Is it just me or are their others out there, who are finding it really hard to find some decent men as friends, dates or a partner. Am sure i had my fair share of cheats and liars. I do not tar all men with the same brush, but i have just not met any that are any different, all want one thing .
I only want to find someone me and my daughter can be happy with, not to much to ask is it ????
Answers and comments on a postcard please

I've had my fair share of women like that over the years. My advice is to never blame yourself and to not give up.

I have found IMO that is that if you are happy with you First that the rest will follow....

Well Sassy,
It seems that most men do have that problem. They really are mostly concerned about the one thing. However, there are a few out there that dont look at sex as the one thing when they are looking. I have met a few women that were way more gung ho for sex before it even crossed my mind. They were even talking about it before we met. So, That was a short lived date. I have certain things that I dont do. First, I do not and never had a one night stand. I have never had sex on the first date. I want to get to know someone before I jump into bed with them. Not that I dont enjoy it, but its not all there is to a relationship. Just cull through the riff raff and one day , your prince charming will ride up and sweep you off your feet. Even though I do believe in Love at first sight, I also know that love developes over time. You can fall for someone very quickly, but to really love someone takes time. Loving someone isn't just sex, it is understanding that person and tolerating them through trial and tribulations, as well as the good times. Good luck in your search

yep...that's the way it works

Keep searching and don't get discouraged. Things will work out. Be happy with yourself and your daughter and things will fall into place.

Big thanks guys n girls, just get a bit fed up with it all sometimes, after being single for nearly 5 years now, just start to pick holes in myself and try to change too much
But your right, why change, people should like me as i am eh !!!

All I can say is be true to you, don't look for something to be right or wrong, and go out with just about anyone.

Just be ready..Things seem to happen when you least expect it..

There is nothing wrong with you, you have a brillant smile, that is sure to attract some decent gentleman your way

Where to begin

I don't think that there is anything wrong with you. All I can say is that there are plenty of guys out there that you are hoping to find. Just don't blink when you find them.

I agree, it is very hard to find a honest loyal partner ! i think we all have the same problem...

I am a single mother who spent 5 years alone because I didn't want my daughter raised with men in and out my door. Then an old b/f from way back came and found me. He promised he would never hurt me and my daughter who is now 10. He promised he would always be there ! After time he told my daughter he wanted to be her dad.....

So now it is a year and a half later of being with him and I find he has lied to us soo much ! He has been on dating sites and even went so far as to bring a young woman into his house to drink. He claims nothing happened, but it's not the point.

Why can't ppl be honest ? Why can't ppl be true ?

I can be!! I just need that someone to give me a chance

can i use a life line ?????

DARLING, IF YOU have just not met any that are any different, all want one thing, THAT MEANS YOU HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR REGULAR "FISHING HOLE" -- OTHERWISE YOU'RE DOOMED TO CATCH THE SAME KIND OF "FISH" OVER AND OVER AGAIN...

we have all had our fair share of relationship drama...sometimes when children are involved, it means the ex is eventually gonna pop out from the woods..children are always used as a pawn which allowes the ex to come and go as he pleases....too many people in the picture makes the situation of getting to know someone new, a conflict of interest...

ive ben single for 3 years now and have dated my fair share of women with children,... results always end up the same, therefore ive made the decision to try and devote my time and energy into someone with the same or (equal to) qualifications and credentials as me...i never had to paint women with the same brush before but from past experiences, ive learned what works for me and what doesnt...

all the best in finding the right guy for you

You are a good looking girl you are sure to find somone soon.

Yea... I think she might have found someone
































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