Topic: How many of you are married or
Peccy's photo
Mon 09/08/08 08:54 PM

10 or 12 years should do it
Sounds good

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 09/08/08 08:57 PM
Been There Done That Got the T-Shirt


Don't care to repeat

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 09/08/08 08:57 PM

married for 3 yrs and 17 the second time so 20 yrs and I am now retired from marriage

Wow you do something twenty years you must be good at it.

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:02 AM

believe that marriage is the way to go?


Truthfully I did and have been married....it blows! Why does a piece of paper and a ring suddenly change things?


I've been married -- never again.

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:06 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 09/09/08 06:06 AM


believe that marriage is the way to go?


Truthfully I did and have been married....it blows! Why does a piece of paper and a ring suddenly change things?


I've been married -- never again.


Give me a try. I'll domesticate you, teach you how to cook, to go fishing with my son, to enjoy hanging the laundry out and watching old re-runs of sit-coms with a bowl of fresh popcorn made right on the stove top...















LMFAO.... sorry Lexy I just could NOT resist the tempation....laugh

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:13 AM

I think a good long engament or living together first is the way to go...this gives you plenty of time to decide if you can spend the rest of your life with this person.


I'm with YOU angel.....this is very true!!!!

Also.....it says that 2 people are together because they WANNA be.......not because a piece of paper says they HAVE to be.....

But marriage, after that, is the way to go once you find out.

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:13 AM

Give me a try. I'll domesticate you, teach you how to cook, to go fishing with my son, to enjoy hanging the laundry out and watching old re-runs of sit-coms with a bowl of fresh popcorn made right on the stove top...

LMFAO.... sorry Lexy I just could NOT resist the tempation....laugh


And you're probably the only one who could get away with it....!

That's what I love about you -- you "get" it, and you know how to have fun with it. What I wouldn't give for a world filled with Lilith401s....!

flowers flowers flowers

Lily0923's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:15 AM

believe that marriage is the way to go?


Truthfully I did and have been married....it blows! Why does a piece of paper and a ring suddenly change things?


they don't the attitude tword the piece of paper and the ring change things.

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:16 AM
It's not the ring nor the paper, it's the people involved.

They get comfortable, no longer put forth an effort, find the easy way out, look outside the marriage, etc...

All cases different yet the same

Lily0923's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:17 AM

It's not the ring nor the paper, it's the people involved.

They get comfortable, no longer put forth an effort, find the easy way out, look outside the marriage, etc...

All cases different yet the same


Great minds Fran, great minds....smooched

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:23 AM


It's not the ring nor the paper, it's the people involved.

They get comfortable, no longer put forth an effort, find the easy way out, look outside the marriage, etc...

All cases different yet the same


Great minds Fran, great minds....smooched


waving winking

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:26 AM
Mathmatically it is a 50/50 situation with 41% of first marriages failing, and on up with second at 60% with the third topping at an astounding 73% (approximately, there are always a number of variables within a percentage). Average it out it comes to 58% failure rate of marriage, which is staggering.

Truth of this is, it can work but it is a coinflip on whether or not it will last...honestly, as long as you say you love one another...why bring it too a ceremony.

To answer your question, I don't plan on getting married...statistically, it probably won't happen even if I were to want too.

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:29 AM
i do not necessarily have to get remarried, however if the right person came around and it was important to him, i would not be against it.

bgreymc88's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:22 AM
Edited by bgreymc88 on Tue 09/09/08 07:28 AM

Nope not for me, been there,done that.


I got 2 ex-wives to prove it!!!! oops

I have never looked outside my marriages, but when my latest girlfriend decided to say "we're done" by Instant messenger, I felt free to explore my options with a new friend. Now I have no relationship. After 4 years of living with a pot-head, I have to have standards...

BellaV's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:26 AM
i been married twice.. and i will more then likely be engaged again by thanksgiving

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:29 AM
Was married once and while I don't think it's necessary, I'm not opposed to getting married again. There were a lot of things I liked about being married. I like the security and comfort of it and the dependability. I married the wrong person but that's just the way it goes sometimes.

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:31 AM
Been married once and am now engaged to my Blow up Doll, she is great, if we argue, I let the air out of her and stick her in the closet!!!!smokin

franshade's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:32 AM
Edited by franshade on Tue 09/09/08 07:32 AM
laugh Mikey you go ahead and show her who's boss laugh

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:33 AM

Been married once and am now engaged to my Blow up Doll, she is great, if we argue, I let the air out of her and stick her in the closet!!!!smokin


You keep treating her that way and she's gonna suck you dry noway noway laugh :wink:

thumper95's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:34 AM

Mathmatically it is a 50/50 situation with 41% of first marriages failing, and on up with second at 60% with the third topping at an astounding 73% (approximately, there are always a number of variables within a percentage). Average it out it comes to 58% failure rate of marriage, which is staggering.

Truth of this is, it can work but it is a coinflip on whether or not it will last...honestly, as long as you say you love one another...why bring it too a ceremony.

To answer your question, I don't plan on getting married...statistically, it probably won't happen even if I were to want too.




so can we skip right to the third marriage? it seems to be the charmed one