I love Donny Osmond.

Well "nice guys" continue the forum battle.. need to get ready for a date.

Best of luck to you all

i cant imagine ignoring physical attraction! This is a huge sacrafice and i dont know why? i mean the experience of a beautiful women is the best feeling in the world why do i have to say i dont want that or i am shallow? doesnt make sense!

Awe...aren't you the nice guy that would go out of his way to kiss someone with rotting teeth.

To each their own!

I second, or third, that

QUOTE:

"and if the person isn't attracted to you because you are nice to them, how come the fault has to lay on them? i mean, could there possibly be something about you that doesn't turn their crank? just because a guy is 'nice' it doesn't necessarily mean that women will be panting for him. personally, chemistry and rapport will be what dictates whether the relationship will progress."

^^^ That woman who posted this clearly knows her sh*t! I applaude you for your comment. Couldn't have typed it better.

Lower your standards & start dating














(Joking)

Good luck.
Don't judge off of looks!
Love her for her "personality"- even if her teeth are rotting out of her mouth- Be the "nice guy"

-You would suffer from "princess syndrome" if you decided any other way

Most of the guys I talk to aren't male models, and my friends ask me why am I talking to them? I just say that there is something inside the person that shines thru and that if they would just give the person a chance, they would find someone very special.

One man at my job is a prime example....big biker dude, not fat just a big build, tattoos, had a strange haircut for a while. I would watch this guy when he came into the cafeteria and I could see he had "something special." There is a mentally handicapped man working there also and he would yell about the strange haircut.

He challenged the big guy to an arm wrestling match, winner shaves the other guys head. Biker let the other guy win and let him shave his head on cam and it is on youtube.

Ever since that day......this guy can have the pick of any woman at work...even my friend who didn't think he was good looking at first.

(Before anyone asks, yes Jon met him, and he even bought Jon coffee because he forgot cash when he came to my job).

So, my point is........even if the person who is speaking to you, isn't a "centerfold" get to know them. They just might surprise you and that will be all that matters.

Hmmm....struck a nerve, did I?

That guy cracks me up

Absolutely not.
You don't make sense- to me.
That is funny!

I agree with her ^ because she's pretty and I bet she's real nice too.

ROFLMAO!!!!

I judge by looks cause Im a D1ck

not enough pictures for me to judge but ya look ok to me just too young lol

Why do you judge by looks?


Looks are NOT that important...it is the fact that the person can relate to me and care about me..
Everything else can then start to grow..

BUT,,,,DAMN questions,,,,,lol

I find big women NOT someone I am able to be sexual with!
There's some truth.








Here we go...

Hey OP.

Here's the ONE KEY THING that you need to remember.

If you look around, you will see that men outnumber women here by about 3 to 1.

The women can pick whatever they like.

All things being equal, chances are that the way you look will be the determining factor in whether they decide to talk to you.

So, what you're saying is, I need a prettier towel? Something from the Martha Stewart line maybe?

It is just my opinion but I think maybe you are making sweeping generalizations that are not neccesarily true.

At your age your experiences are still quite limited. While you may have awaken to a slightly more realistic view of people you have a ways to go.

Attraction is really more about how a person is percieved. I take just about any magazine of the so called "beautiful" people and most of them have some "issue" that in the strictest sense or definition they aren't.

I believe a lot of it is the vibe you give off. Is it closed, tense, distant, defensive? Or open, relaxed, engageing, and huggable. I read your text and I get a completely different vibe of who you are than what your picture projects. I don't know for sure how a younger woman would relate to your picture but to me it doesn't do anything for you. It's like you don't even want to introduce yourself to the camera much less a woman. No smile, hostile folded arms, kind of grungy looking clothes in a dark depressing background. Your hair and facial hair seem like an after thought. If that is typical I would give you the benifit of the doubt that it is just trying to be yourself and not draw attention to yourself but that doesn't work real well in trying to be noticed for a date. Even great looking guys have to spiff it up a little and be engageing or they come off as snobs.

Girls generally want a guy with a career not a couple of low paying part-time jobs. It isn't selfish not to want to live hand to mouth and see your children do without while you and your mate struggle to keep from going under. If you don't mention you are working for beter as a young man you look like a slacker.

There was a lot of talk about preference but some guys just don't get it is some times about looks. Some gals want blonde some want brunette and others want a red head. Maybe they like long hair others short. There are a hundred reason someone will accept or pass on your looks and it isn't right or wrong.