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I have 2 kids I'm not looking at supporting someone else So you have a job or are able to fully support yourself I do enough driving shuttling said children around, I am not going to be a soccer mom carpooling driver for you as well You must have your own place of residence and if you're my age still living like an 18 year frat house than no, it's not going to work No drugs And if you're into beating women, I hit back 
I love that last line, can I barrow it? |
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Gams said it.
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Lying, cheating. What the h3ll kind of rule list is that? No one wants someone that does that. Do you honestly think by saying "I have a rule, no liars or cheats," someone's going to say "Oh, well I lie all the time, so I guess we should stop seeing each other." No the guys a liar, he's going to say "that's cool." Cheaters, same thing, going behind someones back is their business. But those aren't rules, they're qualifications.
Ruth was going the right way with "eats last of the ice cream," and I'm glad she got that out now, because I'm an ice cream eater, usually out of the carton (hey, I've lived alone a long time). Me, I'm "Finish off the tea, you have to make a new pitcher" |
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 Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?
Well NOW I am ! DON'T Beat me! Never touch my daughter in ANY way! My daughter comes first! Crack Meth Herr.... NOTHING HEAVY!! DON't LIE to me! You CHEAT Its OVA! |
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u got rules? um what exactly r rules in a relationship>
good point
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Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this.
1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say. 2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man. 3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself. 4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process. 5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses. 6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow threw with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY. 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. 8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT. 9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it. 10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly. 11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me. 12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much. 13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games. 14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence. 15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it. 16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT. 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. 18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you. 19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them. 20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. |
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Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this. 1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say. 2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man. 3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself. 4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process. 5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses. 6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow threw with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY. 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. 8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT. 9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it. 10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly. 11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me. 12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much. 13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games. 14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence. 15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it. 16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT. 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. 18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you. 19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them. 20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. Sounds like you've put a lot of thought into this.
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Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this. 1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say. 2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man. 3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself. 4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process. 5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses. 6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow threw with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY. 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. 8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT. 9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it. 10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly. 11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me. 12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much. 13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games. 14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence. 15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it. 16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT. 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. 18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you. 19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them. 20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. Sounds like you've put a lot of thought into this.
34 years one marriage and three engagements worth of thought was put into it... |
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My phone is my phone no 1 goes threw the almighty phone,
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Rules of dating Lily 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. That almost sounds like a challenge  , you might want to rephrase that.
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Rules of dating Lily 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. That almost sounds like a challenge , you might want to rephrase that.
It's honest... I assult with food items and beverages.... and never in a quiet manner.... 
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Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this. 1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say. 2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man. 3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself. 4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process. 5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses. 6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow threw with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY. 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. 8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT. 9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it. 10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly. 11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me. 12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much. 13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games. 14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence. 15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it. 16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT. 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. 18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you. 19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them. 20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. Sounds like you've put a lot of thought into this.
34 years one marriage and three engagements worth of thought was put into it... And your smart too Lily Smarter than average
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.... 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. ... Well, there you go... That's a deal killer for me. Don't get me wrong. Irish girls are pretty and I go to the Irish fair every year and my best friend across the street is Irish and spills Red Wine on my carpet and tells the same Irish Jokes over and over again when he is drunk...then send his drunk Irish ass home. It is the Irish attitude I can't live with. hehe They are IMPOSSIBLE!!! |
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Edited by
heartSoul
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Thu 08/14/08 04:28 PM
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Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?
abuse of any kind lying cheating negative attitude no drugs no smoking social drinker okay |
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Women who can't follow the conversation, but think giggling will make it all better.
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.... 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. ... Well, there you go... That's a deal killer for me. Don't get me wrong. Irish girls are pretty and I go to the Irish fair every year and my best friend across the street is Irish and spills Red Wine on my carpet and tells the same Irish Jokes over and over again when he is drunk...then send his drunk Irish ass home. It is the Irish attitude I can't live with. hehe They are IMPOSSIBLE!!! Read the first line of the top of my origanol post huh??? Don't fret, you're not my type to begin with.... you whine tooooooooooo much. |
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Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this. 1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say. 2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man. 3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself. 4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process. 5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses. 6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow threw with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY. 7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that. 8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT. 9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it. 10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly. 11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me. 12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much. 13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games. 14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence. 15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it. 16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT. 17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it. 18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you. 19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them. 20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. Marry Me   
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Yes, there are things that I would not put up with, but the guys I have know have figured that out without me saying thing. Maybe because I tend to pick guys that are decent and good to begin with. If they aren't, then they aren't for me.
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My phone is my phone no 1 goes threw the almighty phone,
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Like lily my profile pretty much says it all. I am very upfront about what I want and what I won't tolerate. And if you ever have any doubts about where I stand all you have to do is read my posts or ask me
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