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A nice dude or a nice chick,,BOTH carry the same attributes within them to be felt through their conterpart mate..
respectful,,calmed conversational, approachible, kind, interesting as to be giving toward a flow of expressions. EASY TEMPERED,,and fixed in their softer tones and humor.. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEIR SANE? 
THAT just means their NICELY insane,,if they were nuts,,,, 
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What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back. Whoops I read this question wrong... If it was my SO I would think I would have had some previous knowledge as to the fact that the are capable of behaving this way. I grew up with a parent that liked to throw fits, which is how I developed my technique. It's just unacceptable to me UNLESS they actually had a good enough reason to throw said fit. Which is, of course, subjective. |
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What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back. Whoops I read this question wrong... If it was my SO I would think I would have had some previous knowledge as to the fact that the are capable of behaving this way. I grew up with a parent that liked to throw fits, which is how I developed my technique. It's just unacceptable to me UNLESS they actually had a good enough reason to throw said fit. Which is, of course, subjective. They say it takes 3 to 6 months of "closeness" to know somebody. |
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What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back. Whoops I read this question wrong... If it was my SO I would think I would have had some previous knowledge as to the fact that the are capable of behaving this way. I grew up with a parent that liked to throw fits, which is how I developed my technique. It's just unacceptable to me UNLESS they actually had a good enough reason to throw said fit. Which is, of course, subjective. They say it takes 3 to 6 months of "closeness" to know somebody. That sounds about right to me. |
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The trick is finding someone to snuggle with for 3 to 6 months so you will know them. But I'm in no hurry actually.
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Who in the **** cares...Honestly, I get tired of this "nice guy" dribble just like everyone else that has been here for at least a year. If you are nice, cool, if not, cool...I don't give a flyin' **** and I don't need to be reminded every time you feel like you are only a small portion of the world, which, you are anyway.
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I'm a nice guy...
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I'm a nice guy... 
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Define nice guy........hmmmm
Be nice to me, that's all I care about.  
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Define nice guy........hmmmm Be nice to me, that's all I care about.
AGREE!!! AGREE!! AGREE!!! INDEED!!! INDEED!!! INDEED!!! That's what you guys needed to do for us women ... haha 
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Edited by
lionsbrew
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Wed 08/03/11 07:00 PM
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Sorry ignore the wall of text if you don't want to read.
I think there are two different types of nice guys. I'll start with the ones who finish last.... Nice guys who finish last are as follows. Doormats doing everything for their woman and not sticking up for themselves.(Hence the jaded feeling of losing). They are the epitome of too nice. They get taken advantage of because they are too weak and it is also why they are not kept around. Cause this is what her mind is likely thinking the whole time. "He cant even stick up for himself how can he stick up for me?" What I think is a real nice guy.(description fits what I think a man should behave like.) Being nice without being a doormat is easy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. But even if your always nice to others they wont always be nice to you and people do take being kind as an act of weakness. So it is important to stand up for what you want with passion and for yourself when others disagree. If someone is being unkind deal with it like a man not a jellyfish. The softer side want a man who will stand up for them and protect them if needed. Protecting those you care for is a kindness all its own. Honesty is another thing a nice guy should be. for being dishonest about your feelings or what have you to not hurt her feelings is only setting her up for failure and not nice at all. The truth may hurt but it is necessary for progress. Just my two cents. |
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Who in the **** cares...Honestly, I get tired of this "nice guy" dribble just like everyone else that has been here for at least a year. If you are nice, cool, if not, cool...I don't give a flyin' **** and I don't need to be reminded every time you feel like you are only a small portion of the world, which, you are anyway.
No offense, but if you are so sick and tired of it..dont come into these threads, u saw the title didnt you? |
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Sorry ignore the wall of text if you don't want to read.
I think there are two different types of nice guys. I'll start with the ones who finish last.... Nice guys who finish last are as follows. Doormats doing everything for their woman and not sticking up for themselves.(Hence the jaded feeling of losing). They are the epitome of too nice. They get taken advantage of because they are too weak and it is also why they are not kept around. Cause this is what her mind is likely thinking the whole time. "He cant even stick up for himself how can he stick up for me?" What I think is a real nice guy.(description fits what I think a man should behave like.) Being nice without being a doormat is easy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. But even if your always nice to others they wont always be nice to you and people do take being kind as an act of weakness. So it is important to stand up for what you want with passion and for yourself when others disagree. If someone is being unkind deal with it like a man not a jellyfish. The softer side want a man who will stand up for them and protect them if needed. Protecting those you care for is a kindness all its own. Honesty is another thing a nice guy should be. for being dishonest about your feelings or what have you to not hurt her feelings is only setting her up for failure and not nice at all. The truth may hurt but it is necessary for progress. Just my two cents. Im not sure if that was just your "TWO CENTS-or more like "TWO DOLLARS AND FIFTY CENTS" |
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Sorry ignore the wall of text if you don't want to read.
