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Topic: Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks Thread
CChristo's photo
Fri 01/09/09 06:14 PM
would draw a clear distinction between being intellectually intimidating (Lex might fall into that category) and just being a bully.


Excellent distinction ~ intimidation always starts with our intellect, sometimes backed up with physical intimidation. But either way, being intimidating IS different than being a bully; bully's pick on the weak, because inside THEY are the weak ones. As a former intimidator, I did it because I had the false idea I was The ****. Wrong. Just glad I grew up.

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Fri 01/09/09 06:16 PM
Lex......your just toooo Dayummmmm sexy for your.....







Brain.........

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some folks just dont get ....IT.

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msmyka's photo
Fri 01/09/09 06:16 PM
I still think we need Members Only jackets with an official ANCJ logo ... just sayin. smokin

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 01/09/09 06:20 PM
The point of that whole issue is that I'm getting tired of being referred to as "intimidating" simply because I can write in complete sentences. I've heard this literally dozens of times in the past few months, and I simply don't understand it.

If a properly-constructed sentence is "intimidating," I might as well just embrace it and play along....

In this context I can so understand. I immediately thought of so many threads I have seen by women that say "Why do men think I am intimdating or Why does Imtimidating women turn men off." Sorry that was the first thought that ran through my head. I guess I don't find it intimidating, I find someone that can do this with the ease and grace as I see many do, (great writing skills) as a person with a rare talent. Since I for one struggle with proper grammer and spelling sentence structure well, I am happy if someone can understand what I am trying to convey.constantly. I know this is not an area I excel at; I choose to accept this and move on.

I guess for me, since I have such a pet peeve for labels and name calling I could go the other way a bit to far. I, for myself choose to meet each person where they are at a lot of time and not where I think they should be.

I honestly have never found you intimidating in any way shape or form. Articulate, a person with a great grasp of the written verbage yes, Intimidating never .. intriguing at times yes.

I also have to agree with Krimsa I have never found you a bully either straight forward and to the point. In my mind that is so much easier to deal with than the other type.


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Fri 01/09/09 06:27 PM
Most narcissistic, arrogant, or chauvanistic partners I have had turned out to be very vulnerable, almost fragile, and scared underneath it all. Most were hurting. It still doesn't excuse a person from being accountable for their own actions and what they say. It in no way gives them free reign to harm another; but, people will always take what is offered or left vulnerable. Be aware and protect yourself. It can be very damaging and draining to be in relationships with these types.

freeonthree's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:21 PM

I've always admitted that a level of narcisissm in a man is hot to me.


What is "narcisissm" ?

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:35 PM

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:35 PM


I've always admitted that a level of narcisissm in a man is hot to me.


What is "narcisissm" ?
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luv2knowya's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:36 PM

Enough with the nice guys, already. This thread is for the arrogant narcissistic conceited jerks of the world, such as myself, who strive mightily to avoid ever being perceived, in any way, as "nice."

Also, this would be a good time for the people who enjoy the arrogant narcissistic conceited jerks to come out and say so. Maybe, with enough research and dedication, we can put an end to "nice guys" in our own lifetime. A lofty goal, admittedly -- but think of the world we would have!




MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:38 PM
laugh I have been called arrogant and narcisistic before by a couple of xgf's.laugh

:tongue: I prefer to call it confidence.:tongue:

luv2knowya's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:39 PM
lol! Got ahead of myself! I was laughing at this thread!rofl rofl rofl

*Rolls up sleeves* Atta boy OP! Now we're talkin' lol!

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Fri 01/09/09 07:41 PM
Edited by AmberRose on Fri 01/09/09 07:42 PM
Youre just weird
all of you are weird

all you cs people are just really weird
a good weird but still weird

weird weird weird
youre all so weird it's weird

I like it here but I am not weird
is this weird that I like people who are weird

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:42 PM

laugh I have been called arrogant and narcisistic before by a couple of xgf's.laugh

:tongue: I prefer to call it confidence.:tongue:




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Fade2Black's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:46 PM
Narcisstic is kinda sexy love in an annoying kinda way yawn

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:47 PM

Narcisstic is kinda sexy love in an annoying kinda way yawn


:banana: Its better than being a "nice guy":banana:

Krimsa's photo
Fri 01/09/09 07:48 PM

Youre just weird
all of you are weird

all you cs people are just really weird
a good weird but still weird

weird weird weird
youre all so weird it's weird

I like it here but I am not weird
is this weird that I like people who are weird


Are you telling me that Im redundant? That I repeat myself? That I say the same thing over and over?

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Sat 01/10/09 04:19 AM

I think the true narcissist person will never admit it how can they that would be a fault. They don't have any for long. Remember...

You are right. It IS extremely rare. However, it is not impossible. When you DO see it, it usually means that they have found self awareness and that there is HOPE for them. Yay! flowerforyou

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 01/10/09 04:27 AM
indifferent

s1owhand's photo
Sat 01/10/09 04:38 AM

Enough with the nice guys, already. This thread is for the arrogant narcissistic conceited jerks of the world, such as myself, who strive mightily to avoid ever being perceived, in any way, as "nice."

Also, this would be a good time for the people who enjoy the arrogant narcissistic conceited jerks to come out and say so. Maybe, with enough research and dedication, we can put an end to "nice guys" in our own lifetime. A lofty goal, admittedly -- but think of the world we would have!


poor, arrogant narcissistic conceited jerk

poor, poor, arrogant narcissistic conceited jerk

poor, poor, poor, arrogant narcissistic conceited jerk

:cry:

krupa's photo
Sat 01/10/09 05:51 AM
I dig my self-centered and concieted vanity...makes me into the guy I am today...helps to off-set my good natured and happy politeness.

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