lol I love you too!

You look cutsie to me...did you bite the dates you were on...

Your profile looked fine.

looks good

Perhaps that is something to notice ... if you post in the threads people respond ...

If you continue to join in ... you get to know people and they get to learn about you ...

Then when you send emails they are not to strangers

Good luck

my only suggestion...keep posting

I've been here almost two years and I have come closer to being named President of Uzbekistan than I have to getting a date.

i'm just here to see if the monkey is showing his banana

Yes I have been on here for a while and was wondering about the same thing .no one that actually stops by and says Hi either

hahaha, no, but I wanted to throw one off a bridge... she was the most boring person on the face of the earth!

I think your profile is fine--you probably just aren't being outgoing enough, maybe. With a social site, you have to contact a lot of people to get things going. Try to keep in mind that out of 50 people that you message, probably less than half will respond. Out of those maybe 5 will keep the correspondence going past "I'm doing great, how are you?" Out of those probably NONE of them is going to be someone you will really want to get cozy with after you really get to know them.

Your expectations are probably set a bit too high; you may be one of those guys who will view a lady's profile and then if she doesn't view yours in return, or if she views you and doesn't message you, you move on. I know: You don't want to seem like an aggressive jerk, right? But you pretty much have to start the ball rolling yourself. That's just how the internet is; it's a lot different than a nightclub or other social setting.

In a bar if you look at someone and she glances and looks away and doesn't look again, then you know it's probably not worth your while to go any further, but the internet is a lot different. In a bar she can see how you're dressed and what kind of shoes you're wearing, and may even know what sort of car you drive and so on. On the internet, none of those things is apparent and most people on social sites are at least marginally aware of how easy it is to post fake pictures and stuff.

I'm not saying that's what you're doing, necessarily; but when guys make the kind of complaint that you're making about a social site, that's usually the case.

Do try to keep in mind that two dates is like untold riches to some men. A lot of guys would give their left, er... little finger to have even ONE date.

Anyway, these are just my thoughts. Feel free to disregard them. Good luck! yours in Chaos, Scarlett

Definitely not the fact that you are " older " lilith. He's just younger....lol

Dude. I TRIED to stuff the ballot box for you, but the guys with machine guns were keeping a pretty close eye on me.

I've met two people in person through this site, so it does work. What got suggested to me was to post a lot in the forums. That gets you out there where the people who post there are looking. For the ones that are just lurking, waiting for prince charming, use the mutual match thingy, but instead of matching (backfires as often as hits), read the profile and send them an email. It seems to make things go smoother that way.

Your profile looks fine, how about telling us what you are looking for.

Posting in the forums more is a great way to get to know folks.

I would add some pics that show your face without the action. So you can be seen with a smile. It's good to detail that your funny and like to joke...just let it be known you can be respectful too.

I wasn't aware Diebold had such a strong presence over there....oh well, live and learn....

Who knows why you aren't getting dates... I read you're profile and you seem interesting. Keep on looking!!!! I haven't been on a date either!