but this is so right, I'm evil on alternate Mondays and Wednesdays the other days of the week I am nice right?

You hit the nail on the head. They just want the hard ***** that treat them like ****...

Preaching to the choir here, I've done the same thing: Go to similar sites and meet several women and get something started, then BAM! Either they act like they dont want to hear from you anymore or they completely ignore you. Its weird and might I add abit rude when they do this despite the fact that they're always looking for a "nice", "HONEST", decent person. You'd think they'd respect you enough to say 'its not going to work out' or 'maybe I'm not ready to get into a particular relationship'. I mean we're all particularly adults on these sites so it baffles me how allegedly 'mature' women still play these childish games yet still whine that they cannot find a decent mate.

Salute.............

Not always true...... want my ex's phone number?

Point taken.... Just thought it was funny......

It's been said time and time again, but I'm going to repeat it here once more:
Stop looking for perfection. It doesn't exist. Don't settle and don't think you're going to change the person you're with. Deal with your past issues, put that crap to bed once and for all so they don't creep into your relationships again.
There are PLENTY of nice, caring, considerate, loyal and loving women and men in the world. They've been burned too and it's a bit of work sometimes to get past the b.s. to the inner person. Don't expect love at first sight, I mean really who believes in that anymore? Not saying it isn't possible, but it's not realistic.
Know what you want and know what you DON'T want. Don't rush into anything. Trust me, been down that road and it leads to more heartache on both sides.
You have to be patient, good things come with that. My Grandmother told me when I first started dating "You're gonna kiss alot of toads before you find that Prince". Until I do, I'll hold onto hope that the next one is IT for me. Hope you do too :)

WELL my thought are:
that the older we get the more crital we look at a person. The habits the way of doing things. We easily are irritated by little things of each other. But instead of talking about it, and find solutions, we easily fight about it. PLus when people are inlove, they easily rush things. For instance they know each other for 3 or 5 months, and they get married and live together. WHY?? why not just simply think it over, and just get to know each other with living together first for a year or maybe 2 years, then decide to get married. In those years you will get to know every little detail of each other every little irritation. IF YOU CAN OVERCOME THOSE THINGS, AND ARE STILL TOGETHER......YOUR MADE FOR EACH OTHER....thats my theory. BUT BE AWARE NO BODY IS PERFECT... CHERISH THE THINGS YOU HAVE, NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET. Take good care of each other - giving love is receiving love.

same reason its so hard to find a nice man - all been snapped up.

There are some real phony ******* out there for sure

But there are some of the nicest sweetest most wonderful women here

After being on a while. Either some one will send you the DANGER LIST

Or youll be able to spot them for yourself

Just take your time

They are out there!