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Topic: Female indicators of interest
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/27/08 08:15 AM
I have to be hit in the head or flat out told by a women that she is interested in me, other than that I'm clueless Same here, I am totally oblivious to everything except the blatantly obvious, in writing, in triplicate, notarized, with some Pop-Tarts on the side. We're not mind-readers, ya know. I resemble that remark, except I prefer Toaster Strudels. In no way could I guy I'm interested in NOT know. I am known to say things such as, "I really like you", "I'm so glad to see you", "I missed you", and even a specific praise indicator, "I know I really like you because....."_________ insert phrase here.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 08/27/08 08:20 AM
In no way could I guy I'm interested in NOT know. I am known to say things such as, "I really like you", "I'm so glad to see you", "I missed you", and even a specific praise indicator, "I know I really like you because....."_________ insert phrase here. Which, in my opinion, is exactly how it SHOULD work. However, that has (generally, allowing for a few exceptions) not been my overall experience. Part of it may just be that I'm not actually LOOKING for "signals," per se, because the people who end up being interested in me are never the ones I think would be. So I'm not really thinking along those lines and I have to be hit with a piano (hopefully, one of those nice Steinways) before I notice anything.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Wed 08/27/08 08:24 AM
make eye contact, smile, flirt

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/27/08 08:25 AM
I think if the other party is confused or unsure, they SHOULD ASK!!!! Let's communicate here, folks. Lexy, I think you are so hawt....

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/27/08 08:25 AM
make eye contact, smile, flirt So how would you do it on a place like this???????

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 08/27/08 08:25 AM
if they do a double take, or even a triple take, that's sayin something

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 08/27/08 08:26 AM
Kick the head whole way arond to check ya out

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 08/27/08 08:28 AM
make eye contact, smile, flirt So how would you do it on a place like this??????? you have to concentrate really hard

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 08/27/08 08:31 AM
I think if the other party is confused or unsure, they SHOULD ASK!!!! Let's communicate here, folks. Lexy, I think you are so hawt.... Just like I said, that's the way it's supposed to work! [i.e., no ambiguity!] L, I wish you could teach such directitude to the people here in Illinois....!!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 08/27/08 08:33 AM
Careful what you wish for, Sexy Lexy. Imagine grocery girl coming up to you and saying, "Ohhh my gawd, I am like, so like, um, estactical, like, to see you in here. I think you are like, um, like, totally rad"....

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/27/08 08:33 AM
make eye contact, smile, flirt So how would you do it on a place like this??????? * passes Magbalihi a plate of freshly baked cookies*

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Wed 08/27/08 08:35 AM
If it's in my head, it is soon on my lips. Now, it's been a very long time since I was in this situation, but in the long ago past, I'd say so! No need to wonder about what I'm thinking on any topic.

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Wed 08/27/08 08:35 AM
make eye contact, smile, flirt So how would you do it on a place like this??????? * passes Magbalihi a plate of freshly baked cookies* WOW......Chocolate Chip!!!!! MY favorite!!!!

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/27/08 08:37 AM


littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/27/08 08:39 AM
<<<<<<<<<just realized I still have the Reagan smoking ad up.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 08/27/08 08:41 AM
jump up and down while screaming at the top of my lungs, I like you!!! and carrying a big old cardboard sign thats says it too

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/27/08 08:42 AM Edited by littleredhen on Wed 08/27/08 08:42 AM
jump up and down while screaming at the top of my lungs, I like you!!! and carrying a big old cardboard sign thats says it too Eats a cookie while watching Fran

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 08/27/08 08:59 AM
LittleRedHen - did he notice me yet ???? I'm tired

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/27/08 09:00 AM
He's mezmerized by the bouncing boobs.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 08/27/08 09:02 AM
hmmm wonder who he's looking at