I would add some pics that show your face without the action. So you can be seen with a smile. It's good to detail that your funny and like to joke...just let it be known you can be respectful too.

Raym - what a wonderful thing you have done for a friend. He's been just a good a friend to you from your statement...talk to him. Tell him you don't know what to do and want to to be fair for all concerned. Honor his friendship by making him an active partner in the resolution. Stick to what you can live with and be okay with when you look in the mirror but included him...let him know where you stand and seek his council.

Making a decision without his consultation may ultimately do the damage to your friendship that you are trying to avoid. Making him an involved partner in the resolution may help him still feel like a man and not someone who is denying responsiblity. Done right, you may come out of the tunnel closer friends.

I would be interested in your thoughts and the ultimate outcome. good luck.

Dragonflylady817