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It's not so much that women want an *sshole, it's more that they desire a man to be...well...manly. If some "average" guy is wonderful to his woman all the time and treats her like a goddess because he is afraid of losing her, she will probably end up leaving him for someone more...assertive. Am I wrong in this guess? It seems that way to me, from my experience with women, and from watching other couples.
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Assertiveness is a hot, hot, hot quality.
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OK where are all of my responses then;;;;I may not still be hot but I am still quite warm and I am definately an asshole
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i dont go for looks if they're nice and kind thats what i look for
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dont you mean NOT an asshole, i sure hope so, and if u do then MY POINT EXACTLY!!!!
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i know i may not be a catch but you cannot and i mean CANNOT judge a persons by there personality first because you don't know anything about them.
unfortunately in this society looks are everything. |
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girls, its not just the men, its us too. We also judge a man based on there looks, because lets be honest, we wouldn't talk to the ugliest guy in the room, why? because its a fact we like the hott asshole kind (not that i'm saying all hot guys are asses', but most are.) So all the girls thinking guys just look at the hottest girls in the room, so do we ladies, meaning the hottest guys not girls. I am goofy, kind, and one sexy bastard.....so I must be an asshole. 
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i know i may not be a catch but you cannot and i mean CANNOT judge a persons by there personality first because you don't know anything about them. unfortunately in this society looks are everything. Only if you decide to allow society to dictate your behavior. 
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You must decide to talk to folks based on their looks then....
That is something you control, you decide.... and therefore that is your problem. |
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i know i may not be a catch but you cannot and i mean CANNOT judge a persons by there personality first because you don't know anything about them. unfortunately in this society looks are everything. i wouldn say everything, but it def helps, i mean if i no someone and no there personality i can look past there looks to an extent, but looks def play a factor(and its about time you came back i was tryin to hold up ur side of this thing and it was gettin hard they were all against me lol) |
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its just how i was brought up. buuut that doesn't mean i'm a stuck up snob, i am very far from that.
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Edited by
DHinkle
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Tue 12/23/08 07:27 AM
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You must decide to talk to folks based on their looks then.... That is something you control, you decide.... and therefore that is your problem. im begging here i need one person to say that looks arent a bad thing, thats all im sayin, tell me, would u date a 350 pound man |
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i know i may not be a catch but you cannot and i mean CANNOT judge a persons by there personality first because you don't know anything about them. unfortunately in this society looks are everything. And yet -- the proper thing to SAY is always the opposite -- "it's what's inside that counts!" -- but how many take that and apply it in their real life? I know this -- I see hundreds of posts saying "I want someone smart and funny and easy to talk to" -- but when someone like that actually shows up, the resultant silence is deafening. |
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Good looking or not and asshole is and asshole and not one I would date regardless of their looks. Just give me one that is soothing to the eyes and a great personality.
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Good looking or not and asshole is and asshole and not one I would date regardless of their looks. Just give me one that is soothing to the eyes and a great personality. there ya go, thats wat im tryin to say, we all want looks but if we have to sacrafice that to get the personality, some are willing to do that |
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Good looking or not and asshole is and asshole and not one I would date regardless of their looks. Just give me one that is soothing to the eyes and a great personality. you really just condradicted yourself just now |
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Good looking or not and asshole is and asshole and not one I would date regardless of their looks. Just give me one that is soothing to the eyes and a great personality. you really just condradicted yourself just now no she didnt she said she wouldn date an asshole but she wants a guy that aint ugly and a good personality, which was my point all along |
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yeah either way.
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yeah either way. huh? |
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idk i'm just really tired and not thinking of what i'm saying.
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