Topic: I'm Confused.
Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 10:34 PM

This is what I refer to people like this................THEY DIDNT GET NO HOME TRAINING AT HOME................thats a winner there.........and he is single go figure.........laugh laugh


I'm wondering if his mom waited on him too much.

Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 10:35 PM



I'd say if it's your kid then what you want goes. If you want them to wear a helmet all the time they should no matter what this guys thinks. As far as helping out...I agree. He sounds a little lazy. I don't see why guys can't help out around the house even without being asked...that's just me.


I think they should help without being asked.


that's a no sh*tter

soounds like the "git in the kitchen and get me a beer type"




My father said that about him. Seriously.laugh

monkdog8888's photo
Fri 01/16/09 10:39 PM

I am not one to put my personal business on here. But...I'm trying to figure out this guy.

My child was sick. He stayed with my child and watched TV with them while I went to the grocery store. It was dark, cold, and raining.

I came back from the store and asked him if he would help carry the groceries into the house. I had already made a trip. Btw, I have a bunch of steps out front. He stood in the door and asked, "Well, aren't you going to help?"

I told him that while he was watching TV, I was loading the car up with groceries while holding an umbrella in the rain and cold and dark. Couldn't he help bring the groceries in? He said that when someone asks for help, that means that he's helping them and not doing it all.

Another time he was getting to broil a steak. I have a new stove and the broiler pan was dusty. He stood by the sink and as I walked into the kitchen, he asked if I would wash it. I asked him if the sink was too far from him. He washed it.

This week he watched my child while I went somewhere for an hour. I was running late. I made dinner, feed them and flew out the door. When I came back I saw that the remaining food was still on the stove. I asked him why he didn't put the food in the refrigerator. He said that I didn't ask him to do that. He then said, "Well, you ate too."

He thinks my child doesn't need to wear a bike helmet when riding the new adult sized bike they got for Christmas. Said my child didn't need it to ride on the sidewalk of my street but would need it if riding around the park. I want my child to wear it all of the time. I just put this in here to show how he thinks.

Sorry it's so long.ohwell








Wait till it's a rainy night. Throw left overs at him, throw him out of the house and run him over with a bicycle.

Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 10:41 PM

no respect for you< your ideas for your child doesnt matter and hes teaching your child to not respect you also>
and a freaking mooch< mooching your food that u cook> lazy azz !!!....sorry winx i tried to be nice!!!laugh laugh further more hes using ya... drop the couch potato!


I did cook dinner knowing he was coming straight from work and we were eating anyway. I offered.

I am concerned about what my child sees.

no photo
Fri 01/16/09 10:51 PM
:angry:
Why are you putting up with this?
You don't need a big,lazy,smartmouthed kid hanging out out your place & telling your child that your rules don't have to be respected. You deserve so much more!

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Fri 01/16/09 11:04 PM
grumble grumble grumble


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 11:17 PM

maybe he doesn't see having to be asked to help as anything wrong. i certainly don't. most people don't just jump up and offer help if they think you've got it handled.


most don't. just the polite and considerate ones


Word!!! Except I thought that most did offer to help.

Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 11:18 PM



I've never been a bicycle helmet advocate, but that's just me. I never wore one, and I still don't. I took my share of spills as a kid, but I never aimed for my head as the first place I would land, as apparently people these days do.

That explains alot
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


laugh neener neener neener

I dunno about the helmet thing BUT, your kid your rules and joke him if he can't take a...
well you know

EDIT: I finally read this whole thread and decided, yeah I would run his ass off and ignore some of the people who seem to think you should compromise your principles just for the sake of keeping a crappy dude in your house


Yeah, I've got principles.

Winx's photo
Fri 01/16/09 11:19 PM

Winx, I have yet to have a man in my life who I cooked for that would not get the groceries right away when I got home with them so that is something to think about seriously. spock


Me, either, Dragoness.flowerforyou That's why this is such a surprise to me.

Winx's photo
Sat 01/17/09 01:05 AM

start sending him to the store!!! and paying for the damn groceries after all u are doing all the cooking anc cleaning!!! oh wait then make him cook and clean too while u are at it!


He pays for dinner one night and the next time he's here for dinner, I take care of it.

Winx's photo
Sat 01/17/09 01:01 PM

He's not a Spam eater!!!


I asked. He's not.laugh

Winx's photo
Sat 01/17/09 07:06 PM

Humm I read this and the question comes to mind is this actually a guy you are in a relationship with per say?

And ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh my Gawd if you say yes girl open that front door and say seeeeeeee yaaaaaaaaa!!!

I mean I get more response out of my son then you do this guy what you said should be a no brainier he gets up and help bring in the grocers. And common since tells them to put up the food. noway noway


I know.tears

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Sat 01/17/09 07:11 PM
i dont know, it sounds a little mixed to me. the tic for tac thing is a little childish and the boy with the helment is a little ridiculous if you ask me.

Winx's photo
Sat 01/17/09 07:36 PM

sounds quite rude to me and you deserve way better Winx


Thank you, Tina.flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/20/09 11:12 AM
Winx... after reading the initial post, a few things popped into my head.

The first thing is he is WICKED passive aggressive. He is controlling, resentful, gamey, manipulative, and well, an asshole. He thinks he is funny and witty, when in fact he is just an asshole. Did I mention I think he is an asshole? Do I need to say the rest? laugh

His behavior will amplify, IMO.

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Tue 01/20/09 11:18 AM
What happens?????


What happened on the days of our mingle lives?????

Does she dump idiot lazy mama's boy????


Or does she stay?????huh


Stay tuned next week!!!laugh drinker

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/20/09 11:22 AM
As opposite as you 2 are, what are you keeping him around for??


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Tue 01/20/09 11:25 AM

As opposite as you 2 are, what are you keeping him around for??


I would make him into a b*tch boy!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

OooooooooooopS!!! Muriellllllll shadddddddap your terrible!!!noway devil noway

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Tue 01/20/09 11:27 AM


As opposite as you 2 are, what are you keeping him around for??


I would make him into a b*tch boy!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

OooooooooooopS!!! Muriellllllll shadddddddap your terrible!!!noway devil noway


You are bad.....lol

I'm hoping she gives us an update. Maybe he shaped up?

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Tue 01/20/09 11:28 AM
yeahhhhhhhhh c'mon Winxie!!

where do we stand?

is he on the street yet?