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JustAGuy??? Why is this man not "taken" cuz he's ADORABLE! I agree. |
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okay , okay... i have a legitimate question that i have been waitnig to ask "Justa".....Here is is: Why do my gargage men make so much noise picking my garbage up at 6:00 in the morning????
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Edited by
heathersaysgobucks
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Tue 10/21/08 06:47 PM
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TelephoneMan........I think I owe you an apology (even though you didn't even realize some of my thoughts). I could have sworn I saw you post the other day that you were only looking for a woman who was not overweight blah blah blah. However, when I went back and looked for it.....I can't find it in your posts. What you were saying today didn't jive with what I thought I had heard you say earlier in the week and in my mind I was thinking WTH? So after your reading your second post in here, I'm much impressed with your outlook. Maybe I mistook you for another poster? Not sure, but whatever the case, I wish you much success! Definitely keep an open mind with these ladies here.....I see so many beautiful souls, justme and galendgirl included!
...and of course CarolAnee too, she's got those great feet...hehe |
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Telephoneman my comment was not directed at you in peticular I did not mean to offend you.And since you asked I don't think It was necessary to say you are good looking as we can see that you are by your pic.Blushing
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okay , okay... i have a legitimate question that i have been waitnig to ask "Justa".....Here is is: Why do my gargage men make so much noise picking my garbage up at 6:00 in the morning???? excuse me "garbage men" not "garage men" |
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Thanks Heather, just resting my feet they have been running around alot lately.To many things to do not enough hours in the day! I suspect this thread has no end.Thanks justaguy!
Telephoneman please don't judge us to harshly there are a lot of wonderful careing women on this site it is to bad you have had some bad experiences.Justaguy is right on the money some of us women and men have occassionally come accross a player and It happens that you get frustrated.Get to know us have some fun and try not to take things to seriously.just my opinion carol, cheers! |
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OK, OK, So we are all wanting to meet telephone man, but is he willing to meet all of us?
Maybe that is a question for Guy.... How about it... you never know till you try... and I am still waiting for Guy... the one and only to take me out.... 
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thanks justaguy for taking time to answer all that... cool I have been thinking lately... for myself... that I have been one of those "list makers" too at times. But it seems as soon as I write one quality on my list, or more important, a quality I don't think I'd like, then I find someone who changes my mind... Like... not too long ago I wrote that I didn't like country music all that much... then I found a cool girl that was into country and has some on her MySpace page... suddenly I'm a convert... haha not a total convert, but at least I can listen to it... Like... and so many guys are like this (not excluding self...)... (so vain if you ask me)... size... yeah, so many guys THINK they are attracted to size 5 supermodels only... oh brother... "open thy merry mind oh lonely men of Earth"... I have had some of the best friendships with women of all shapes, sizes, colors, nationalities, etc. etc. etc As far as a "list"... I'm trying to get away from that and open myself up to being a buddy, a friend, a long-lasting companion I really believe if folks jump in the sack on the first date... or too prematurely in the friendship, that they engage hormones and chemicals inside the human body that alter the thinking, etc... they say "Love Is Blind"... those hormones and chemicals of sex, etc. are why love gets blind... The only thing I can think of right now for a requirement for a woman is that she is a woman... lol Too many freaks and pervs on these Internet sites... dudes trying to pretend they are women, etc... I have had so too many message from icky yuck like that... just ewwwww on so many levels... A pretty smile helps... I'm a sucker for long hair, but then as soon as I start thinking that, a short-haired gal rocks my boat... I think it has to have chemistry, has to be an attraction... if anybody claims otherwise they are lying their arse off... But to me, it is who the woman is inside... what are the qualities and experiences that makes her her... makes her unique like a fingerprint (as we all are)... and thanks heathersaysgobucks,... good points and well taken... and carolanne58... its not been until the last few years that I have discovered enough self-esteem to think well of myself... to actually say publicly that I think I am a good looking guy... and I have a hunch its a lot better than saying "I think I'm ugly"... what would you have me say...? good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it JustAGuy??? Why is this man not "taken" cuz he's ADORABLE! 
