Topic: this has been bothering me
lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:16 AM


Actually though, if it were good sex, it might not matter... laugh.


you guys completely proved my point jus now...u are attracted to looks...you may have the utmost ability to look past them...but you are still attracted to them


I don't think either of us said that they did not matter at all.... but really, it is the attitude and assertive confidence men exude that we are attracted to.

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Tue 12/23/08 08:17 AM

See? laugh I brought you to my gutter.. I'm sorry....


My mind is usually there anyway!

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:18 AM
i didnt say u two did but there were some people in this thread that did...

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Tue 12/23/08 08:18 AM


Actually though, if it were good sex, it might not matter... laugh.


you guys completely proved my point jus now...u are attracted to looks...you may have the utmost ability to look past them...but you are still attracted to them


I don't know that we said looks didn't matter at all. However, an asshole attitude usually outdoes the looks and makes me stay away. I was just saying that if it were JUST sex, it wouldn't really matter, as I wouldn't have to talk to him and deal with his attitude.

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Tue 12/23/08 08:19 AM



Actually though, if it were good sex, it might not matter... laugh.


you guys completely proved my point jus now...u are attracted to looks...you may have the utmost ability to look past them...but you are still attracted to them


I don't think either of us said that they did not matter at all.... but really, it is the attitude and assertive confidence men exude that we are attracted to.


Exactly.

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:20 AM

i didnt say u two did but there were some people in this thread that did...


ughum

seahawks's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:21 AM


See? laugh I brought you to my gutter.. I'm sorry....


My mind is usually there anyway!
laugh laugh laugh :tongue:

Lfer's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:22 AM
spock

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:24 AM

spock


im sorry wat does spock mean lol

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Tue 12/23/08 08:25 AM



Actually though, if it were good sex, it might not matter... laugh.


you guys completely proved my point jus now...u are attracted to looks...you may have the utmost ability to look past them...but you are still attracted to them


I don't think either of us said that they did not matter at all.... but really, it is the attitude and assertive confidence men exude that we are attracted to.


Looks can get my attention -- and a sense of humor can reinforce the first impression --

But if there's no intellectual compatibility underneath, it's going to be a quick, three-month, revolving door scenario....



lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:26 AM
Ahh Sexy Lexy, so generous..... I have a two to three week span myself, I think....

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Tue 12/23/08 08:27 AM


i didnt say u two did but there were some people in this thread that did...


ughum


huh

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:29 AM



i didnt say u two did but there were some people in this thread that did...


ughum


huh


im sorry if i was rude really, but i wanted to make sure u saw wat i wrote before u posted those two

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:30 AM
What? Wat?

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Tue 12/23/08 08:31 AM

Ahh Sexy Lexy, so generous..... I have a two to three week span myself, I think....


Well, I have a need to overanalyze, and that can take awhile --

But I almost always know, WELL before the three months is up -- sometimes before the FIRST month is up....



seahawks's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:31 AM
man o man,laugh laugh laugh laugh did we shred this thread.!!!

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:31 AM

What? Wat?


huh?

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Tue 12/23/08 08:33 AM




i didnt say u two did but there were some people in this thread that did...


ughum


huh


im sorry if i was rude really, but i wanted to make sure u saw wat i wrote before u posted those two


Alrighty. I only saw what you posted after I did, though. Then again, after you posted it again.

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:33 AM


What? Wat?


huh?


Exactly....

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:34 AM
:smile: If you are popular and attractive and you get with someone that isnt so popular or attractive it seems like it always makes you look bad.:smile: Like people think something is wrong with you.:smile: