100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: Just ask JustAGuy | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
Hey girls go back to playing with Just A guy it is fun watching him squirm lol It is fun, isn't it? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
And on that slightly mushy, yet perfectly valid, note... It's time for me to head out of here for tonight. As always, keep the questions coming folks. This is a lot of fun. As we always say Don't ask just any guy. Ask JustAGuy Sleep well everyone. :-) No sleeping for me, I'm at work |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I have a very simple question...
"Why?" |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I am thinking about cutting my hair, how short should I cut it? I have not seen how long it actually is now, so I can't give good advice on how short it should be. My personal preference on women is long hair, so I wouldn't advise a short cut anyway....lol My hair is about 3.5/4 feet long. Honestly I can't bring myself to cut more than 6 inches, but keeping thinking about cutting more. Wow! It's long! How about doing 10" for a "Locks of Love" program? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I have a very simple question... "Why?" Ahhh..the answer would be " Why not? " |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I have a very simple question... "Why?" Ahhh..the answer would be " Why not? " Ok, justaguy... Why am I single? I'm a good looking guy, I have lot's of nice traits. I have a lot to offer women... I don't "get" this love thing... not sure I want to ... in the last week, several women have expressed interest, but they go limp after an initial encounter and a couple days. At first they flirt, then when its time to just talk about life and get to know one another, I assum ehtye flit off to the next flirt to maintain an emotional fix with their libidos... They are missing it... I am a faithful man, a romantic man, I write poetry, sing love songs... if a woman wanted to be romanced, so need look no further. My assessment is this, and I think I am right. 90% of the women on this site just want to entertain themselves temporarily and have no sincere intentions of ever really meeting a decent guy. To that 90%, they are here to fiddle with their vain emotions for a very brief time from one guy on to the next over and over again... Well, I am of the 10% that are sincere in wanting to meet someone for a relationship... I think the reason I am single... if it had to do with the statistics I perceive on here... is that 90% of all women are players... and only 10% are worth a ****... My 2 cents.... but it seems like a pretty good assumtion... So... why...? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
JustAGuy2112
on
Tue 10/21/08 10:37 AM
|
|
Ok, justaguy... Why am I single? I'm a good looking guy, I have lot's of nice traits. I have a lot to offer women... The easy answer is that you are single because you simply haven't found the " right one " as of yet. I don't "get" this love thing... not sure I want to ... in the last week, several women have expressed interest, but they go limp after an initial encounter and a couple days. It happens. There are a multitude of things that can cause that to happen. First and foremost among them is a simple matter of the woman not feeling that " click " that we all seem to be looking for. At first they flirt, then when its time to just talk about life and get to know one another, I assum ehtye flit off to the next flirt to maintain an emotional fix with their libidos... Assuming anything when it comes to dealing with women here, or anywhere, is a serious mistake. Like I said, even if YOU feel that " click " with them, they may not feel the same thing. That doesn't mean that they are " flit "ting off to satisfy their emotional libido. If they flirt, then fade away, then they aren't " the one " anyway. It doesn't mean anything BUT that they aren't " the one ". They are missing it... I am a faithful man, a romantic man, I write poetry, sing love songs... if a woman wanted to be romanced, so need look no further. Welcome to the world of being single. This is just the way things go. My observation of the women on this site tells me that many of them are here looking for something VERY specific. They have a certain list in their heads of things that they absolutely MUST have in their next relationship, and they will not " settle " for anything less than " THE one " that is " perfect " for them. No matter how many women there are here, you have to realize that you ( as well as myself ) are only going to be " perfect " for a very small percentage of women. My assessment is this, and I think I am right. 90% of the women on this site just want to entertain themselves temporarily and have no sincere intentions of ever really meeting a decent guy. To that 90%, they are here to fiddle with their vain emotions for a very brief time from one guy on to the next over and over again... I don't really believe that. I believe that 90% that you refer to are the ones that are like the one that I spoke of above. Well, I am of the 10% that are sincere in wanting to meet someone for a relationship... As are many others. I think the reason I am single... if it had to do with the statistics I perceive on here... is that 90% of all women are players... and only 10% are worth a ****... The reason you ( as well as myself ) are single is not because 90% of the women here aren't worth a sh*t. It's because that 90% have had to deal with so much sh*t in their lives that they have become exceptionally picky about what they will take. I am probably going to get myself into trouble for this statement, but I am going to say it anyway. Many of the women here say that " looks don't matter " or that they " look for the beauty within ", but that is not entirely accurate. In ANY dating situation, there absolutely MUST be a physical attraction before the " beauty within " is even looked for. It's just the way it is. A guy could be the sweetest, most romantic, most fabulous guy a woman has ever met, but if he's not attractive ( on first sight ) in some way to her, chances are she will never find that out. My 2 cents.... but it seems like a pretty good assumption... Again. Assuming anything about women here, or anywhere for that matter, is a mistake that too many men make. So... why...? Because that's just the way it is. Are you looking for " the one " ??? If so, then you will understand that there are just as many women asking themselves " Why am I still single " as there are men asking that same question. Another thing, go take a peek at the newbie's sections. If you take a good look, you will see that there are quite a few more men here than there are women. We're outnumbered. That means that the chances of us finding " the one " are slimmer every time a new guy shows up. A woman being " the one " for you, doesn't necessarily mean that you are " the one " for her. A lot of things have to align perfectly for the two of you to find each other. Sometimes it happens. Sometimes it doesn't. All you can do is be patient and keep trying. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
mine is a easy one.....
when and where are u takin me on holiday?? 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
question is simple - when will I be loved?
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
heathersaysgobucks
on
Tue 10/21/08 04:13 PM
|
|
I have a very simple question... "Why?" Ahhh..the answer would be " Why not? " Ok, justaguy... Why am I single? I'm a good looking guy, I have lot's of nice traits. I have a lot to offer women... I don't "get" this love thing... not sure I want to ... in the last week, several women have expressed interest, but they go limp after an initial encounter and a couple days. At first they flirt, then when its time to just talk about life and get to know one another, I assum ehtye flit off to the next flirt to maintain an emotional fix with their libidos... They are missing it... I am a faithful man, a romantic man, I write poetry, sing love songs... if a woman wanted to be romanced, so need look no further. My assessment is this, and I think I am right. 90% of the women on this site just want to entertain themselves temporarily and have no sincere intentions of ever really meeting a decent guy. To that 90%, they are here to fiddle with their vain emotions for a very brief time from one guy on to the next over and over again... Well, I am of the 10% that are sincere in wanting to meet someone for a relationship... I think the reason I am single... if it had to do with the statistics I perceive on here... is that 90% of all women are players... and only 10% are worth a ****... My 2 cents.... but it seems like a pretty good assumtion... So... why...? Just my own 2 cents here as well. I know quite a few women on here, myself included, that are not here to "fiddle with vain emotions". I'm looking for a quality guy with whom I share interests and commonalities. That's why I signed up and paid for EHarmony (which was a joke) and why I signed up here and other places. I believe you must have a connection that is MORE than the physical. Please don't assume women flit off to the next encounter..it could be just because they aren't that into you.....use this as a learning experience and possibly gain some insight into yourself and the way you come across to women. If your always busy talking about how great you are, you'll never get to find out how great someone else is. I think you have a lot to offer the woman who is perfect just for you, don't let your hurt ego get in the way of that. Hell, if I did that, I would become a nun. Let some of that resentment from these prior experiences slide off your back and jump back in!!! The water's fine! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Welcome to the world of being single. This is just the way things go. My observation of the women on this site tells me that many of them are here looking for something VERY specific. They have a certain list in their heads of things that they absolutely MUST have in their next relationship, and they will not " settle " for anything less than " THE one " that is " perfect " for them. No matter how many women there are here, you have to realize that you ( as well as myself ) are only going to be " perfect " for a very small percentage of women. The reason you ( as well as myself ) are single is not because 90% of the women here aren't worth a sh*t. It's because that 90% have had to deal with so much sh*t in their lives that they have become exceptionally picky about what they will take. I am probably going to get myself into trouble for this statement, but I am going to say it anyway. Many of the women here say that " looks don't matter " or that they " look for the beauty within ", but that is not entirely accurate. In ANY dating situation, there absolutely MUST be a physical attraction before the " beauty within " is even looked for. It's just the way it is. A guy could be the sweetest, most romantic, most fabulous guy a woman has ever met, but if he's not attractive ( on first sight ) in some way to her, chances are she will never find that out.  (insert clapping smiley here) He gets it!!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
He's pretty smart eh? Hell of a friend too. Round of dancing bananas from me too!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
justaguy I want to know why people post that they are attractive or that their friends think they are? I prefer to decide for myself thankyou very much!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i was wondering, how long does it take a guy to realize theres no chemistry? does it take more than a month? just wondering
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
unless there complete morons!!! lol
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
The reason you ( as well as myself ) are single is not because 90% of the women here aren't worth a sh*t. It's because that 90% have had to deal with so much sh*t in their lives that they have become exceptionally picky about what they will take. I am probably going to get myself into trouble for this statement, but I am going to say it anyway. Many of the women here say that " looks don't matter " or that they " look for the beauty within ", but that is not entirely accurate. In ANY dating situation, there absolutely MUST be a physical attraction before the " beauty within " is even looked for. It's just the way it is. A guy could be the sweetest, most romantic, most fabulous guy a woman has ever met, but if he's not attractive ( on first sight ) in some way to her, chances are she will never find that out. JustAGuy and TelephoneMan? I think that the first paragraph above is probably true of both...but I think it's not so much about being "picky" as being VERY gun shy. You are NOT in trouble, my wise and wonderfully weird friend...cuz I agree that looks always play SOME role...it might not be primary, but what makes you look twice in the first place??? Actually we've all got a better chance of having someone look twice if we control what we post in terms of photos and THAT is an advantage to online vs real life (if you're having a bad hair day it's OUT THERE for the world to see in real time but you don't have to post a photo! LOL!) Personally, I find Telephoneman quite attractive so apparently that is not a deal breaker for me & I'm betting not for other women either - I can't be that unusual in terms of what's appealing! Just my thoughts - but then again, I'm not JustAGuy so you can consider me UNwise if you like :) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hey JustAGuy...