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TelephoneMan........I think I owe you an apology (even though you didn't even realize some of my thoughts). I could have sworn I saw you post the other day that you were only looking for a woman who was not overweight blah blah blah. However, when I went back and looked for it.....I can't find it in your posts. What you were saying today didn't jive with what I thought I had heard you say earlier in the week and in my mind I was thinking WTH? So after your reading your second post in here, I'm much impressed with your outlook. Maybe I mistook you for another poster? Not sure, but whatever the case, I wish you much success! Definitely keep an open mind with these ladies here.....I see so many beautiful souls, justme and galendgirl included! ...and of course CarolAnee too, she's got those great feet...hehe Well I am learning as I go... and probably somewhere I did post something about size... I have thought that in the past as I eledued to in my post here.., But I have learned, even in the last couple weeks... that people tend to make lists...some folks even make a specific list and then pray to God for specific, things, etc. (or whatever positive thoughts/faith/deity they posses, etc...) What I am finding.... Is that as I open my mind to all women, I have beautiful people to talk to... which increases my chance of creating friends... which increases chances of falling in love... On another site.... I messaged a woman who said she had lost a leg in an auto crash. Her picture was so adorable... and her story was so strong... and she had one of the best senses of humor I had ever seen... I found her positive nature irresistible as a buddy... so I messaged her... still haven't heard back from her, but maybe this paints a bit of a picture of what I'm about... Taking off the blinders... and seeing there is an entire world of beautiful people out there I would imagine that the statistic in the U.S. is something like about 100 million women, give or take... so why should I be alone and lonely... done being that... and started to take life by the breeze and enjoy it... feels fantastic... others should try the same |
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mine is a easy one..... when and where are u takin me on holiday??  Hmmm...ya know...I have a Vegas trip in the planning stages for next Summer....lol |
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question is simple - when will I be loved? When you allow yourself to be.:-) |
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justaguy I want to know why people post that they are attractive or that their friends think they are? I prefer to decide for myself thankyou very much! Because physical attraction is a MUST in any dating situation. In most cases, people seem to think it helps their cause to let people know that others find them attractive. In their minds, whether they realize it or not, they are saying " They find me attractive, so you should too. " In my profile I say absolutely nothing about my appearance, other than that I am kinda chubby. I have enough pics in my profile for anyone to decide whether or not I am attractive to them. I think that's the way it should be because you simply can't MAKE someone think you are attractive. |
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i was wondering, how long does it take a guy to realize theres no chemistry? does it take more than a month? just wondering  Well...from a guy's point of view on this.... It may be a case of him feeling that there is, while you don't feel that at all. Some guys will be very persistent when they feel that chemistry. Some guys are just more stubborn about it than others. |
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thanks justaguy for taking time to answer all that... cool I have been thinking lately... for myself... that I have been one of those "list makers" too at times. But it seems as soon as I write one quality on my list, or more important, a quality I don't think I'd like, then I find someone who changes my mind... Like... not too long ago I wrote that I didn't like country music all that much... then I found a cool girl that was into country and has some on her MySpace page... suddenly I'm a convert... haha not a total convert, but at least I can listen to it... Like... and so many guys are like this (not excluding self...)... (so vain if you ask me)... size... yeah, so many guys THINK they are attracted to size 5 supermodels only... oh brother... "open thy merry mind oh lonely men of Earth"... I have had some of the best friendships with women of all shapes, sizes, colors, nationalities, etc. etc. etc As far as a "list"... I'm trying to get away from that and open myself up to being a buddy, a friend, a long-lasting companion I really believe if folks jump in the sack on the first date... or too prematurely in the friendship, that they engage hormones and chemicals inside the human body that alter the thinking, etc... they say "Love Is Blind"... those hormones and chemicals of sex, etc. are why love gets blind... The only thing I can think of right now for a requirement for a woman is that she is a woman... lol Too many freaks and pervs on these Internet sites... dudes trying to pretend they are women, etc... I have had so too many message from icky yuck like that... just ewwwww on so many levels... A pretty smile helps... I'm a sucker for long hair, but then as soon as I start thinking that, a short-haired gal rocks my boat... I think it has to have chemistry, has to be an attraction... if anybody claims otherwise they are lying their arse off... But to me, it is who the woman is inside... what are the qualities and experiences that makes her her... makes her unique like a fingerprint (as we all are)... and thanks heathersaysgobucks,... good points and well taken... and carolanne58... its not been until the last few years that I have discovered enough self-esteem to think well of myself... to actually say publicly that I think I am a good looking guy... and I have a hunch its a lot better than saying "I think I'm ugly"... what would you have me say...? good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it JustAGuy??? Why is this man not "taken" cuz he's ADORABLE! He may want to pay a visit to the Matchmaking thread if he hasn't already. |
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okay , okay... i have a legitimate question that i have been waitnig to ask "Justa".....Here is is: Why do my gargage men make so much noise picking my garbage up at 6:00 in the morning???? Think about this. You are a garbage man. How much pleasure can you actually take in saying " I'm a garbage man " ??? Trust me. I did that job for a few days when I lived in Tennessee. They make a bunch of noise because they can, and they take enjoyment from knowing that it annoys people..lol |
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good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it I started this thread with the basic idea of giving people answers from a guy's perspective. I figured it would be sometimes silly, sometimes serious. But I never figured the thread would take off the way it has. I thank all of you for continuing to ask the questions that I am having such a good time answering. 
