Topic: Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?
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Sat 10/11/08 06:38 AM
nope. flowerforyou

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Sat 10/11/08 06:49 AM
some of them i am :smile:

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Sat 10/11/08 06:51 AM
I'm attracted to you if you're holding a filet mignon in one and a vodka martini in the other. Yes, very sexy.

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Sun 10/12/08 07:40 AM
Probably the easiest way to sum it up is that I think I tend to be attracted to women who are able to express in an unambiguous way that they are attracted to me.

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Sun 10/12/08 07:48 AM

Probably the easiest way to sum it up is that I think I tend to be attracted to women who are able to express in an unambiguous way that they are attracted to me.


I agree. I hate ambiguity. flowerforyou

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Sun 10/12/08 07:48 AM
Weirdness!!!!

I've always been attracted to the Badazz,wild,taken,drinking, womanizing,smokin' hot hot shots that seem to be everywhere and Of coarse those ones are only interested in one thing....the nice guys....I just don't seem to click with.pitchfork


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Sun 10/12/08 08:00 AM

Weirdness!!!!

I've always been attracted to the Badazz,wild,taken,drinking, womanizing,smokin' hot hot shots that seem to be everywhere and Of coarse those ones are only interested in one thing....the nice guys....I just don't seem to click with.pitchfork




Oh great. this is going to spark another "nice guys finish last" thread. laugh

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Sun 10/12/08 08:06 AM

Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?


Most of the time...

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Sun 10/12/08 08:41 AM
MY PROBLEM IS I FIND IM ATTRACTED IN SOME WAYS BUT NOT OTHERS.
I DONT KNOW IF ITS BEING PICKY, BUT IM NOT SETTLING FOR ANYONE IM NOT TOTALLY ATTRACTED TO IN ALL FACETS.

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Sun 10/12/08 09:05 AM


Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?

I'm not.

It's almost sad that I can look at a person and can tell whether or not they are attracted to me by whether I'm attracted to them.


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hmmmmmm I call that being needy. LOL

Needing to have a challenge that is. rofl rofl rofl rofl


Actually it's rare I feel a strong attraction for someone. So I feel badly turning guys away all the time. I just know. Immediately. oops smokin


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Sun 10/12/08 09:53 AM
Edited by heartSoul on Sun 10/12/08 09:55 AM


You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment?


Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with.

Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them.

If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone.




how hard is it to write at least a paragraph about yourself???

I love those that say anything you want to know just ask...
I'll email them a bunch of questions........
then they never respondtongue2 :laughing:

oh well
and don't get me started on mutual match
none of those people ever contact me, so why say your interested if your not going to do anything about it?huh


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Sun 10/12/08 01:08 PM
Someone is attracted to me????

wtf are they thinking with???

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Sun 10/12/08 01:19 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. ohwell

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Sun 10/12/08 01:25 PM

Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?

I'm not.

It's almost sad that I can look at a person and can tell whether or not they are attracted to me by whether I'm attracted to them.


grumble


I'd say no. I'm too picky.

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Sun 10/12/08 01:25 PM
Edited by brandynicole on Sun 10/12/08 01:26 PM
Old old men love me. whoa


I like older men but not THAT old!

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Sun 10/12/08 01:28 PM
I'm not attracted to the ones who advertise their attraction...so I really have no way of knowing unless I approach them and get shot down. ohwell

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Sun 10/12/08 01:29 PM

Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?

I'm not.

It's almost sad that I can look at a person and can tell whether or not they are attracted to me by whether I'm attracted to them.


grumble


nope, the guys who like me, i can't stand them. sad but true, drinker

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Sun 10/12/08 01:37 PM


You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment?


Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with.

Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them.

If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone.




LOL, my favorites are the ones who say "i'll write something later." and then later never comes...rofl rofl

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Sun 10/12/08 01:39 PM



You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment?


Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with.

Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them.

If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone.




LOL, my favorites are the ones who say "i'll write something later." and then later never comes...rofl rofl
pfft yea. i can pick vibes from those people: lazy, cant write anything good etc. whoa

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Sun 10/12/08 01:40 PM


Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?

I'm not.

It's almost sad that I can look at a person and can tell whether or not they are attracted to me by whether I'm attracted to them.


grumble


Women on parole make me drool drool


duuuuude, have i got the girl for you! j/klaugh