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ok so i sorta screwed it up with that dude at uni.
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ok so i sorta screwed it up with that dude at uni. Screwed it up in what sense, Jas? |
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in the "he's not speaking to me anymore" kinda sense.
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in the "he's not speaking to me anymore" kinda sense. What did you say to him? |
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one of my long stories.
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i gotta go feed my doggy, but i'll be back in a few.
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one of my long stories. Email it to me if you want. |
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Wed 12/17/08 09:41 PM
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one of my long stories. Email it to me if you want. nah its cool, nothing too private. i'll try to keep it short ok so i have this pet peeve with guys. i can't stand it when guys make sexual advances toward me before making an effort to get to know me and establishing a decent relationship first. mayhaps i'm a prude, i dunno but thats how i am. so this guy, we were talking about the full moon the other night and i was telling him it was supposed to be the biggest and brightest full moon for 15 years. and he decided to ask me if the full moon produces any effects in me that would benefit him in any way. i decided to laugh it off and make some snarky comment which i can't remember at the moment but the gist is it sent up some red flags. i asked him if that's how old people flirt and he said he was trying to not come off pervy by not saying what was really on his mind. anyhoo, i use msn messenger, which is where i have him added. and i had up as my personal message something to the effect of "the day a man surprises me by NOT trying to have sex with me, i'll be impressed, until then i'm bored"... (or some such thing or the other, can't remember the exact words) and he saw it when he came online. so he started a convo referring to it. i told him it doesn't necessarily refer to him and that its a pet peeve i'd had long before i met him. *trying to cut to the chase* so basically a convo ensued where he was trying to explain to me in very graphic terms why guys find me attractive and want to have sex with me. all the while, as he talked about it i became more and more turned off by him. so he asked if i thought he was the kind of guy who is just trying to have sex with me, and i said "after this conversation i'm beginning to wonder" at which point he said "i see" and then left. i havent heard from him since. (i'm sorry i keep pulling you into my teenage dramas!  )
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i begin my sentences with "so" a lot.
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one of my long stories. Email it to me if you want. nah its cool, nothing too private. i'll try to keep it short ok so i have this pet peeve with guys. i can't stand it when guys make sexual advances toward me before making an effort to get to know me and establishing a decent relationship first. mayhaps i'm a prude, i dunno but thats how i am. so this guy, we were talking about the full moon the other night and i was telling him it was supposed to be the biggest and brightest full moon for 15 years. and he decided to ask me if the full moon produces any effects in me that would benefit him in any way. i decided to laugh it off and make some snarky comment which i can't remember at the moment but the gist is it sent up some red flags. i asked him if that's how old people flirt and he said he was trying to not come off pervy by not saying what was really on his mind. anyhoo, i use msn messenger, which is where i have him added. and i had up as my personal message something to the effect of "the day a man surprises me by NOT trying to have sex with me, i'll be impressed, until then i'm bored"... (or some such thing or the other, can't remember the exact words) and he saw it when he came online. so he started a convo referring to it. i told him it doesn't necessarily refer to him and that its a pet peeve i'd had long before i met him. *trying to cut to the chase* so basically a convo ensued where he was trying to explain to me in very graphic terms why guys find me attractive and want to have sex with me. all the while, as he talked about it i became more and more turned off by him. so he asked if i thought he was the kind of guy who is just trying to have sex with me, and i said "after this conversation i'm beginning to wonder" at which point he said "i see" and then left. i havent heard from him since. (i'm sorry i keep pulling you into my teenage dramas! ) Jas. That sounds to me like nothing more than a dude being " busted ". You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't " screw it up ". You told him exactly what was on your mind. I notice that, from what you say, he didn't say anything that would make you think that you weren't accurate in your ideas. That say to me that you were COMPLETELY accurate and he didn't like the fact that you called him on it. |
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one of my long stories. Email it to me if you want. nah its cool, nothing too private. i'll try to keep it short ok so i have this pet peeve with guys. i can't stand it when guys make sexual advances toward me before making an effort to get to know me and establishing a decent relationship first. mayhaps i'm a prude, i dunno but thats how i am. so this guy, we were talking about the full moon the other night and i was telling him it was supposed to be the biggest and brightest full moon for 15 years. and he decided to ask me if the full moon produces any effects in me that would benefit him in any way. i decided to laugh it off and make some snarky comment which i can't remember at the moment but the gist is it sent up some red flags. i asked him if that's how old people flirt and he said he was trying to not come off pervy by not saying what was really on his mind. anyhoo, i use msn messenger, which is where i have him added. and i had up as my personal message something to the effect of "the day a man surprises me by NOT trying to have sex with me, i'll be impressed, until then i'm bored"... (or some such thing or the other, can't remember the exact words) and he saw it when he came online. so he started a convo referring to it. i told him it doesn't necessarily refer to him and that its a pet peeve i'd had long before i met him. *trying to cut to the chase* so basically a convo ensued where he was trying to explain to me in very graphic terms why guys find me attractive and want to have sex with me. all the while, as he talked about it i became more and more turned off by him. so he asked if i thought he was the kind of guy who is just trying to have sex with me, and i said "after this conversation i'm beginning to wonder" at which point he said "i see" and then left. i havent heard from him since. (i'm sorry i keep pulling you into my teenage dramas! ) Jas. That sounds to me like nothing more than a dude being " busted ". You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't " screw it up ". You told him exactly what was on your mind. I notice that, from what you say, he didn't say anything that would make you think that you weren't accurate in your ideas. That say to me that you were COMPLETELY accurate and he didn't like the fact that you called him on it. that is so true... and yet... i just thought/hoped he might've been different and i was wrong. don't men stop being horndogs after the age of 25 or something? ... meh... thanks jag |
