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Topic: How do you turn down an AWFUL looking person?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/15/08 03:21 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too.

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Mon 12/15/08 03:23 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter"

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/15/08 03:34 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter" Well in all honesty, at least in my case, size doesnt matter at all. Im less partial to penetration and I prefer oral sex. So your size really has no bearing on your ability to please a woman in that manner.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/15/08 03:34 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter"

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Mon 12/15/08 03:36 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter" Well in all honesty, at least in my case, size doesnt matter at all. Im less partial to penetration and I prefer oral sex. So your size really has no bearing on your ability to please a woman in that manner. I could live with that

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 12/15/08 03:36 PM Edited by Calleigh12 on Mon 12/15/08 03:39 PM
Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter." those people are either lying or in denial; you have to find something physically attractive in another human being in order to get your attention. even if it's nothing but you like their hair style. unless you're like an animal and you're attracted by scent.

dozzer13 Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 7284	Mon 12/15/08 03:36 PM
userly they shout the gun in the air and screm get out of the bushes

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/15/08 03:42 PM
Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter." those people are either lying or in denial; you have to find something physically attractive in another human being in order to get your attention, if it's nothing but you like their hair style, lol. unless you're like an animal and you're attracted by scent. Actually I would make the argument that it is in fact all based in visual stimulation and basic human reproductive biology. Scent is even a large part of that and especially where women are concerned. But I agree with you that we need to be attracted to our potential mates on a very fundamental level and that will first and foremost be their appearance unless we meet in some other fashion. Its always going to be high on the list and is a potential deal breaker also.

RandomTandem Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 294	Mon 12/15/08 03:47 PM
Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter." those people are either lying or in denial; you have to find something physically attractive in another human being in order to get your attention. even if it's nothing but you like their hair style. unless you're like an animal and you're attracted by scent. I like your hair style. Just yankin'...

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 12/15/08 03:47 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter" Skill and technique are far more important. So many 'big' guys think that since they have size, they don't have to learn how to use it....

sparksley Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 169	Mon 12/15/08 03:48 PM Edited by sparksley on Mon 12/15/08 03:48 PM
Some people just really need to get a notion of "league." I am not an Adonis, I should not expect to be bagging up movie stars by the dozen. On the same token, I should not have to justify finding an 80-year-old woman with three teeth and the mange attractive, no matter what her psychological qualities are. When you approach somebody sexually, prepare to be judged sexually.

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 12/15/08 03:49 PM
Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter." those people are either lying or in denial; you have to find something physically attractive in another human being in order to get your attention, if it's nothing but you like their hair style, lol. unless you're like an animal and you're attracted by scent. Actually I would make the argument that it is in fact all based in visual stimulation and basic human reproductive biology. Scent is even a large part of that and especially where women are concerned. But I agree with you that we need to be attracted to our potential mates on a very fundamental level and that will first and foremost be their appearance unless we meet in some other fashion. Its always going to be high on the list and is a potential deal breaker also. Actually, there is the theory out there that scent may be more important that visual

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 12/15/08 04:09 PM Edited by awolf1010 on Mon 12/15/08 04:53 PM


Josh_P_Rad88 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 1944	Mon 12/15/08 04:13 PM
Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity? I would like to know the answer to that question too. I dunno but I highly suspect that whoever it was also came up with that other gem " size don't matter" Well in all honesty, at least in my case, size doesnt matter at all. Im less partial to penetration and I prefer oral sex. So your size really has no bearing on your ability to please a woman in that manner. dude.......i LOVE oral....like.....addiction type love......lol newayz......

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/15/08 04:14 PM
I think it was undeniably more important for our early hominid cousins but gradually we lost our keen sense of smell. Women have superior olfactory capabilities to that of men and probably some of this is based in reproductive assessment and choosing a mate even today.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Mon 12/15/08 04:22 PM
Actually, there is the theory out there that scent may be more important that visual Aye...I had someone who kept sleeping with my shirt I left at her. I found it in her bed, she said she needs it when I'm not there. I thought she was weird.

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Mon 12/15/08 04:24 PM
like they say to me....um, sorry, ur just not my type!

sparksley Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 169	Mon 12/15/08 04:26 PM
Actually, there is the theory out there that scent may be more important that visual Aye...I had someone who kept sleeping with my shirt I left at her. I found it in her bed, she said she needs it when I'm not there. I thought she was weird. Actually, the same thing has happened to me a few times. I also thought it was weird, but I didn't mind.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/15/08 04:28 PM
Actually, there is the theory out there that scent may be more important that visual Aye...I had someone who kept sleeping with my shirt I left at her. I found it in her bed, she said she needs it when I'm not there. I thought she was weird. If it had your sweat on it that is pure pheromone. I would believe it.

RandomTandem Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 294	Mon 12/15/08 04:29 PM
I didn't think it was weird at all- an ex of mine did exactly the same.