Probably the easiest way to sum it up is that I think I tend to be attracted to women who are able to express in an unambiguous way that they are attracted to me.

Because they've been taught that men are automatically wrong and that they're automatically right every time simply because of gender.

But this is one situation where I do want to point out that plenty of men lose arguments because they are idiots. My own father and mother, neither can ever be wrong, they're a pair of idiots, made for each other I guess.

I believe prejudiced exists between different races, but it isn't just a racial thing, people prejudge each other for anything. I believe it is human nature, I think those who believe they are not prejudiced are the ones who likely are the most prejudiced, after all they don't recognize what it is.

One small thing, I think in a dating forum "blacks against whites" would have been the proper way to phrase it. I seem to get along well with black women.

I find that disturbing. I'd be a lot happier with a woman who eats a big plate of mashed potatoes and stuff.

I wouldn't expect to pay for her. Unless she asked me out, that might be a way of saying thanks.

"I was single, 21 and 2 kids when I met my ex husband."

*EX* husband.

That pretty much sums up what I'm talking about.

If a woman has a child but the father is no longer in the picture, then some sort of big mistake happened. I don't want to be the next mistake. A woman who is divorced, it's the same thing though I don't see it as a risk like a child.

I'm still only getting used to the idea of women my age having kids, and I'm 31. When I was 21 a woman with a kid would just be way too shocking and not something I was even going to think about at all because most women at that age don't have kids yet.

Mistakes happen and a lot of women my age have kids without the father, and some time has passed. I'm open to a relationship with them. Still, I don't even want kids at all, ever, so a woman who has kids I have to question whether we're compatible. And if she still wants more kids I see us as incompatible on anything more than just a simple level, and it's also a risk factor. It's virtually never going to happen that I agree to a relationship with a woman who wants kids, and I'm going to be very hesitant to have a relationship with a woman who's a mother, she's going to have to explain to me first.

Also please don't call me Jesus, I'm trying to be incognito.

I thought the whole point of being here was to meet in person. If they don't want to meet after exchanging a couple emails personally I would lose interest.

I was thinking of writing the same thing.

It sounds like you've been looking in the wrong place, maybe try a different approach. Personally I don't even bother with one night stands. I want to have sex with someone I really like, the same person for months or years.

Obsess about their looks instead of their personality. Thanks for asking!