Oooo...a Piers Anthony style pun. Well done.


I'd love puns...probably going to "pun hell" someday but will enjoy the conversation! LOL!

Just thinking about the NEXT cat I get...tending the litterbox is disgusting. I wouldn't try to train the old-lady-baby I have now but it's worth considering for any newcomers :)

Given that I just GOT a job with a non-profit...
dress pants and a shirt or nice under-knit (T or sweater, etc) jacket and modest heels (nothing to do with height...just not too much flash.) Apparently it worked for me :) You could also do a dress but it should be a business professional, but not 'high end executive' style IMO. Good luck! What non-prof/job are you looking at? Email me the details???

Ways to get over the winter blues oh wise one?????

Who will win the big game tomorrow JAG?

Should we cheer for the underdog or the favorite?

Well...according to some....I have been annoying for around 8000 posts now. LOL

Feed peanut butter to the dog. Even better....feed it to the CAT.

Always works for me....lmao

GO CARDINALS!!!!

ALWAYS root for the underdog.

Allrighty JAG< i need help why are women so ruthless and evil???

Is romantic love an unachievable thing? Or is it something that just eludes me? lol

Not all of them are.

If you repeatedly run into the ones that are, you might want to take a look around and think about where you are meeting them.

It is a very achievable thing. But it also a very elusive, ethereal thing.

I think it's there for everyone to find. Some just take longer to see it than others.

I've got the crud! How long will I have to wait to see the Dr today?

Do you believe Phil's forcast of 6 more weeks of winter?

Have you thawed out yet at all, JAG?

Why won't the Dr just RX me the same thing I get 2x a year without a day's wait and an appointment???

(I swear, the next friend to go to Mexico is gonna bring me some antibiotics to keep on hand!)

JAG...what's a man's perspective on this:

One person THINKS they might be in a relationship that has potential even though it is, to date, unspoken & so they aren't really SURE about the status. That same person gets asked out for a casual date by someone else...but has a little heartburn over the idea of that. Would it be cheating or damning the possibility of the first/hoped for relationship or is it just 'okay' & maybe even smart to give someone else a chance given that nothing has been clearly defined?

I know my gut feeling...just wondering what you think & if a male perspective is different.

Does it matter if it's the girl being asked out by a guy or the guy being asked out by another girl?

I'm not sure what the " crud " is....but it CAN'T be good....lol

My best guess...3 hours.

Phil hasn't been all that accurate lately. At least not for the weather around here.

My question is....how can they say that he saw his shadow, but then show a shot of the sky and it was freaking CLOUDY???

How would it be possible for him to see anything BUT his shadow with all those stupid tv lights around?

My perspective....stop thinking so damn much.

The " potential " relationship is ' unspoken '.

Someone asks someone out...go out.

You ( just saying the word, not pointing at anything in particular ) can't sit around waiting for someone else to figure out if they want to make the " relationship " a spoken one.

Either ask the other....or go out.

Hey JAG

Got a serious one for you.

I asked advise before about taking a chance with a gal six years older with three kids. Maybe you still remember. Her being older & having kids hasn't been an issue whatsoever & thanks again for the advise.

We both fell head over heels & were doing great till last Saturday I got a call from her. We were planning for her to come to the church I attend to hear me play guitar & she wanted to check it out there since she hadn't found one she liked here yet. After, we were planning on going to the beach together. Well, she told me that she didn't feel it was right to come to a church that my x had attended & where people knew I wasn't yet officially divorced.

I've been separated since October of '07; over a year & haven't yet filed for divorce. This is mainly because I kept putting it off & didn't know how to go about it & can't really afford legal advise. I've had my son this whole time & think that is the best arrangement for my son's sake. He does visit his mom one day a week. I want physical custody but don't want a fight in the courts. All this is a real headache for me & the reason I've put it off for so long.

Well, my girlfriend doesn't see it that way. Her thinking is that I'm not over my x or I would have filed a long time ago. I understand where she's coming from & I would probably have doubts too in this situation, but really, it comes down to a serious case of procrastination on my part. She is in the middle of a divorce herself fighting for custody of her kids.

I tried my best to reassure her & tell her how much I honestly care about her. I told her I'd finish the divorce papers this week & get it going since it really is long overdue. Just yesterday I spoke with a family lawyer that attends the church I go to & she's supposed to help me out with the details without emptying my wallet so, I am getting the ball rolling.

In the phone call, she said that she cared about me too much & that she was afraid of being hurt again. She had overlooked me not filing divorce yet cause she liked me so much but that she'd been thinking a lot about things when it came time to come to my church & meet some friends of mine, etc. I said I'd get things moving this week. She said that if I had really wanted a divorce that I would have already done it & that if I did file, it would only be out of her pressuring me. I said I'd file & call her later this week & she said she did not know if she would pick up my call.

Basically, our relationship is now in limbo & I have a mixed feeling of emotions. Just that Saturday morning, she stopped by my place just to say hi, we were making out on the couch & totally in love; a few hours later, the phone call.

What I'm wondering is; is she testing me or have I just been dumped? I'm already feeling loss over this situation & have been pretty down these past few days. I'm filing soon regardless.