For the past 23 years of my life I’ve established relationships with all
type of women. They range from wild, freaks, country, ghetto, etc…They
all seem to have something in common, which is being possessive even
though they say they’re not but they don’t realize it themselves,
jealous, and dramatic. So what should I look for in a girl that would
please me in every aspect of my life? ??? I’m clueless……

Okay, you say they all have possessiveness in them, but every girl has a
little in them. Granted I take it you are talking about them taking it
to the extreme... Why don't you find what you liked in all of them, even
if it was small (you had to be attracted to them to date them) put that
together and look for that girl. She might not be what you are exactly
looking for, but she will be close. Don't take her profile to heart
though, I know I have trouble describing myself, and get to know the
person. Don't give up, it takes time.

well, i tend to be a bit possessive, jealous and dramatic when it comes
to my man..try to stifle it as much as possible..i know it can cause
damage to the relationship..

i'm sure that some are more than others..you can probably tell in the
beginning..watch out for the ones that call all the time and dont want
you to go out with your friends..ack u dont need that needy clinginess
either..

anyway, to answer your question..its an individual preference dont you
think?

i like fyresyren's answer..

good luck! you'll find the one perfect for you!

I hear you on that, maybe I should see past the looks and see what
happens. Thus, you never know what girls are capable!! My main problem
is that I’m too friendly and I always find something good in them
regardless of their flaws.

That's because even though they may have an "all" black heart, there is
always at least a pinprick of light in there.

Thanks,

You talk like you must be faced with a similar situation?

Well, once. I fell in love with my best friend, and all everyone saw in
him was bad bad bad. To me though, I knew he wasn't what everyone saw. I
talked to him, they didn't. They wouldn't know anything about him. And
even though he broke my heart time after time after time. I still loved
him and didn't care. He was my first love but I suppose I don't love him
the same way anymore. I am happy, but he is in an unhappy marriage last
I heard. His wife hates me and doesn't want me talking to him. I learned
from experience of these things. I let him go because I loved him, but
it wasn't meant to be. So I moved on.
Heh tmi right?

I agree girl, you were in love with the wrong person. I on the other
hand always have my best friend girl’s fall in love with me at one
point. The problem is that we end up doing something but at the end we
just friends, like we wanted it to be. I know they still want me but I
won’t allow it because I’ll lose a good friend. You on the other hand
have had a rough time from what you have said. So are you now
retaliating and seeking vengeance on these guys out here.

You know I think that at one time or the other, everyone has been in
love with their best friend. You just have to make that choice if you
should stay friends or try to take it a step higher. I have always kept
it at the friendship level, a best friend is hard to come by, once you
cross that line it is so hard to go back!

i agree insure, that's why alot of marriages don't work. they are on a
higher plane than a friendship. they may be your best friend in the
world but a marriage may still never work between the two.

I am not seeking vengeance. Quite the opposite. I just tell it how I see
it. My point of view may be different from everyone else's. I agree you
should keep your best friend over having more with them, but sometimes
it hurts. I'm very skeptical about marriage at this point. I don't know
if I should go into that one. You know, I've had a sitty love life, and
I just realized it. One learns from their mistakes I suppose.

I'm consider a good girl which tends to get me in a lot trouble with
guys then they want to control me and get jealous which freak me out
,and make me have to break it off with them if I can find the back bone
to do so; at times I don't and make them break it off with me. I have a
boyfriend now who want me to be more naughty and aggressive:) This is
going be a big change for now I'm in charge of the relationship.

if you've been finding that ALL women seem to be possessive, it might be
worth looking at yourself too.

are you a playa?
if so, then i guess all women WOULD seem possessive...

Andrew Wee
www.WhoIsAndrewWee.com
www.myspace.com/andreww38

i think as long as the gal doesnt bitch and nag and also does not screw
around on you. i havent found them 2 things yet!!!!

4fun....ever wonder why woman always bytch and nag and screw around on
you? Maybe its because you have to many women at the same time??? Just
an observation

Well i fell in love for my best friend and now he has a girlfriend. Im
so upset.

Love sucks!!!!

Well I can't answer because I have yet to even find a so called "good
girl" there's nothing but BAD that come my way all the time...

I swear all they want is to talk about are baseball and food lol ^_^

I want a normal gal dammit (>_<)

hi unsure. maybe you r right!... lol

You know what I say....Let her loose....Everyone has some type of
jealous streak...Men and Woman.if a man wont show that side and never
has...the man dont want you.period..same with a woman..when we want
something so bad,the man u with is never interested...so u show our
asses and yall keep playin wit us..cuz well cater to the one we
want...Let her go.