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Topic: Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you?
Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 01:41 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 01:42 PM
You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment? Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with. Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them. If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone. LOL, my favorites are the ones who say "i'll write something later." and then later never comes... pfft yea. i can pick vibes from those people: lazy, cant write anything good etc. or too stupid to string two sentences together, yeah great times there.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 01:43 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 01:43 PM
You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment? Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with. Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them. If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone. LOL, my favorites are the ones who say "i'll write something later." and then later never comes... pfft yea. i can pick vibes from those people: lazy, cant write anything good etc. or too stupid to string two sentences together, yeah great times there. thats just as bad. two sentences? yea, that doesnt tell you much.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 01:58 PM
You have probably already tried this........but what about emailing them without looking at their profile. Maybe their friend helped them to write it and said friend injected more of her into it than the actual profile person. Maybe you'd be pleasantly surprised? I know that's a long shot, but could be a good experiment? Well, the only profiles I ever look at anymore are the snippets on the same page with the Mutual Match candidates -- and, generally speaking, the entire profile is "I don't know what to write here" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," or "I'm laid back and easy-going." Not much to work with. Communication is a HUGE thing for me, and if someone is either too lazy or too ill-equipped to say ANYTHING of substance in their profile -- the ONE opportunity they have to let them get themselves out there, so people can know something about them and who they are (since so few actually post in the forums) -- I just can't muster up the energy to try to pull something "worthwhile" out of them. If there was truly anything "worthwhile" to be shown, I wouldn't HAVE to pull it out of them -- they would have put it out there for the whole world to see. I mean, if they have any real interest in trying to meet someone. LOL, my favorites are the ones who say "i'll write something later." and then later never comes... pfft yea. i can pick vibes from those people: lazy, cant write anything good etc. or too stupid to string two sentences together, yeah great times there. thats just as bad. two sentences? yea, that doesnt tell you much. lol, yeah. :)

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 01:58 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball be like the average guy and think the whole world is after you, that way you won't be surprised. :)

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 02:01 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball be like the average guy and think the whole world is after you, that way you won't be surprised. :) i cant think like the average guy, i would have to hump everything that moves and has two legs.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 02:04 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball be like the average guy and think the whole world is after you, that way you won't be surprised. :) i cant think like the average guy, i would have to hump everything that moves and has two legs. but if you did that, that would make you oh so very sexeh....

Tromette Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 996	Sun 10/12/08 02:04 PM
Are you attracted to the people who are attracted to you? I'm not. It's almost sad that I can look at a person and can tell whether or not they are attracted to me by whether I'm attracted to them. I'm rarely attracted to anybody. And if there's any sort of instantaneous physical attraction, say if I see someone with an alluring pic on here, it's almost always immediately nullified by reading their lame excuse for a profile. Hm. I was planning on going to your profile, reading it, and judging you by it, but hell if I don't have an extra nine hours to spare.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 02:09 PM Edited by RareEntity on Sun 10/12/08 02:09 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball be like the average guy and think the whole world is after you, that way you won't be surprised. :) i cant think like the average guy, i would have to hump everything that moves and has two legs. but if you did that, that would make you oh so very sexeh.... oh yea you would like that, me humping everything in sight?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 02:32 PM
my flaw as of late is that im a flirt, and it results into women liking me. problem is i dont know what degree. don't they usually tell you eventually? yea they do, i just need to tune my radar so when another tells me she does, im not totally thrown a curveball be like the average guy and think the whole world is after you, that way you won't be surprised. :) i cant think like the average guy, i would have to hump everything that moves and has two legs. but if you did that, that would make you oh so very sexeh.... oh yea you would like that, me humping everything in sight? oh yeah, that'd make you a "manly man."

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 02:44 PM
hehehe i see, well the only thing that will get humped by me is a girlfriend. but since i dont have one, i no humpy humpy.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 10/12/08 03:16 PM
hehehe i see, well the only thing that will get humped by me is a girlfriend. but since i dont have one, i no humpy humpy. oooh, now you've graduated into a "nice guy"

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 10/12/08 03:20 PM
hehehe i see, well the only thing that will get humped by me is a girlfriend. but since i dont have one, i no humpy humpy. oooh, now you've graduated into a "nice guy" no, a nice guy on here would start a thread b!tching how they cant get any.