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As opposite as you 2 are, what are you keeping him around for?? 
OooooooooooopS!!! Muriellllllll shadddddddap your terrible!!!  
It was Muriel......she's terrible!!!
You are bad.....lol I'm hoping she gives us an update. Maybe he shaped up? |
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Cat got yer tongue there Gypsy?.....
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Gypsy is
Muriel is terrible!!
IT WAS MURIEL I SWEAR!!!!~
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I have to admit I didn't read all the posts. Here is a couple things I feel needs to be clarified a bit. Does he live there? If not then I think it is a thing of boundaries not being overstepped and his comment about unloading the groceries is acceptable.
The helmet issue isn't his to even comment on. Again if he doesn't live there I don't see him help around the house at all. Sorry that is my take. Now if he lives there totally a different take on this subject. You are being taken advantage of. You do state you assume well we all know what that word means broken done. Never ever assume anything. I would sit down with him, talk to him concisely and since he appears to be a bit dense I would speak in a language I would use to a five year old and I would also tell him this is it I am not going to argue or raise another child. So the ball is in his court on what he chooses to do... this is what I am going to choose to do period, then that is exactly what I would do. Before I break up with anyone I always wait till the pain of staying is worse than the pain of leaving. That usually is my call to say I am done. Since when I state those words I mean it I am done and there is no changing my mind. Good luck. |
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My vote is get rid of this bum!
just saying 
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My vote is get rid of this bum! just saying
Agreed! I thought it was supposed to be 50/50 and definitely not the case here |
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I am not one to put my personal business on here. But...I'm trying to figure out this guy. My child was sick. He stayed with my child and watched TV with them while I went to the grocery store. It was dark, cold, and raining. I came back from the store and asked him if he would help carry the groceries into the house. I had already made a trip. Btw, I have a bunch of steps out front. He stood in the door and asked, "Well, aren't you going to help?" I told him that while he was watching TV, I was loading the car up with groceries while holding an umbrella in the rain and cold and dark. Couldn't he help bring the groceries in? He said that when someone asks for help, that means that he's helping them and not doing it all. Another time he was getting to broil a steak. I have a new stove and the broiler pan was dusty. He stood by the sink and as I walked into the kitchen, he asked if I would wash it. I asked him if the sink was too far from him. He washed it. This week he watched my child while I went somewhere for an hour. I was running late. I made dinner, feed them and flew out the door. When I came back I saw that the remaining food was still on the stove. I asked him why he didn't put the food in the refrigerator. He said that I didn't ask him to do that. He then said, "Well, you ate too." He thinks my child doesn't need to wear a bike helmet when riding the new adult sized bike they got for Christmas. Said my child didn't need it to ride on the sidewalk of my street but would need it if riding around the park. I want my child to wear it all of the time. I just put this in here to show how he thinks. Sorry it's so long. 
I'm confused here. Is he the babysitter? |
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