nope...first its physical....I'm guessing 99% of the time...just like going into a bar to pick up a chick...physical attraction always first...now...what do you like or what do you find attractive...thats where we're all different

I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I also believe I have to have an attraction to my guy physically...I mean...If I have to be in your mouth or have you grunting on top of me, I at least require clean teeth and someone that knows how to take care of themselves...

I have been attracted to men that noone else thought was good looking. It is the attraction NOT the looks.

Etrain nailed it. What I find attractive physically may not be what someone else finds attractive physically. EVERYONE makes a first impression based on appearance...

It can all be summed up with just one word:

Preference.

while i'm not very good at knowing whether i'd be romantically interested in someone based on a photo and a few lines in their profile, i can certainly ascertain within an email or two whether there'd be enough interest to at least pursue a friendship with them.

that is what i'd base my my continued responses on, not the way that they looked in their photo. and i have found that the greater my attraction and love, the better looking the person becomes.

a big difference i've noticed between men and women with regards to internet dating, and maybe just dating in general is that the man (most times) is expecting instant and immediate attraction whereas the woman (in many instances) finds that attraction is something that is built up over many dates and/or emails.

when the man doesn't get the instant reaction that he wants, he stops calling the woman. if he'd persisted, he may have found that her level of interest increased as they got to know each other.



well better to get away fast! Less complicated

Ok that was blunt, goes both ways btw.

not necessarily true i like a stocky guy not fat or ugly but it is in the eye of the beholder and attraction preferences.

*yawning* How do you spell Raspberries?

ok then its preference or maybe a beneficial thing who knows

Because pretty women are nicer. Ugly women are always so bitter.

another one of these topics sheesh

Internet dating is totally different than meeting a guy in a bar. The biggest turn off for me is reading a profile full of spelling errors and misuse of common words (your, you're).

I know it...

I can only speak for myself right?!?!

glad i don't worry about any of this, unless they have a vampire fetish, they run like hell
even the ones with the fetish are scared.....

Aw, Christ....here we go....

yes yes cleanliness is a must, and excercise, is it too much to ask? how about set down the "bon Bons?" Can we ask for that too? Or plastic boobs, do we have to like plastic boobs? i will think of more...