Is it "butt naked" or "buck naked" & could you please define either/both??? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Justaguy what does the term "dog gone it mean?"
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
thanks justaguy for taking time to answer all that... cool
I have been thinking lately... for myself... that I have been one of those "list makers" too at times. But it seems as soon as I write one quality on my list, or more important, a quality I don't think I'd like, then I find someone who changes my mind... Like... not too long ago I wrote that I didn't like country music all that much... then I found a cool girl that was into country and has some on her MySpace page... suddenly I'm a convert... haha not a total convert, but at least I can listen to it... Like... and so many guys are like this (not excluding self...)... (so vain if you ask me)... size... yeah, so many guys THINK they are attracted to size 5 supermodels only... oh brother... "open thy merry mind oh lonely men of Earth"... I have had some of the best friendships with women of all shapes, sizes, colors, nationalities, etc. etc. etc As far as a "list"... I'm trying to get away from that and open myself up to being a buddy, a friend, a long-lasting companion I really believe if folks jump in the sack on the first date... or too prematurely in the friendship, that they engage hormones and chemicals inside the human body that alter the thinking, etc... they say "Love Is Blind"... those hormones and chemicals of sex, etc. are why love gets blind... The only thing I can think of right now for a requirement for a woman is that she is a woman... lol Too many freaks and pervs on these Internet sites... dudes trying to pretend they are women, etc... I have had so too many message from icky yuck like that... just ewwwww on so many levels... A pretty smile helps... I'm a sucker for long hair, but then as soon as I start thinking that, a short-haired gal rocks my boat... I think it has to have chemistry, has to be an attraction... if anybody claims otherwise they are lying their arse off... But to me, it is who the woman is inside... what are the qualities and experiences that makes her her... makes her unique like a fingerprint (as we all are)... and thanks heathersaysgobucks,... good points and well taken... and carolanne58... its not been until the last few years that I have discovered enough self-esteem to think well of myself... to actually say publicly that I think I am a good looking guy... and I have a hunch its a lot better than saying "I think I'm ugly"... what would you have me say...? good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
thanks justaguy for taking time to answer all that... cool I have been thinking lately... for myself... that I have been one of those "list makers" too at times. But it seems as soon as I write one quality on my list, or more important, a quality I don't think I'd like, then I find someone who changes my mind... Like... not too long ago I wrote that I didn't like country music all that much... then I found a cool girl that was into country and has some on her MySpace page... suddenly I'm a convert... haha not a total convert, but at least I can listen to it... Like... and so many guys are like this (not excluding self...)... (so vain if you ask me)... size... yeah, so many guys THINK they are attracted to size 5 supermodels only... oh brother... "open thy merry mind oh lonely men of Earth"... I have had some of the best friendships with women of all shapes, sizes, colors, nationalities, etc. etc. etc As far as a "list"... I'm trying to get away from that and open myself up to being a buddy, a friend, a long-lasting companion I really believe if folks jump in the sack on the first date... or too prematurely in the friendship, that they engage hormones and chemicals inside the human body that alter the thinking, etc... they say "Love Is Blind"... those hormones and chemicals of sex, etc. are why love gets blind... The only thing I can think of right now for a requirement for a woman is that she is a woman... lol Too many freaks and pervs on these Internet sites... dudes trying to pretend they are women, etc... I have had so too many message from icky yuck like that... just ewwwww on so many levels... A pretty smile helps... I'm a sucker for long hair, but then as soon as I start thinking that, a short-haired gal rocks my boat... I think it has to have chemistry, has to be an attraction... if anybody claims otherwise they are lying their arse off... But to me, it is who the woman is inside... what are the qualities and experiences that makes her her... makes her unique like a fingerprint (as we all are)... and thanks heathersaysgobucks,... good points and well taken... and carolanne58... its not been until the last few years that I have discovered enough self-esteem to think well of myself... to actually say publicly that I think I am a good looking guy... and I have a hunch its a lot better than saying "I think I'm ugly"... what would you have me say...? good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it JustAGuy??? Why is this man not "taken" cuz he's ADORABLE! |
|
|
|
|
