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Hlfmanhlfamazing I agree online is not the place to find a relationship. Even online you can find out if a person is lying to you.
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How do you know I didn't just "forget" a word and did I say it was the first one. Like I said, this ain't our first rodeo. We've seen thousands of threads exactly like this one. One person wrongs another, and suddenly that entire gender turns into horses asses....all because of one bad experience. Keith, that's a perception you've developed over time from being exposed to it on the forums, but truly, I do not think people mean the entire species when they make these threads. It's like when women get together and talk about their men, don't think you're not gonna hear at least one......."Why do men...." and I bet you guys in the locker room, or where ever....throw out a couple of "Why are women..." It's just letting off steam, venting. |
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If you have SUCH a problem with this topic then why even respond to any of them. That and most of yall are acting as if you've never said something wrong when you're mad. Who said it was just one bad experience because there have been times I have seen right through a man/boy when he was lying to me before ever getting involved. It's quite simple, really. We respond because you need to be set straight. YOU were the one who created the thread and asked the question. We answered them. You're not always going to like all the answers you get, especially if they're brutally honest. As for "saying something wrong when I'm mad", that's a non-issue as well. I pride myself on choosing my words carefully, and I certainly wouldn't bring a private matter into a public forum for the whole world to see, especially when the only side to be seen would be my own. There is not enough information to make an unbiased opinion. |
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Robbi, I get where you're coming from. I'm just saying it would be much wiser to THINK before writing out a rant. Choose the words you want to say carefully. That way, there's no misunderstanding.
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If you have SUCH a problem with this topic then why even respond to any of them. That and most of yall are acting as if you've never said something wrong when you're mad. Who said it was just one bad experience because there have been times I have seen right through a man/boy when he was lying to me before ever getting involved. It's quite simple, really. We respond because you need to be set straight. YOU were the one who created the thread and asked the question. We answered them. You're not always going to like all the answers you get, especially if they're brutally honest. As for "saying something wrong when I'm mad", that's a non-issue as well. I pride myself on choosing my words carefully, and I certainly wouldn't bring a private matter into a public forum for the whole world to see, especially when the only side to be seen would be my own. There is not enough information to make an unbiased opinion. And... I'm guessing that Keith, as well I, and most other adults would admit if they had made an error instead of continuing to defend an erroneous position... |
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If you have SUCH a problem with this topic then why even respond to any of them. That and most of yall are acting as if you've never said something wrong when you're mad. Who said it was just one bad experience because there have been times I have seen right through a man/boy when he was lying to me before ever getting involved. It's quite simple, really. We respond because you need to be set straight. YOU were the one who created the thread and asked the question. We answered them. You're not always going to like all the answers you get, especially if they're brutally honest. As for "saying something wrong when I'm mad", that's a non-issue as well. I pride myself on choosing my words carefully, and I certainly wouldn't bring a private matter into a public forum for the whole world to see, especially when the only side to be seen would be my own. There is not enough information to make an unbiased opinion. I never said I had objections to honesty. No matter how brutal. Even if you don't voice them the thoughts still go through your head I'm I right |
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 I give up. Mitch, it's all yours. |
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I give up. Mitch, it's all yours. Seems pointless to me too. I'm going to see if I can order a WTF blanket. If I hurry I can get a free light with it. |
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Gotta love humans cause you're one of us lol Bye
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HMM I have read this whole entire thread and it is not ALL men or ALL women!! I do think that sometimes we pick the wrong people to date and we fall into a pattern. Obviously I think that is what you have have done BZMOM01. BUT until you realize that you do pick the same type of men, then nothing will change.
I suggest that you read a book called "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant, it explains how you can fall into patterns of dating the same type of people and then it tells you how to get out of that pattern. Until we take blame in past relationships, we can't grow. Not every relationship is perfect BUT it seems like you need to find you someone that is totally different from the past. Good Luck 
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HMM I have read this whole entire thread and it is not ALL men or ALL women!! I do think that sometimes we pick the wrong people to date and we fall into a pattern. Obviously I think that is what you have have done BZMOM01. BUT until you realize that you do pick the same type of men, then nothing will change. I suggest that you read a book called "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant, it explains how you can fall into patterns of dating the same type of people and then it tells you how to get out of that pattern. Until we take blame in past relationships, we can't grow. Not every relationship is perfect BUT it seems like you need to find you someone that is totally different from the past. Good Luck |
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Why do men think women are so stupid that we won't find out their lying to us? I don't care if it's cheating or what we're gonna find out just like men do. Some of us don't lie, or have anything to hide. I think you should have said "some men". Dennis |
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the more i talk to fellas i realize there are many women that are deceptive as well
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I say expect the worst, and hope for the best when it comes to men cheating.
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I say expect the worst, and hope for the best when it comes to men cheating. Well THERE'S a nice, shiny outlook on it. Let's not actually look for the one who won't cheat. Let's just grab one and cross our fingers that he won't. : shakes head : |
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I say expect the worst, and hope for the best when it comes to men cheating. Well THERE'S a nice, shiny outlook on it. Let's not actually look for the one who won't cheat. Let's just grab one and cross our fingers that he won't. : shakes head : LMAO Nice point |
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I say expect the worst, and hope for the best when it comes to men cheating. Well THERE'S a nice, shiny outlook on it. Let's not actually look for the one who won't cheat. Let's just grab one and cross our fingers that he won't. : shakes head : LMAO Nice point Thanks. There have been many times that I have found my job around here is to point out the obvious....lol |
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well it usually takes them a while and the ride is fun....
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men are just like woman.!!!
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