Topic: Should women propose to men?
SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 11/08/08 04:25 PM

flowerforyouShould women propose to men?flowerforyou


Yes...but if she does...and he accepts....he has to take her name !

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Sat 11/08/08 04:26 PM
I dont think so.

I think every woman deserves that special moment, thats what you dream of and think about.

Just like a wedding - every woman deserves that magical wedding.

carold's photo
Sat 11/08/08 04:28 PM

I dont think so.

I think every woman deserves that special moment, thats what you dream of and think about.

Just like a wedding - every woman deserves that magical wedding.
Ahhh there is a sweetie all you young girls out there.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:54 AM
Most out here are sats: anyway have faith you marry because you loved the frist one. dont't put one another down!I never give-up in life what ever that means to you!.You Im not desparte.
Although this word is a very important word to me.
Desparte!he/her who shall accept anything for jus not to be alone!at work we call it a water cooler thing!talk,talk,I don't subcribe to these kinds of people gossip esp,,at work and here!,get it togather folks!Koolaidwoman.shades waving11/9/08

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:58 AM
I propose stuff to men. Just not marriage... Get your mind in the gutter, yes.... stuff like that.

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Mon 11/10/08 11:06 AM
I was proposed to....and accepted.....

In hide sight she always wondered if I "really" loved her.....I don't recommend it..... brokenheart

artcat's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:12 PM

I would propose. If I really love the guy, I would let him know how much!

Today's society, it's okay for a woman to propose...


Hmm, well..........it was February 14th, 1977 I asked him to marry me, he said yes, we were married a year and a half later and enjoyed 25 years of marriage until his death in 2003. Oh yeah, after he said yes, he took me to a jewelry store to buy me an engagement ring.

enderra's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:13 PM
i proposed to both of my husbands.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:31 PM
I don't really think you want to know my opinion after being proposed to twice by two different women 10 years apart, accepting both proposals, making all the plans and then being stood up at the alter. One ran back to an abusive ex boyfreind and the other went cross country back to her ex husband whose a scizophrenic on medication living at home with his mother. Propose to me and I might kill you. Touchy subject in my world. I could have gotten more warmth from setting all that money on fire than what I got. I've been proposed to a few times in the last 3 years. My answer is automatic knee jerk defensive- "F*CK YOU!!!" and I think everyone can understand that.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:35 PM
But then again- they might not understand.

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Mon 11/10/08 02:35 PM

I don't really think you want to know my opinion after being proposed to twice by two different women 10 years apart, accepting both proposals, making all the plans and then being stood up at the alter. One ran back to an abusive ex boyfreind and the other went cross country back to her ex husband whose a scizophrenic on medication living at home with his mother. Propose to me and I might kill you. Touchy subject in my world. I could have gotten more warmth from setting all that money on fire than what I got. I've been proposed to a few times in the last 3 years. My answer is automatic knee jerk defensive- "F*CK YOU!!!" and I think everyone can understand that.
Ok well.......do you want to have dirty bad sex everynight then????devil laugh laugh

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Mon 11/10/08 02:38 PM
Just be absolutely sure the man is ok with it. Many men will not like it because they will feel that they are supposed to do the proposing. Some men may feel emasculated or embarrassed.


longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:47 PM
The only dirty bad sex you get with a runaway bride is with yourself.

papersmile's photo
Mon 11/10/08 02:54 PM
Edited by papersmile on Mon 11/10/08 02:54 PM
i don't think there's anything wrong with a woman proposing to a man although i don't think it's something i'd do.

i've only been proposed to once and it really wasn't overly special, romantic or monumental.

however silly and juvenile it sounds, i'd really like a corny, romantic, traditional and unexpected proposal from a guy.


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Mon 11/10/08 05:16 PM
i think it comes across as desperate.

galendgirl's photo
Mon 11/10/08 05:52 PM

Most out here are sats:



What's "sats?"

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Mon 11/10/08 06:20 PM
well, why does the man always have to even be the one who asks for a date nowadays...I mean, whatever happened to women's liberation...ideally, that should have changed everything?

A64WOODY's photo
Mon 11/10/08 06:26 PM
she proposed to me and i did not like it. I eventually asked her and she accepted, but i guess knowing what i now know, i should have run for the hills!

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:09 PM
Yes why not.

If u know he is diggin you..and you guys have been talking about it..well get on that knee and say "Will u marry me!"..of course there are some guys that are old fashioned and will cringe of that thought, but this is not the 19th century..womans sole job is not to be barefoot and preggo anymore, and a guy can stay at home while the woman makes the money..so why not?...stupid double standard.:P
If it was not for us women some guys would never ask...:P

Topeka_Girl's photo
Mon 11/10/08 11:01 PM
It depends on the couple. Some couples are more traditional, some are not. I dated a guy for a while who did the cooking, took care of his daughter, while I mowed the lawn, cleaned the gutters, put plastic on the windows. Of course he was the one that wanted to get married, and I was young and not in a rush to get married. But if I had been ready, I might have asked him.

I helped a female friend of mine plan to ask her boyfriend to marry her, of course she heard a rumor that he was going to ask her, so she didn't end up asking, they actually broke up instead.

My other friends boyfriend was the one that proposed, but they live in different states, so he sent the proposal in a Text Message. That is NOT what I call romantic, but it was good enough for her.

Another friend of mine is VERY old fashioned, and wouldn't even dream of asking a guy for a date, or being the first to call him, or going up to a guy she might be interested in. She thinks that is all up to the man.