Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?

I won't put up with guys that lie to there girlfriends or hit them!

rule be nice
don't be mean..

pretty simple..

Lay out the rules in the beginning thats what i've found to be the only way!

bull****..

I'm not sure I'd call them rules per se. I think over time in my past relationships the guys know what I will put up with and what I think is complete crap.

In the dating world, which I'm fumbling through, I'm pretty up front pretty quick about my not wanting to be smothered or have them be sexually agressive etc.

if you dont then you are just looking for a dominator

a scrub! as tlc would say hahah

i wouldn't put up with a guy who didn't have a good job.

I'm not upfront, don't tell them that is...I want to see if they do them out of a "natural act" instead of holding themselves back or doing it in spite. I learn more that way.

Read my profile...its all on there

their girlfriends!

lying.

I pretty much announce it on a regular basis -- I like to make sure everybody has a clear understanding....!! No, I will NOT meet you at a bar....

And the whole list is in about 32 places in my profile, I think....haven't counted lately....

I have 2 kids I'm not looking at supporting someone else

So you have a job or are able to fully support yourself

I do enough driving shuttling said children around, I am not going to be a soccer mom carpooling driver for you as well

You must have your own place of residence and if you're my age still living like an 18 year frat house than no, it's not going to work

No drugs

And if you're into beating women, I hit back

LIES..

cheating, and lies.

1.No bed hoggers
2.No remote control OCD
3.No eating the last serving of ice cream in the freezer
4.No snoring so loudly that the room vibrates

I reserve the right to add to this list as needed.

u got rules? um what exactly r rules in a relationship>

Rules.........the begining of the end.

first rule, there are NO RULES, only lifes rule....treat me and my things as you would wish you and your things to be treated.

Then enjoy the company and allow two lives to unfold naturally.

Rules often serve to only temporarily surpress or box a persons natural temperment or character. I have found it more effective to let things flow! Trying to make another into my IDEAL is a recipe for failure and sets the bar too high. None of us are perfect. It either fits or it doesn't.

Abuse and cheating and lying gets you gone!