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Topic: Female indicators of interest
s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Wed 08/27/08 03:18 PM
Ok ladies, us guys sometimes dont get when you show us that you may be interested. What do you do to turn a mans head or get him to come and talk to you? actually, i always notice THAT... look that TOUCH...

cherry5 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 804	Wed 08/27/08 03:25 PM
eye contact but not the creepy prolonged staring kind, stand close, hand on his arm

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 08/27/08 03:38 PM
eye contact but not the creepy prolonged staring kind, stand close, hand on his arm That's usually when they ask for money....

Mindsi Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 1666	Wed 08/27/08 04:57 PM Edited by Mindsi on Wed 08/27/08 05:02 PM
eye contact, laugh at his jokes, flirt, make a point of talking to him........I actually don't know why guys have such a hard time with this. I guess you are confused as to whether a girl is interested or just being nice? That's usually my problem. I think they're interested, but she's just being nice. Then she's too polite to tell me she's not interested, and keeps being nice. If I could just get a clue. If she's putting herself in close proximity for no apparent reason & being nice, she's probably feeling out if you are interested. Try doing the same & flirting a bit. So far that's ended poorly. Indications are that is not the case.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 08/27/08 05:22 PM
So then, my question is ............... WTH are you guys sooooooooo clueless?

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Wed 08/27/08 05:24 PM
Getting socked in the chin is a pretty good indicator. Or a roundhouse to the face. Or an eyeful of mace. Or a restraining order. Hell there's lots of clues...

faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Wed 08/27/08 08:29 PM
I think after so many years of being with some one and being 200% loyal to them you just pass off these "gestures" as "normal" from other women. Then when you are single you just don't think with the correct head any more..

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Sat 08/30/08 08:21 AM
I am not clueless fade2 black. Want to dance?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/30/08 09:44 AM
If a woman wants me she usually kisses me all the sudden. Thats usually how it starts.

Lakersfan4eva Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 212	Mon 09/01/08 02:47 PM
I usually try to make eye contact with him and let him catch me checking him out....then I smile hoping to encourage him to make conversation...Or I brush past him and rest my hand a little longer than needed on his arm and make eye contact, then stay close, but not too close. ditto

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Mon 09/01/08 03:28 PM
Or...the alternative...maybe you're not as clueless as you hope, guys. Maybe they really aren't interested in you. They look at every guy and every woman, so ignore the 'I make eye contact' line. (You just don't see them checking out everyone, but they do it.) If she comes over and touches you, 'Tag. You're it!' You do remember how to play tag....right?

The_Pete_Man Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 21383	Mon 09/01/08 03:34 PM
So then, my question is ............... WTH are you guys sooooooooo clueless? We just seem to be made that way.......I know I am......

jasonl26 Joined Fri 08/08/08 Posts: 313	Mon 09/01/08 04:11 PM
you can't really be subtle around me I completely miss those

MLG40 Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 501	Tue 09/02/08 05:33 AM
a bat

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/02/08 07:01 AM
you can't really be subtle around me I completely miss those Hmmmmmm... I totally do not buy the line that some men give about being oblivious to subtleties. Fact is, if you are in tune with a woman and she with you, you'd be looking for cues and giving out some of your own. The next step is communication in a verbal way, after you pick up on the non-verbal cues. If you miss out on those...... well wake the heck up and PAY ATTENTION!!! We really aren't that hard to figure out.

awiserman Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 618	Tue 09/02/08 07:08 AM
So then, my question is ............... WTH are you guys sooooooooo clueless? BECAUSE WE ARE GUYS

Kiena Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 736	Thu 09/11/08 12:28 PM
Also, if you are out walking around with a girl and they keep bumping your hand...GRAB IT....that is if you are interested....plus if a girl is watching your mouth, she is imagining kissing it....so lean in a little and watch her reaction....If she tilts her head...go for it....this sounds so junior high, but it is the truth.

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Thu 09/11/08 01:58 PM
I couldn't agree more Also, if you are out walking around with a girl and they keep bumping your hand...GRAB IT....that is if you are interested....plus if a girl is watching your mouth, she is imagining kissing it....so lean in a little and watch her reaction....If she tilts her head...go for it....this sounds so junior high, but it is the truth.

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Thu 09/11/08 03:54 PM
I know, what about going topless, or begging for a guy to notice? Ohhhh I know, for a girl to get dressed up as a dominatrix and cracking her whip at ya? Do any of those work?

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Thu 09/11/08 06:24 PM
Ok ladies, us guys sometimes dont get when you show us that you may be interested. What do you do to turn a mans head or get him to come and talk to you? You found out the very second you make anything offical with another girl. Then every hot girl you ever talked to comes out of the woodwork and says they totally wanted to be with you. I don't understand why it's so hard to just say 'hey i like you' but apparently girls suck at that sort of thing. it makes me believe that a major part of compatability is being able to say you like the person you with....i'm so doomed....