think you are right! drinker

Maybe if we 'dummy-up' for them we can attract more attention! frustrated :laughing:


now now......no need to take that path down the road...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:47 PM

I actually dated a guy I met on here for over 4 months.. so it can happen.. whether it works out or not though is left to fate..


anything is always possible..question is who is really willing to invest the time....???? its like trying to find a needle in a hay stack...lol...

i know good people are out there and i know people need to get through the bad apples before getting to the good ones, but im thinking this internet thing breaks up relationships quicker than it can make them...there is way too much temptation out there up for grabs,..makes it easy for everyone to always be shoppin...smokin

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Fri 03/27/09 04:42 PM

Hey pringles aren't single many come in a can.. I have nothing on this topic just wanted to say they weren't single thats all...


waving


your input is always appreciated...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:33 PM
Edited by SoulMate36 on Fri 03/27/09 04:43 PM

<-------------------Only here to eat souls.


uh huh...that explains the red hair which i presume is covering up the horns holding up your haylo?...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:30 PM


Is there any women on here even serious enough to put some effort in actually meeting up?, or are they all here to only play message tag and make pen pal friends?...

lets take a head count...shall we.....waving



smitten Im here for youdrool


im not really into dolls or anything, got past that stage long time ago, but ok, thanks.,...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:29 PM

I'm here to meet someone in person, someone that will step up and step away from the computer -- BUT, I am having fun also. flowerforyou

I find most guys are only here for the chase of befriending someone on line but not wanting to take it further.

Alas, I still have hope! :banana:


your not a bad looking women, there is still hope..keep strong and give people a chance, cause without attempts, there are no rewards...

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Fri 03/27/09 04:21 PM

I am willing to meet and I have. However, I am just not going to meet someone after exchanging a couple emails. I prefer to spend sometime to get to know them first before deciding on meeting in person.


fair enough....gives you time to really get to know someone via txt but for how long can email tag last before an actual meet?....a week or so at most?..

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Fri 03/27/09 04:15 PM

I'm here to meet someone in person, someone that will step up and step away from the computer -- BUT, I am having fun also. flowerforyou

I find most guys are only here for the chase of befriending someone on line but not wanting to take it further.

Alas, I still have hope! :banana:


ok thats great Melody...thank you! :wink:

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Fri 03/27/09 04:13 PM

Ready and willing. You boys just aren't willing to drive 10+ hours to meet.:wink:


nothing tieing me down...im free to come and go whenever called upon...my new car runs great..im sure ill be able to drive 20+ hours if need be...lol

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Fri 03/27/09 04:03 PM

Dude, I think they are here to just mess wth our minds...frustrated


hmmm i could swear i must have made a wrong turn somewhere then cause the sign said "Free Date Site, Turn Left"...guess i should have made a right....lol

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Fri 03/27/09 03:59 PM
Edited by SoulMate36 on Fri 03/27/09 04:07 PM
Is there any women on here even serious enough to put some effort in actually meeting up?, or are they all here to only play message tag and make pen pal friends?...

lets take a head count...shall we.....waving

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Fri 03/27/09 03:45 PM

I think this only applies to those women who don't know how to properly wipe.


how hard can it be? everyone knows its standard, front to back...back to front is just oh so wrong..lol

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Fri 03/27/09 03:24 PM



If I loved him and wanted more than he was willing to give I couldn't NOW be in the friend zone... Why prolong the heartache??

Time and distancing from him will help. Good luck flowerforyou


I guess because I feel like I have noone else to go to. one major thing that I did forget to say is... I started dating him 2 weeks after my husband and I split up. When I was with my husband (5 years) I leveled off all of my friends. When we broke up, there was Jason, He was there for me is every possible way. I learned to open up to him. I started exploring new things in life with him. I guess I want atleast a friendship with him because he became such a crucial part of my life. I am not sure I can bare to have everything taken from beneath me at once. Its too much for me to take.


Ouch - rebound relationships can be the worst when they end. I do understand not wanting to lose your best friend, but honestly, the best possible thing you can do for yourself right now is take care of yourself. You have to give yourself time and space to mourn the relationship, both with your husband and with this guy. Until you do, any relationship you enter into is going to suffer from it.

It's hard to do, I know. But you have to take the time for yourself to be by yourself.


well said, ....i sence Leolion86
has a tad bit of insecurity...wanting to be with someone for the fear of being alone...

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