What can you do with humor?

Sure you can have fun with it—or else why do people pay for the comedy shows and those comedy channels?

You can also use it reduce tension, find a great bargain, keep your children in their seats…you name it. There are a thousand and one use of humor, but it leads to an ultimate goal—laughter.

Laughter is powerful, and much more powerful than most people think.

You can make women laugh and fall in love with you.

That sounds like a pretty bold claim doesn’t it? Let me explain.

Human beings have an obsessive desire to remain consistent. It is physically impossible to dislike the person who has already made you genuinely laugh, as you can’t resolve the conflicts and incongruity between laughter (liking someone) and disliking someone.

In other words, women tend to get closer to a guy who has consistently made them laugh! This not only occur at a logical level (“oh, being with him gives me so much joy and I want more”), but also at a subconscious level (maintaining consistency). Once you were made laugh by someone, it will be very inconsistent if you still maintain an antagonistic attitude towards that person.

You see, love is derived from the feeling of happiness and happiness is directly associated with laughter.

Actually myself humor is a must in a partner one that can laugh at the things in life we can't change and deal with the ones we can.

It is very important to me to be with someone that we can cut up and laugh each day.

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So how many agrees or disagrees with this theory can making a women laugh on a regular basis bring her closer to a man.

Totally agree must have humor!

wait i'm having a vision.... yes yes.... its santa clause and his belly is jigglin like a bowl full of jello

and he has a present for each of us... a present moment in time.

I agree to a point, just because someone makes you laugh doesn't mean you stay in love with them. One of the problems with my ex-husband was he was always making jokes and being silly and it got the point where nothing could be taken seriously.

It's still a fine balance like any trait in someone, too much isn't a good thing.

100% agree Thank You

True everything in life must have a balance for too much of one thing never has a good result.

Laughter is the best medicine!!

I must not only laugh myself but make others laugh every day otherwise I feel like the day was wasted!!!

So true for when you have laughter in your life. It tends to make even the bad things that happen in life not so bad after all.

laughter is the closest u can get to experiencing sex unless ...

Okay, Ive been on this health kick lately. SO I bought a dehydrator. Everything under the sun has been dehydrated in my house this week. Yesterday roomate sends me a text:

Ya think if we put cheese puffs in the dehydrator they would turn into crunchy cheetos. I laughed so loud the girl on the next row asked me if I was okay. =) I needed it. Laughter tickles my soul.

I like humor it's funny

I cant find mine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree, it's a good theory, and like all good theories you shouldn't stop believing in it just because it isn't true.

I like the premise of it, and I believe humor is a great tool, but I think in practice it doesn't fly. A humorus man is veiwed as "flighty" or "not serious." Women want a man who is serious because it promotes "stable." This shows forth as a basic protector role, a necessity to the basic animal need of a protector for the group (family, clan, pride).

While making a woman laugh might win you points, being the comedian will only leave you alone.

I guess we all see things different at times but I must disagree with you on this one. For I'm not talking of one being a class clown 24/7 that gets old. But also one that is so serious about everything gets very boring to be around,

Now they must be able to conduct their life everyday issues and know when to be serious for there are times that one must be serious.

But for me they must have a sense of humor, and can be able to let down their guard and know how to have fun with in life as well.

Laughter brings smiles, to see someone smile makes you remember Life is worthwhile!

Laughter keeps you young............... Thank you for sharing this little gem.

Laughter is such a wonderful emotion

Laughter can make anything bearable!

I love to laugh at people...I mean "with" people...................naw...I mean "at" people....