I don't really know what my usual solutions are... usually my mind is so clouded with "I gotta get the f*** outta here!" that I don't take notice of how I really handle it... lol

and anyone who wants to bash me saying looks don't matter needs to think again... human nature... if you walk into a bar looking to meet someone your first thing you look at is appearance... no one walks in and looks for the ugliest person in the place...

Come on... just tell em your in a relationship.
On the other hand, if you got drunk, met this person, and hopped into the sack at a previous time, you got your work cut out for you. Dennis

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I've seen girls that look like their face caught on fire and somebody put it out with a wet chain

I just tell em "no thanks, I have a girlfriend"

Ive met a few people that on the net looked really good..

and in real life...well...ya know...

but I still go out on the date and see what their personality is like...

cause alot of the time, they are so cool that...

THEY COME UP!!!

Looks will get me...

but they wont keep me...

theres gotta be more, for me.

I've never been good at it. I don't like to hurt peoples feelings. I've kind of taken myself out of the dating pool for awhile. So I don't really have to make any excuses at the moment. But I do have to wonder why no one takes into consideration that I work out every day before they msg me. If I strive to be in shape I'm not going to want to date someone that doesn't care about themselves. Weird....

We have a restaurant/bar here in Myrtle Beach called the dog house. You can actually bring a pet as long it is on a leash and you eat outdoors. Besides steaks and burgers there is even dog food on the menu. If I had a date and she looked that bad, I would take her to the dog house, excuse myself from the table. Stop the nearest waiter and say "Do you mind serving a dog biscuit to that woman over there" and slip on out the door.

same way you turn down a really good looking person,

got to go ,got to go ......

Honestly, no matter what someone looks like if they have kind eyes and a great smile to match... it tends to help. A boy started school with me in 8th grade who wasn't particularly attractive. He's still not, but by the time we were 21 we'd become such great friends that we fell for one another. We dated for several months, and are still really good friends despite it not working out. I love him to pieces no matter what, and he feels the same for me. I miss not seeing him or hanging out with him, but we have some amazing memories. He actually gave me some wild adventures that I other wise would not have had. When I think of the adventures tha I am missing out on for helping my mother, I try to remember that he gave me a few to hold onto in case I never get another.

I actually am not drawn to "classically attractive men" By that I mean the type of men you see in movies that are considered "hunks" or the kind that grace the pages of "GQ" magazine.

Nope.

I tend to go for tall, thin, lanky and sometimes even the more goofy looking guys. Im more down with intelligence in fact so that is really the driving force behind a man's sexual appeal. Im sure Im not alone in that and other women can relate.

Looks don't matter when:

A) your blind
B) they have somehting else of higher tangible value you want and plan to use them for
C)They are rich and have one foot in the grave and the other on a bannanna peal and your poised to push them in

Phew... iceprincess.. apt monicker.

I politely and firmly explain why I am not interested. That's how everyone should handle it. It's not a big deal.

Do I know you? that really sounded like something my ex would say... lol

Who actually said, "looks dont matter." Just out of curiosity?

I can totally relate. I don't have any one type. But for some reason, that whole GQ look doesn't work for me. It looks so plastic and phony to me. While I've had some of the best times with people that the media would say were plain or even unattractive.