Topic: Why do men
Jim519's photo
Wed 02/11/09 04:17 PM

Why do men think women are so stupid that we won't find out their lying to us? I don't care if it's cheating or what we're gonna find out just like men do.


Probably the same reason why women think men are stupid to not find out when she is lying

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Wed 02/11/09 04:18 PM

Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.

Thanks I do mean Most. Like I said I'm peeved at my ex. That and quite honestly all 4 of my ex's were liars.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:20 PM


Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.


I disagree. She said this: some reason men seem to think they can get away with it more.


And then she backtracked, as I suspected, because it's really an issue with her ex. Please...


Yep, usually these types of questions are about an ex or current interest. This is just a way of phrasing without naming-names, pointing fingers, and it's generally coming someone who is hurting or disappointment and just really wants a place to lash out and a bit of comfort

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Wed 02/11/09 04:21 PM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 02/11/09 04:21 PM


Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.

Thanks I do mean Most. Like I said I'm peeved at my ex. That and quite honestly all 4 of my ex's were liars.



So let me get this straight. you've made bad choices create a gender bashing thread because of your issues then backtrack? Do I have this correct? Okay then, what now? Do I get insulted or reported because I called you on this?

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Wed 02/11/09 04:22 PM
Sorry, I see this day after day after day. It's both sexes and it is constant.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:23 PM
There again lilbug

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Wed 02/11/09 04:23 PM
Lilbug, why do we have to assume she did not mean all men? Why? Let her say SOME or a FEW. Why make excuses?

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Wed 02/11/09 04:24 PM


Why do men think women are so stupid that we won't find out their lying to us? I don't care if it's cheating or what we're gonna find out just like men do.


Probably the same reason why women think men are stupid to not find out when she is lying

Thank you!

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Wed 02/11/09 04:24 PM
People should know their words carry weight and choose them with care. Every time I do not I get slammed.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:25 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Wed 02/11/09 04:27 PM
Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad relationships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:25 PM



Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.

Thanks I do mean Most. Like I said I'm peeved at my ex. That and quite honestly all 4 of my ex's were liars.



So let me get this straight. you've made bad choices create a gender bashing thread because of your issues then backtrack? Do I have this correct? Okay then, what now? Do I get insulted or reported because I called you on this?

No you're not getting reported yet lol and I have no reason to insult you either Sorry if I did

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Wed 02/11/09 04:25 PM

I think this is an issue with Liars, not men. Smaller subset.

I agree! Sounds to me like the women are hanging out with boys, not men. Stop talking to crap and you won't have a need for that question anymore.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:26 PM

Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad realtionships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.





Bingo!!

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Wed 02/11/09 04:27 PM

Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad relationships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.

2nd

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Wed 02/11/09 04:28 PM

Why do men think women are so stupid that we won't find out their lying to us? I don't care if it's cheating or what we're gonna find out just like men do.


Because SOME men have learned: from experience; that they can lie, get laid (or other perks), and get away with it for at least a short amount of time with SOME women and that is enough for them.

If you have been played like this live and learn to take your time and let a guy show what HE is before you lump all guys in the same boat.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:28 PM


Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.

Thanks I do mean Most. Like I said I'm peeved at my ex. That and quite honestly all 4 of my ex's were liars.


So 1 man. Not all, not most, but 1.


Ball 2

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Wed 02/11/09 04:28 PM

Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad relationships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.



Very accurate

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Wed 02/11/09 04:29 PM

Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad realtionships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.

NO it's not my fault one lied about my consent on things, another lied about being married and then two lied about cheating on me.

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Wed 02/11/09 04:30 PM
I don't think that's the issue here. The true issue women...is why are you attracting or are attracted to liers? You all need to look into yourselves and find the true problem, cuz once you do this then you won't be around liers to even worry about asking such a silly question!

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Wed 02/11/09 04:30 PM

Lilbug, why do we have to assume she did not mean all men? Why? Let her say SOME or a FEW. Why make excuses?


I don't see it as an excuse. It's just a manner of speaking. I think it rather obvious she and others who do this do not mean ALL, but some or one in particular, or in this case, 4.