Topic: I'm 34 he's 21.
singlemom74's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:05 AM
We dont talk anymore but let me tell you the men ive met on here on not much better and in some cases even worse.

GuardianAngelMan's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:18 AM

We dont talk anymore but let me tell you the men ive met on here on not much better and in some cases even worse.
You'll find your Happiness be strong my friend

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:37 AM

We dont talk anymore but let me tell you the men ive met on here on not much better and in some cases even worse.


The ONE woman I met on Match.com was a total LOOSER! I have yet to meet anyone and I sure as hell will not talk much or seriously to anyone without a pic.

I have no idea if I look weird and I do have a pic that is just a tad over a year old. Maybe it is that I am not rich but then again what would a rich guy be dong here unless he is super cheap.

Like anything it takes patience and being strong inside. I make no bones about wanting to get involved with a woman a lot younger than myself for several reasons. We all have some sort of standards we want. Some are open to compromise like if I met a woman I felt had her head squarely on her shoulders and was older than I am looking for or she has kids from a previous relationship but the reality of it is go for what you feel comfortable with and if things change with time move on. It is rare for any relationship to really work for more than two years.


Remember, the only two constants in life are change and death!

Filmfreek's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:44 AM
Pure and simple. You got played.

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:45 AM

We dont talk anymore but let me tell you the men ive met on here on not much better and in some cases even worse.
not all guy's are asshole's ....spock

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:52 AM
Live and learn, eh?

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:55 AM
TMI hon .. TMI

We do NOT need to know all that transpired between you. That's for your ears only :wink:

As to the age difference .. if you aren't used to dating younger it can certainly blow up in your face if you aren't cautious.

If you pursued him then it's gonna come across differently than the other way around.

And finally .. I've dated younger for 6 years. Up to 25 years younger than myself. Actually make that 30 years younger than myself. It's not always about sex darlin - but you gotta make sure to clarify that from the start.

IMHO

franshade's photo
Fri 03/20/09 11:59 AM
Geeeezzzzzzz Louise huh

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:14 PM
By the time you're 34 you forget how young 21 really is, if you see someone a lot. I mean, you see they are young, but you forget they have no developed long term-forest through the trees thing yet. Plus it sounds like this little brat is a judgmental drama inspriring little twit. JMO

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:19 PM

Just say bye~~!!!drinker

If you dont want that kind of bs in your life.....then dont allow that kind of crap into it. Seems simple.....and it is!!flowerforyou



You go girl. No maybe she should .. LOL

SOMEONE needs to go here ..

Duffy's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:25 PM
well u blond beauty...listen to dr. lilith40l AND.....
then, consider this. it used to be that therapists said no more than 12 years either way.....u have crossed over by one year. my addition says he is 13 years younger.

your bio says it....no players or something like that...
u have a daugher...spend more time doing things with her and that horse...find something like a "parent's without partners" group...they r more conservative and safe. the men there usually have kids which is something u would have in common. they r usually stunned by a divorce, but they are game for new activities, family related, and welcome women with children.

34 is so young....there are so many dating sites. hit them all with that lovely pix. about your "man" that went back to his gf...they do that for some reason. she is gone for a few hours, and so he entertains himself at the expense of another. u want this work of art.? or piece of schlick?
he was practicing with his fornicator......all the rubbing, touching and kissing. he was working u up, then said "nope". u fell for it cause of the feeling, and now u have residual pain, meaning it hurts, and u go back for more. go look in the mirror and ask yourself why u r doing this.....
pauline "duffy" harvey.flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:28 PM

And finally .. I've dated younger for 6 years. Up to 25 years younger than myself. Actually make that 30 years younger than myself. It's not always about sex darlin - but you gotta make sure to clarify that from the start.

IMHO


Yes, but 21 to 25 is like 100 years to guys. laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:35 PM


And finally .. I've dated younger for 6 years. Up to 25 years younger than myself. Actually make that 30 years younger than myself. It's not always about sex darlin - but you gotta make sure to clarify that from the start.

IMHO


Yes, but 21 to 25 is like 100 years to guys. laugh




yes that's true .. and me being 58 would be 28 .. you are right babe! Actually my soldier is 27 but what's a year when you already have 30 between you laugh

Duffy's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:37 PM
hey let us do the chick a favor. let us send her all the older men we do not want to talk to.
she will get over mr. 21 PDQ:wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:40 PM
pitchfork

trgirl's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:41 PM





peccy, cat got your tounge?oops

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:43 PM
Date his younger brother. That will piss him off.laugh

no photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:44 PM


And finally .. I've dated younger for 6 years. Up to 25 years younger than myself. Actually make that 30 years younger than myself. It's not always about sex darlin - but you gotta make sure to clarify that from the start.

IMHO


Yes, but 21 to 25 is like 100 years to guys. laugh


It really depends on the guy. Remember that men used to be married by 21 a while ago, and I would say that men that grow up today who are somewhat old fashioned still exist.

Nova86's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:49 PM

Is it mood swings or just typical 21 yr old behavior? laugh


check that for a second.....every 21 y/o (or young person for that matter) does not act the same

that is like saying EVERY 30 y/o acts the same and that they are of the same maturity

i am sick of people making generalizations based on age.....sounds like you need to grow up

no photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:52 PM


Is it mood swings or just typical 21 yr old behavior? laugh


check that for a second.....every 21 y/o (or young person for that matter) does not act the same

that is like saying EVERY 30 y/o acts the same and that they are of the same maturity

i am sick of people making generalizations based on age.....sounds like you need to grow up


For sure!!! I'm with you bro.