i'm a great big meeny for a couple of reasons-

1- my job...

my job, quite basically, sucks. the film business is a breeding ground of ineptitude, corruption, and mediocrity. the hours are long, i often have to work with dangerous (sometimes even carcinogenic) chemicals, the pay sucks (especially since the adoption of NAFTA and tax incentives, which essentially lowered-the-bar for the below-the-line worker via outsourcing), and the number of complete and total know-it-all @ssholes poisoning the industry is simply immense. what has become of hollywood is nothing more than a tax-shelter for nameless, faceless corporate types looking to hide the junk bond scheme money they glommed off of granny's 401K while working in wall street.

so i've developed a VERY tough skin after dealing with the idiots who make the movies you go and watch as a result. in fact, it's gotten SO tough that it's even made its way to my non-film related dealings with people, either.

and i'd get out as fast i can if it weren't for the fact i also have family in the business who need me to stay so that i can help keep THEM out of the poorhouse.

2- former relationships...

like a great many other members of mingle, i've had past relationships that have gone bust for one reason or another. and those relationships have not ended in an amiable fashion, either- in fact, my last one ended SO violently (she tried to pummel me about the head and ears with a skillet) that i swore off dating for over four years. and that sort of stuff tends to make people bitter.



there are probably other reasons to my meenihood, too. but i won't go into them just yet.

Everyone knows you ruffle alot of feathers and had some strikes already against you...he just hadn't struck out and you had...simple as that! And you know this...but you continue to blame him...instead of your self.

Humm I'm mean cause I send out e-mails to all of those that are mean

Oh let me clear this up then.... I don't blame him for my suspension, I think he's a jackass for being a woman hater, and using words of hate twords not only me, but to you also. I think you are dumb for taking him back after he verbally abused you, but I do NOT blame him for my suspension... I'm sorry if it came across that way.

My distate for him is simply from the stories you have shared with me about him and the things he said to you while on his visit, from things he has said and implied about me in forums, but I in no way am upset with him over my suspension... I quite honestly needed the break, and really if I had wanted to could have proved my point and gotten it reversed also, but the break did me good.... I got alot done around my house.

Lily you have hated peccy long before I even got here HA!

Lily you have hated peccy long before I even got here HA!

At any rate Lily...I told you I am not Peccy and do not answer for him. If you hate him so much...why continue talking about him?

All I ask is I am treated or "miss-treated" for stuff I DO...not for stuff he may or may not do.

At any rate Lily...I told you I am not Peccy and do not answer for him. If you hate him so much...why continue talking about him?

All I ask is I am treated or "miss-treated" for stuff I DO...not for stuff he may or may not do.

I don't hate him sugar, I pity him and his pathetic little world... the things you told me only reinforced that...

Angel I've never treated you with anything but kindness, I joked with you, I listened to you when you were upset about your breakup... I wouldn't have done any of that for him...EVER. So don't accuse me of treating you like I treat him... it is SOOOOO not the way I would treat him.

You might be amazed at how many people here pity you.

And Lily....I find it odd that when Peccy and I are on the outs you email me LOTS! But, when we are together...the emails stop...


True friends don't do that.

Angel I've never treated you with anything but kindness, I joked with you, I listened to you when you were upset about your breakup... I wouldn't have done any of that for him...EVER. So don't accuse me of treating you like I treat him... it is SOOOOO not the way I would treat him.