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one of my long stories. Email it to me if you want. nah its cool, nothing too private. i'll try to keep it short ok so i have this pet peeve with guys. i can't stand it when guys make sexual advances toward me before making an effort to get to know me and establishing a decent relationship first. mayhaps i'm a prude, i dunno but thats how i am. so this guy, we were talking about the full moon the other night and i was telling him it was supposed to be the biggest and brightest full moon for 15 years. and he decided to ask me if the full moon produces any effects in me that would benefit him in any way. i decided to laugh it off and make some snarky comment which i can't remember at the moment but the gist is it sent up some red flags. i asked him if that's how old people flirt and he said he was trying to not come off pervy by not saying what was really on his mind. anyhoo, i use msn messenger, which is where i have him added. and i had up as my personal message something to the effect of "the day a man surprises me by NOT trying to have sex with me, i'll be impressed, until then i'm bored"... (or some such thing or the other, can't remember the exact words) and he saw it when he came online. so he started a convo referring to it. i told him it doesn't necessarily refer to him and that its a pet peeve i'd had long before i met him. *trying to cut to the chase* so basically a convo ensued where he was trying to explain to me in very graphic terms why guys find me attractive and want to have sex with me. all the while, as he talked about it i became more and more turned off by him. so he asked if i thought he was the kind of guy who is just trying to have sex with me, and i said "after this conversation i'm beginning to wonder" at which point he said "i see" and then left. i havent heard from him since. (i'm sorry i keep pulling you into my teenage dramas! ) Jas. That sounds to me like nothing more than a dude being " busted ". You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't " screw it up ". You told him exactly what was on your mind. I notice that, from what you say, he didn't say anything that would make you think that you weren't accurate in your ideas. That say to me that you were COMPLETELY accurate and he didn't like the fact that you called him on it. that is so true... and yet... i just thought/hoped he might've been different and i was wrong. don't men stop being horndogs after the age of 25 or something? ... meh... thanks jag Some do, Jas. But that doesn't mean they aren't still out looking to get laid. They are usually just smarter about it by that age. Some of them anyway. |
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'night
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How come in the 1960's people took acid to make the world weird Now the world is weird and people take Prozac to make it seem Normal  Because it used to be that people did drugs like LSD to " expand " their minds. These days, doctors prescribe drugs to shut down a person's mind. Has anyone ever thought about how the world would be if Einstein had been put on Ritalin?? I think that there are many, many children with high mental capacities that are being drugged out of their minds because parents have lost the ability to recognize intelligence and just think that their child has something wrong with them. I think ritalin is the trend drug of modern times, and a major cop-out quick fixer for a lot of parents who would rather NOT actually do the parenting job. ps. Happy to see the thread flippy thing... weeeee JAG rocks !!!!! While I do think many children are over medicated or medicated to please TEACHERS versus parents. Also it is not always the custodial parents but the absent parent that refuses to provide approriate support financially or socially to cope with a extreamly smart active child. Doesn't help that People who want to critisize a situation they are totally unwilling to participate in don't have a clue what it is like to live with a child who is constantly active and can get by on as little of two hours sleep. |
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I'm meeting someone from this site in two weeks. Anything in particular I should do or not do? I'm just looking for any kind of advice I can get... Well if it is the same kind of jerk that was suppose to come see me it is a scam so don't get yourself worked up about it until you see the whites of his eyes. |
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My dog snores...hysterical in the daytime & not so funny at night when I'M trying to sleep... any solutions? Put him on a lower calorie dog food if he is over weight which most family pets are. Check his teeth to see if his teeth are decayed. Replace his pet bed. It might have stuff in it that gives your dog asthma. |
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How many days can elapse before it's beyond the bound of good etiquette to mail a thank-you note? Generally you want to Thank the giver the day you recieve it to seem genuine but the formal rules say up to a year. If it is a parent or Grandparent and it is accompanied by a mushy letter and or photos of Grandchildren it can be when you actually grow up enough to know how meaningful a Heartfelt Thank you is. (The sooner the better; not always do you get the luxery of time.) |
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1 more day.....yipee......why am I scared that it wont happen?
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1 more day.....yipee......why am I scared that it wont happen? Ummm....cuz you know that the people you work with are a bunch of shmucks??? |
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that is so true... and yet... i just thought/hoped he might've been different and i was wrong. don't men stop being horndogs after the age of 25 or something? ... meh... Some do, Jas. But that doesn't mean they aren't still out looking to get laid. They are usually just smarter about it by that age. Some of them anyway. Hey Jas? I'm absolutely not an expert, but from a woman's point of view...the guy being a "horndog" isn't necessarily a bad thing if he's not pushing himself beyond the bounds of what's okay with you. That might not be the case in this situation, but if a guy's expressing serious physical attraction and ALSO will respect your boundaries, you can take that as a great compliment & just let things develop - or not, depending on if you can both operate within the parameters that you establish together. Just something to consider... Sorry the date didn't work out the way you'd hoped, but don't beat yourself up either! Hugs, babe! |
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