If I make any typos posting on this thread, it's because I have a mirror in front of my computer monitor.

Booo!! I was hoping we could all get Members Only jackets with the A.N.C.J.T logo on it!

That would be HOT!

And sansabelt slacks? Spray on hair?

See, at least someone shares my vision.

Its Narcissus himself.

I hate going to funerals because it's not about me.

I always knew that someday, someone would see through that Pete_Man mask........

It's great to see me on the thread, isn't it?

Well, I've seen a few more guys show up to admit that they're just as arrogant, narcissistic, conceited, and jerklike as I am. And that's good. Because we all need to embrace our ANCJ, we need to "get in touch" with our "inner ANCJ" (as Dr. Phil might say), if we are to fulfill ourselves and our lives by making everyone else in the world feel inferior and intimidated.

If that isn't a worthwhile life's ambition, then I don't know what is.

However, we do seem to be somewhat lacking here in the number of women who have arrived to say that they truly prefer the ANCJ. After 63,882,052 "nice guy" threads, I just naturally assumed that most of the women on here would be ready for something different.

This, of course, once again, proves that I know absolutely nothing about women.

i am so like loving this post it's almost like home sweet home these are tears of joy

Free at last....

It's like finally coming home, isn't it?

yes Lex it is and i have you to thank...keep up the good work

Well I could be stepping into a land mine since this thread is about honesty I will go for it.

I think the true narcissist person will never admit it how can they that would be a fault. They don't have any for long. Remember...

Jerks... smerks.. I think each and everyone of us can be a jerk at times the trick it to pick and choose when is the best timing for the best effect wanted.

I have only seen one post about Vanity I will also hit upon that one. Each one of us is vain in our own way. I know I am... I expect the man that gets my heart will also be or why would I want someone that doesn't know their own worth.

I find that most people that think they are intimidating aren't really they are just delusional. I don't waste my time.

I find a person that tells me; really I am nice... Yeah right 24/7 Really I bet the next thing you are going to tell me is that you don't ever tell any kind of a lie in any way shape or form. I am not buying it.

I, for one am so damn sick and tired of the labels. I refuse to pick up a label and wear it like a hair shirt. I am me, and what I want is someone that is just as real and can be just as much of a mess at times as I can be, can be just as sweet and nice and just as much of an ass as I can be at times.

I also believe the person that looks me in the eye and tells me they will never lie to me I know they just did, because every person in the right circumstance will lie to you no matter what.

Any person that is one way all the time would be so one dimensional I would be bored stiff in a matter of minutes let alone hours.

I also believe you get what you project so it is up to you to project what you want and what you are looking for.

While I am on a roll here is something I have observed over and over in people. So many people are so damn desperate to belong to someone that they settle over and over and wonder why it doesn't work. I have seen so many threads about why didn't it work. Well because you weren't compatible in the first place.

Well that is my two cents on honesty for a Friday night Folks been a hard week hope I didn't offend to many people with my brand of honesty.

Having "been there" many more times than most will ever be in their lifetimes, all I can say is, "be careful what you wish for; you just might get it"....and it is really not what you think it is at all.

And that's another point of this whole thing....



The point of that whole issue is that I'm getting tired of being referred to as "intimidating" simply because I can write in complete sentences. I've heard this literally dozens of times in the past few months, and I simply don't understand it.

If a properly-constructed sentence is "intimidating," I might as well just embrace it and play along....



Which, ideally, should ultimately be true of any person who is more than one-dimensional.

... This is an interesting post, obviously starting off in a humerous way, but hitting a chord with the Uber confident amongst us. When I was younger, I wasn't confident, I was arrogant ~ I KNEW I was better, stronger, smarter, faster, and I thrived on the 'power' of intimidation. No better rush than getting in another guys face, challenging, and winning either because they back down or you're the one who walked away better off. As I grew into myself, I started to realize that being a **** to someone for no reason just made ME look like an asshole.Funny how that works. So now, I am still an extremely confident sort of guy, in alot of areas, but it is tempered by understanding who I am as a man, knowing what my limits are, and respecting other people as who they are. But I have to admit, every once in a while, when that guy cuts in front of you to steal that parking spot in front of Costco 2 days before Christmas, when you've been waiting for 15 minutes, it sure would be fun to have a personal conversation with him ...

I would draw a clear distinction between being intellectually intimidating (Lex might fall into that category) and just being a bully.

Really good perspectives Rain and Christo! Very well put....But, you guys forgot to mention how great I am. hahahaha