My dad use say that everyone should be married NOONE should be happy, he so corny

I guess the main reason that things change is the ring gives a false sense of security, because you both have officially promised that you would stay together. Then you get to know the real person, the person that was hidden because he or she was trying to do everything in his or her power to impress you to stay. The ring and piece of paper allows people to drop their guard and feel more secure.

I myself have been married twice, lived up to my end of the promise, and had both of them file for divorce against me (the first time she found another man and started a relationship with him before filing for divorce. The second time, Family court basically forced her to choose between me and a CHANCE to get our children reunited with her.)

I would marry again, but not until I have the true security without the ring and piece of paper. I don't want a wife that doesn't want to be with me for the rest of our lives with or without the ring and piece of paper.

I believe that everyone has there true soulmate. Just let it happen when it is right it will just be.



I have been with my husband for 29 glorious years....we were best friends for about 5 years and would go out with each other if didn't have dates. Then I looked at him in the lake one day and said to myself, "Self he is everything you want." So I did something about it. He went to Mammoth to sky and I invited him back to my place after...we have been together ever since.


Marriage is a wonderful thing if you wait for that one special one....I was lucky I found my special Robb.

did the marriage thing when I was young,..didnt work for me, was in a committed relationship which lasted 14 years without the ring or government seal of approval...now Im single and think I will commit to staying single for sometime...I might give marriage another consideration, like when Im 60 or 70 and ready to settle down...

What gets me is people who meet and 2 weeks later get married HA!

That's kinda like impulse buying at the mall...but you can generally return your items to the mall or make an exchange withhout much effort HA!

totally agree......especially in the entertainment industry....so sad. I was engaged for 4 years and lived with hubby for 2 before we got married. Got married 2 years later had first daughter 7 years later had second daughter.....


I love it lilangel


Impulse marrying....lol

I know people that have done that and they have the best marriages of anyone that I know. I do realize that more often then not it proably goes the other way.

What do you do if you are the one that wants to remarry....and he feels it's not necessary to marry....but you don't want to live together (for moral reasons)????

Never again

YOU Are the perfect man... marry me!

question is how i could be capable to remarry, if i can't even seem to be able to date longer than a couple of month...

Trust and family values..... on your third marriage?

Now that's just funny.....

NOW NOW..... we don't know the whole story!!!

I actually liked being married.....NO I didnt like what happened but, I would do it again.......
for the right reasons this time.........jmo

ahhhhh so if I become a mormon you won't be one of my husbands pats......arr arr arr

You know, for everyone saying never... never is a very long time... you may end up eating your words.

Unless you just want unemotional lusty one night stands... in which case sign me up.

marriage is way to go. Although I never been married my Parents are married 42 yrs now and my grandparents were married 63 yrs before grandma died last year.

my sister will be married 33yrs they got married right after high school, and normally they say teen marriages dont last... this one has... they have one son and he is 27yrs old and he made them proud grandparents last year