I get a text a little before 12 midnight with this girl telling me to come to the movies with her. I didn't read it until about 12:30 (my phone was on my desk I didn't expect any texts especially from her). I tell her thanks for telling me, but I don't wanna see the movie. She says why don't you come by anyway to see me. I get up, I get dressed, I warm up the car and as I'm about to leave I say listen you're gonna have to leave the movie for a little while if u wanna see me I'm not gonna pay $10 for a movie 2/3 of the way through and have to look for you. She proceeds to tell me to forget that she ever asked, and at this point I'm really mad. It doesn't help that earlier in the day she canceled on me and her hanging out in the afternoon and also canceled on me Wednesday night (Last night she had homework and Wednesday her parents came to visit). I think I have every right to hate her at this point, and that I'm just gonna leave her alone. I mean is this girl confused or is she just a big *****? She invited me all THREE times she warned me that wednesday and thursday might not work, but last night was pretty messed up.

sounds like she playing games, and dont even answer her text messages just ignore them all together

She sounds like a thoughtless, self-centered piece of crap to ME!!! Drop her like an envelope of Anthrax, son!!!

Humm not sure if you have actually been on a date with this one or not for you do not state that you have. But if it was me I would say it's time to move on I don't do well with others that play head games.

I think its time to move on! There are just too many quality people out there to get hung up on the ones that drive us crazy... Life should be a enjoyable adventure, not an irritating rat race.

We went on a date last week.. I agree with the person who said shes self centered because she totally is.

Move on

Well if it has only been one date and she turned ya down on the other two then when you can not come when she expects you too. Then you have a change of heart about the situation and ask her to leave the movie early and she says just forget it all together instead of let's meet after the movie. Shshhs move on and save you some drama. She is out for her self only and cares nothing about others feelings only if they benifit her if not then she don't have time for them.

Ummmmmmm..... why would you be willing to disturb your evening for someone who is inconsiderate?

If you drop everything and met her? Well, that sets it up nicely doesn't it? You'll always have to.... and she'll always treat others like shyt until no one takes it.

Get the hell away from her while you still can. If you keep this up, one time you will meet up with her and things happen, then maybe you get her pregnant and then you can never get away from her. Tell her to go fly a kite with a whole in it.

Yea, thats what I plan on doing. She didn't turn me down she actually ASKED ME out then when it came time said she had **** to do. I asked her out once, she said she wasn't ready to commit so I stopped talking to her for a few days. She came back to me asking me to come see her and all this bull****. So yep she did all this not me. She's a real self-centered idiot who doesn't deserve anyone who tries as hard as I do. I mean I doubt anyone else would be willing to go out @ like 1:15 in the morning to see her for like maybe an hour. She really needs to get over herself.

she wanted you to join her at the movies cause she
was lonesome and wanted attention.

but if you were going to balk at paying for the movie
or not just be super-enthusiastic about having the
chance to be with her - well then she'd just as soon
not see you at all.

know what i mean?

i think i'd pass....

maybe she had something PLANNED for you *wink wink*

uh too bad the movie started @ 12 and she told me to come see her @ 1 and it's a good 10 minute drive, so they probably wouldn't have let me in the movie anyway. I was super-enthusiastic I mean I got out of bed at 12:50 at night just to see her for maybe half an hour and she decided to just be a jerk about it. I was gonna go there and just wait til the movie was over if she wanted, but she said forget i asked like an ass

Does she have dip and come with a handiwipe?

I mean what is so special about her?

I wish I knew the answer.. I really don't know I really liked her before we hung out when she was nice and seemed to care. Since then she just acts like shes making time for me then does some stupid **** like this. I should have just ignored her messages on Sunday night when I had given up on her.

If she cared about you she'd have scheduled an actual date, in advance, and kept it.

Well according to your other thread seems you have already moved on and have a date this weekend with someone else so why even worry about this one.


NEXT............

She sounds like she likes drama... if i were I would leave her alone... you don't need that crap!

Uh that other girl is kinda seeing someone. she didnt tell me til after she said yes to hanging out with me she's weird. So thats why im so into this girl