I think there are two different types of nice guys. I'll start with the ones who finish last.... Nice guys who finish last are as follows. Doormats doing everything for their woman and not sticking up for themselves.(Hence the jaded feeling of losing). They are the epitome of too nice. They get taken advantage of because they are too weak and it is also why they are not kept around. Cause this is what her mind is likely thinking the whole time. "He cant even stick up for himself how can he stick up for me?" What I think is a real nice guy.(description fits what I think a man should behave like.) Being nice without being a doormat is easy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. But even if your always nice to others they wont always be nice to you and people do take being kind as an act of weakness. So it is important to stand up for what you want with passion and for yourself when others disagree. If someone is being unkind deal with it like a man not a jellyfish. The softer side want a man who will stand up for them and protect them if needed. Protecting those you care for is a kindness all its own. Honesty is another thing a nice guy should be. for being dishonest about your feelings or what have you to not hurt her feelings is only setting her up for failure and not nice at all. The truth may hurt but it is necessary for progress. Just my two cents. Im not sure if that was just your "TWO CENTS-or more like "TWO DOLLARS AND FIFTY CENTS" PFffttt...It worth more than that the president of the united states doesn't even get my wisdom on a regular basis. Its totally priceless info which will one day decide the direction of planet earth.
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What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back. I don't behave like that, I'm not an emotional being. I function on logic. I see. I function on irrelevant psychotic illogic myself, makes life interesting. Good ONE! 
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Sorry ignore the wall of text if you don't want to read.
I think there are two different types of nice guys. I'll start with the ones who finish last.... Nice guys who finish last are as follows. Doormats doing everything for their woman and not sticking up for themselves.(Hence the jaded feeling of losing). They are the epitome of too nice. They get taken advantage of because they are too weak and it is also why they are not kept around. Cause this is what her mind is likely thinking the whole time. "He cant even stick up for himself how can he stick up for me?" What I think is a real nice guy.(description fits what I think a man should behave like.) Being nice without being a doormat is easy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. But even if your always nice to others they wont always be nice to you and people do take being kind as an act of weakness. So it is important to stand up for what you want with passion and for yourself when others disagree. If someone is being unkind deal with it like a man not a jellyfish. The softer side want a man who will stand up for them and protect them if needed. Protecting those you care for is a kindness all its own. Honesty is another thing a nice guy should be. for being dishonest about your feelings or what have you to not hurt her feelings is only setting her up for failure and not nice at all. The truth may hurt but it is necessary for progress. Just my two cents. Im not sure if that was just your "TWO CENTS-or more like "TWO DOLLARS AND FIFTY CENTS" PFffttt...It worth more than that the president of the united states doesn't even get my wisdom on a regular basis. Its totally priceless info which will one day decide the direction of planet earth.
Oh damn, then we are blessed you made it so lengthy....Your Intelligentness!  By the way do you have a publisher for that book you just posted...If not Im available.
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Sorry ignore the wall of text if you don't want to read.
What I think is a real nice guy.(description fits what I think a man should behave like.) Being nice without being a doormat is easy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. But even if your always nice to others they wont always be nice to you and people do take being kind as an act of weakness. So it is important to stand up for what you want with passion and for yourself when others disagree. If someone is being unkind deal with it like a man not a jellyfish. The softer side want a man who will stand up for them and protect them if needed. Protecting those you care for is a kindness all its own. Honesty is another thing a nice guy should be. for being dishonest about your feelings or what have you to not hurt her feelings is only setting her up for failure and not nice at all. The truth may hurt but it is necessary for progress. Just my two cents. Good synopsis. |
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Who in the **** cares...Honestly, I get tired of this "nice guy" dribble just like everyone else that has been here for at least a year. If you are nice, cool, if not, cool...I don't give a flyin' **** and I don't need to be reminded every time you feel like you are only a small portion of the world, which, you are anyway.
No offense, but if you are so sick and tired of it..dont come into these threads, u saw the title didnt you? Nice copout...All good if you don't want to see the forest from the trees, but generally speaking people create topic to become smarter, or learn something. If and when a thread is created that doesn't at any time want to take into account differing opinions, they are useless, because they do not promote discussion. One sided glasses doesn't make you better than anyone, they generally make you more blind than everyone else.
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Who in the **** cares...Honestly, I get tired of this "nice guy" dribble just like everyone else that has been here for at least a year. If you are nice, cool, if not, cool...I don't give a flyin' **** and I don't need to be reminded every time you feel like you are only a small portion of the world, which, you are anyway.
No offense, but if you are so sick and tired of it..dont come into these threads, u saw the title didnt you? Nice copout...All good if you don't want to see the forest from the trees, but generally speaking people create topic to become smarter, or learn something. If and when a thread is created that doesn't at any time want to take into account differing opinions, they are useless, because they do not promote discussion. One sided glasses doesn't make you better than anyone, they generally make you more blind than everyone else.
Then maybe you should trade in your one sided glasses? Just a suggestion. |
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Who in the **** cares...Honestly, I get tired of this "nice guy" dribble just like everyone else that has been here for at least a year. If you are nice, cool, if not, cool...I don't give a flyin' **** and I don't need to be reminded every time you feel like you are only a small portion of the world, which, you are anyway.
No offense, but if you are so sick and tired of it..dont come into these threads, u saw the title didnt you? Nice copout...All good if you don't want to see the forest from the trees, but generally speaking people create topic to become smarter, or learn something. If and when a thread is created that doesn't at any time want to take into account differing opinions, they are useless, because they do not promote discussion. One sided glasses doesn't make you better than anyone, they generally make you more blind than everyone else.
you've a wonderful mind F&L... But I know that you know that common sense simply does not apply to these threads!! Peeps post because they've nothing better to do. Content seems irrelevant... |
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