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here's one for ya- I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years now, but lately he flirts a lot more than just friends would do...sex talk etc-how do I know if he wants to be more? Do I just wait and he will make a move? He's really shy, it's so confusing for me. I really like him and he seems different since i started getting attention from another guy:)
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here's one for ya- I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years now, but lately he flirts a lot more than just friends would do...sex talk etc-how do I know if he wants to be more? Do I just wait and he will make a move? He's really shy, it's so confusing for me. I really like him and he seems different since i started getting attention from another guy:) You actually answered your own question. You say that he's been talking to you differently than before. You also state that he is " really shy ". " Really shy " means the chances of him making a move are pretty slim. You'll be waiting a while if that's what you are waiting for. In this case, I am gonna say something that not many women like to hear. If you really like this dude, and you feel like he might like you as well, then you need to GROW A PAIR and just say something to him. Doing that is MUCH better than sitting there wondering. 
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Just a guy, how does a woman "grow a pair"?
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thanks justaguy for taking time to answer all that... cool I have been thinking lately... for myself... that I have been one of those "list makers" too at times. But it seems as soon as I write one quality on my list, or more important, a quality I don't think I'd like, then I find someone who changes my mind... Like... not too long ago I wrote that I didn't like country music all that much... then I found a cool girl that was into country and has some on her MySpace page... suddenly I'm a convert... haha not a total convert, but at least I can listen to it... Like... and so many guys are like this (not excluding self...)... (so vain if you ask me)... size... yeah, so many guys THINK they are attracted to size 5 supermodels only... oh brother... "open thy merry mind oh lonely men of Earth"... I have had some of the best friendships with women of all shapes, sizes, colors, nationalities, etc. etc. etc As far as a "list"... I'm trying to get away from that and open myself up to being a buddy, a friend, a long-lasting companion I really believe if folks jump in the sack on the first date... or too prematurely in the friendship, that they engage hormones and chemicals inside the human body that alter the thinking, etc... they say "Love Is Blind"... those hormones and chemicals of sex, etc. are why love gets blind... The only thing I can think of right now for a requirement for a woman is that she is a woman... lol Too many freaks and pervs on these Internet sites... dudes trying to pretend they are women, etc... I have had so too many message from icky yuck like that... just ewwwww on so many levels... A pretty smile helps... I'm a sucker for long hair, but then as soon as I start thinking that, a short-haired gal rocks my boat... I think it has to have chemistry, has to be an attraction... if anybody claims otherwise they are lying their arse off... But to me, it is who the woman is inside... what are the qualities and experiences that makes her her... makes her unique like a fingerprint (as we all are)... and thanks heathersaysgobucks,... good points and well taken... and carolanne58... its not been until the last few years that I have discovered enough self-esteem to think well of myself... to actually say publicly that I think I am a good looking guy... and I have a hunch its a lot better than saying "I think I'm ugly"... what would you have me say...? good post, justaguy, thanks for starting it JustAGuy??? Why is this man not "taken" cuz he's ADORABLE! He may want to pay a visit to the Matchmaking thread if he hasn't already. already there... lol |
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