Topic: How do you turn down an AWFUL looking person?
missy51970's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:23 AM

Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter."



I agree !!!! Thats all you hear people say on here.. Both sides of the fence eh??

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:32 AM


Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter."



I agree !!!! Thats all you hear people say on here.. Both sides of the fence eh??
laugh truelaugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:35 AM



The same way men turn me down "you're just not pretty enough"
I cant imagine someone saying that to you
:smile: me neither:smile: She's gorgeousflowerforyou


Aww, thanks. Sadly though, thats alot of makeup and knowledge of good camera angles...lol. I'm really kinda plain... Thats not self pity...lol, its the realization that no matter what I do, my nose and teeth are still kinda crooked... and I weigh more than most men want their woman to... grrr. I'm tryin though... seriously considering a nose job if I can ever afford it...

Krimsa's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:35 AM

flowerforyou How do you politely turn down an AWFUL looking person?flowerforyou


The same way you would turn down anyone. Just politely let them know that they are not your type. Thats all I ever say and it applies to any number of circumstances. Its non-specific enough as to avoid a lot of explanation on my part.

Krimsa's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:37 AM


Kind of ironic, when so many people like to say "looks don't matter."


They matter to me.laugh




Me three.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:38 AM




The same way men turn me down "you're just not pretty enough"
I cant imagine someone saying that to you
:smile: me neither:smile: She's gorgeousflowerforyou


Aww, thanks. Sadly though, thats alot of makeup and knowledge of good camera angles...lol. I'm really kinda plain... Thats not self pity...lol, its the realization that no matter what I do, my nose and teeth are still kinda crooked... and I weigh more than most men want their woman to... grrr. I'm tryin though... seriously considering a nose job if I can ever afford it...
flowerforyou I like you the way you areflowerforyou

Krimsa's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:42 AM




The same way men turn me down "you're just not pretty enough"
I cant imagine someone saying that to you
:smile: me neither:smile: She's gorgeousflowerforyou


Aww, thanks. Sadly though, thats alot of makeup and knowledge of good camera angles...lol. I'm really kinda plain... Thats not self pity...lol, its the realization that no matter what I do, my nose and teeth are still kinda crooked... and I weigh more than most men want their woman to... grrr. I'm tryin though... seriously considering a nose job if I can ever afford it...


Oh stop. You are gorgeous. flowers

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:53 AM





The same way men turn me down "you're just not pretty enough"
I cant imagine someone saying that to you
:smile: me neither:smile: She's gorgeousflowerforyou


Aww, thanks. Sadly though, thats alot of makeup and knowledge of good camera angles...lol. I'm really kinda plain... Thats not self pity...lol, its the realization that no matter what I do, my nose and teeth are still kinda crooked... and I weigh more than most men want their woman to... grrr. I'm tryin though... seriously considering a nose job if I can ever afford it...


Oh stop. You are gorgeous. flowers
bigsmile Thats rightflowerforyou

SharpShooter10's photo
Mon 12/15/08 07:55 AM
Face down drinker laugh

PBug's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:04 AM
"Sorry, I don't date men."

"You have looks that could kill, and I like living."

"Aaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Zombie!"

etc. Just like you would turn down any other person.

SweetnFunny's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:10 AM

flowerforyou How do you politely turn down an AWFUL looking person?flowerforyou


That's a hard one. While looks are important, I think what's inside is so much more important. I've met some really beautiful people who, at first glance, would probably make a person say, "Oh Damn!Is the circus in town?" Their personality and sense of humor, though, is so cool that after a while, I don't see the exterior when I look at them. I see a gorgeous individual.

I think I'd only turn down an awful-looking person if they were as ugly on the inside.
:smile:

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:31 AM
Just remember they're human and have feelings when you shoot them down. Also remember, you might be ugly to someone else so your words may come back to haunt you. Thats not an insult to anyone, just the truth of how life works.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:35 AM

Face down drinker laugh
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

no photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:41 AM
Looks are SO SUBJECTIVE to the beholder, and we only get older and funkier!!! A lot of men my age get hair in the nose and ears!! Very unattractive if not groomed/trimmed!! I'm not so into "looks", but if I can tell they don't take care of themselves, that is really unattractive. And, some not "ideals", I find them more attractive than "canned" versions of attractive. They are more INTERESTING to behold.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:44 AM

"Sorry, I don't date men."

"You have looks that could kill, and I like living."

"Aaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Zombie!"

etc. Just like you would turn down any other person.
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:47 AM
Get a confused look on your face and say "Do I know you? What's my name? Where are we?" Then slowly start to wander off.


flowerforyou How do you politely turn down an AWFUL looking person?flowerforyou

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 12/15/08 08:48 AM
i have dated women that i wasn't attracted to on a physical level.....It is never easy to break something off.....if it was only a date or two I just stop communicating or if i do feel the need to say something I will say that we are not a match or that i am dating someone else whom i want to pursue in a relationship.....i really think that it is best to try not to hurt someone's feelings.....

SharpShooter10's photo
Mon 12/15/08 09:18 AM
ask them if they have herpes

when they say, why of course not

you say, don't worry, you'll get use to themnoway

EveningKiss's photo
Mon 12/15/08 09:21 AM

flowerforyou How do you politely turn down an AWFUL looking person?flowerforyou


I just do what i normally do. Stay kind to them find a way that lets them know that "you know im just really not looking for anything right now" but still hang out with them. Heck alot of those guys (and girls) are still good friends of mine just nothing more.

EveningKiss's photo
Mon 12/15/08 09:21 AM

ask them if they have herpes

when they say, why of course not

you say, don't worry, you'll get use to themnoway


ROFL