Uh that other girl is kinda seeing someone. she didnt tell me til after she said yes to hanging out with me she's weird. So thats why im so into this girl

I wish I knew the answer.. I really don't know I really liked her before we hung out when she was nice and seemed to care. Since then she just acts like shes making time for me then does some stupid **** like this. I should have just ignored her messages on Sunday night when I had given up on her.

uh too bad the movie started @ 12 and she told me to come see her @ 1 and it's a good 10 minute drive, so they probably wouldn't have let me in the movie anyway. I was super-enthusiastic I mean I got out of bed at 12:50 at night just to see her for maybe half an hour and she decided to just be a jerk about it. I was gonna go there and just wait til the movie was over if she wanted, but she said forget i asked like an ass

Yea, thats what I plan on doing. She didn't turn me down she actually ASKED ME out then when it came time said she had **** to do. I asked her out once, she said she wasn't ready to commit so I stopped talking to her for a few days. She came back to me asking me to come see her and all this bull****. So yep she did all this not me. She's a real self-centered idiot who doesn't deserve anyone who tries as hard as I do. I mean I doubt anyone else would be willing to go out @ like 1:15 in the morning to see her for like maybe an hour. She really needs to get over herself.

We went on a date last week.. I agree with the person who said shes self centered because she totally is.

I get a text a little before 12 midnight with this girl telling me to come to the movies with her. I didn't read it until about 12:30 (my phone was on my desk I didn't expect any texts especially from her). I tell her thanks for telling me, but I don't wanna see the movie. She says why don't you come by anyway to see me. I get up, I get dressed, I warm up the car and as I'm about to leave I say listen you're gonna have to leave the movie for a little while if u wanna see me I'm not gonna pay $10 for a movie 2/3 of the way through and have to look for you. She proceeds to tell me to forget that she ever asked, and at this point I'm really mad. It doesn't help that earlier in the day she canceled on me and her hanging out in the afternoon and also canceled on me Wednesday night (Last night she had homework and Wednesday her parents came to visit). I think I have every right to hate her at this point, and that I'm just gonna leave her alone. I mean is this girl confused or is she just a big *****? She invited me all THREE times she warned me that wednesday and thursday might not work, but last night was pretty messed up.

I'm going on a date with a latino girl this weekend, and I think its perfectly fine. Do most people feel that theres nothing wrong with it? I just dont want to get with this girl then her parents don't like me because I'm white.

Yep thats how I'd feel. Can't get mad over something that isn't the other parties fault.

Didn't actually happen to me.. I'm just asking.. hahaha

then had to cancel?? Lets say it was a serious thing like a friend being hospitalized or the like.

She texted me last night, and yea she wants to see me Wednesday. Guess she likes me afterall...

I've never been in a sitution like this before.. So yea maybe I do need a "golden certifacation"

Alright, so I met this cute girl yesterday in a group hang out bowling. Me and her chatted introduced ourselves and stuff. All night we just talked she usually sat next to me and stuff. I didn't think much of it I just asked my friend if she was single and if he thinks I had a chance. She is single, and he said he wasn't sure that he wasn't sure what guys she dated. Tonight me and him hung out and she tagged along and all night she was spending more time with me than him. We flirted non stop and just talked. She's really fun to be around and I had a blast just going random places with her in the mall and chatting. I actually ended up driving her to her car and we just talked some more and then we took a trip to starbucks. All night she was saying how sweet I am and other stuff and I guess my only mistake was not getting her number (d'oh). So anyway at the end of the night she gave me a hug and said it was nice to see me again. Not gonna say right now that she likes me, or I like her but I think theres definitely a chance for something. I'm gonna try and get another hang out with the three of us and get her number and ask her out 1 on 1 to see how we click. Is this a good idea?

I'm just gonna be her friend, and if things happen down the road they happen. As much as I have developed feelings and want to further persue getting to know her in a relationship sense I'll just take it slow. I hope everything with school and her goes well to be honest I'm glad she did this because school is more important than a relationship. Her and I both need to succeed in school then we can figure out what we want from each other. It does suck that we kissed and held hands, but maybe she didn't see all this coming. I'm not gonna be bitter about it, and I hope the best for me and her whether its together or just friendship.

Yea, I felt really bad too. Did your girl tell you she wanted to postpone you two? Thats what she said to me.

yea, I'm gonna wait until winter break. If she doesn't want to hang out then then I'll know shes probably lying and just doesn't like me. I mean we have a month off school, so she should be able to find some time for me.

I do want to wait for her, but my question was is she being serious? I just don't want to get my hopes up and she ends up not wanting me. I'm not gonna sit around waiting for her, I'll move on and live my life. She does want to be my friend we still talk and will continue to talk. As far as I can tell she is being genuine as shes always talking about school work and how shes in honors classes. I definitely think shes worth the wait I want to get to know her better and see if we work as a couple. Thanks for all the response.

So, me and my friend hung out for the first time Monday. We hit it off well and everything kiss and held hands right before I left. Last night was the first time we talked because she's been really busy (she showed me all her homework on her laptop Monday). So, here is where I get to the "rejection" part. I asked her to hang out with me Monday and she said she couldn't due to her having a paper due Tuesday. So I said "oh are we gonna hang out anytime soon? " she said "im sorry but with finals coming up I'm not too sure" and we went on to talk about our possible relationship she said for now she wants to postpone me and her and she said our kiss did mean something and she feels bad that she led me on because we can't be together sooner. I told her I understood and she said "its not just you i wouldn't bring anyone into my life right now it wouldn't be fair to you or me". I actually spoke to my boss and he said a girl did this once to him and two months later she ended up asking him back out. She told me that she'll let me know when she wants to see me, and I said well I'll still probably be around but I can't promise anything. Is it possible shes being serious??

Not my ex don't worry lol

Like I hung out with her Monday.. I was thinking of asking her back out this Monday.. that isn't too soon is it?