I'll be the first to agree with the fact that I'm not a good girl. But
most of my bad girlness is not in the context that was discussed. I am
an attention hog, I love attention. I'm playful and seducing. I like
getting my way. I will be aloof when I am unsure, and get defensive when
I feel rejected. I don't like rejection, but who does right, and
sometimes I take it hard. I can put up a good front, but most of the
time you can see right through it. I am afraid and sometimes insecure
about myself and like to hear when someone talks good about me. I like
things explained, I don't take to hints very well.I have goals for
myself, but sometimes I don't follow through on them.

I don't know if I have ever experienced sympathy sex....*thinks about
it* No, I don't think I have...

I have to agree though, it shouldn't be practiced. Breakup sex is
another story however. If that person was good in bed, but you couldn't
stand them otherwise, have fun! I mean come on, you never know when
you'll get good sex again right? LOL Okay on a serious note
here...Breakup sex really depends on the situation.

Marriage is a waste of time and money. If you two have a serious
commitment to each other, then why have a piece of paper stating that
you are committed? I often think about the bad things as well as the
good. Say it wasn't to last, then you have to pay out the rear to get a
divorce...

If I found someone I loved and they loved me back, I know that unless
they wanted to, I wouldn't get married. The feelings are there, you
don't need a piece of paper telling you that you love each other.

I've decided that if somene truly cares about you, they will try to work
it out with you. Or, if you were the one who made the mistake, let you
fix it. Otherwise, maybe you can remain friends.

I really hope that you aren't talking to me, cause if I remember
correctly, I wasn't complaining. I was just stating a matter of fact.
Also, you can't blame head games on the person who is in the
relationship. I was in one, and I didn't play games, but I was led on.
So you can bite me.

Head games suck, but you know, everyone of us has played head games at
least once. If you say, "No I haven't..." You're lying. We may do it,
and not een realize it. Most of the time, it's just to see if they can
get away with it (how many buttons can I push before they snap?), or
maybe insecurities. Who really knows though. We all have our opinions
and most of them could be right, but who REALLY knows? I don't know why,
I can only speculate.

Oh, and the size of the penis doesn't really matter. It's how they fuck
you that does. Size helps, but it doesn't really matter if you care.

I am not seeking vengeance. Quite the opposite. I just tell it how I see
it. My point of view may be different from everyone else's. I agree you
should keep your best friend over having more with them, but sometimes
it hurts. I'm very skeptical about marriage at this point. I don't know
if I should go into that one. You know, I've had a sitty love life, and
I just realized it. One learns from their mistakes I suppose.

Yes and the women who do it generally get away with it because most of
the men think with their penises instead of their heads. All they want
is a piece of ass, and there are women who will just give it to whoever
just so they can make it in the world of "dog eat dog." Personally I
would rather get a dick of my own and give them dumb B__ches a mushroom
print for giving other women a bad name.

Well, once. I fell in love with my best friend, and all everyone saw in
him was bad bad bad. To me though, I knew he wasn't what everyone saw. I
talked to him, they didn't. They wouldn't know anything about him. And
even though he broke my heart time after time after time. I still loved
him and didn't care. He was my first love but I suppose I don't love him
the same way anymore. I am happy, but he is in an unhappy marriage last
I heard. His wife hates me and doesn't want me talking to him. I learned
from experience of these things. I let him go because I loved him, but
it wasn't meant to be. So I moved on.
Heh tmi right?

To stop fighting is to stop living.

Help! Help! I'm being repressed!

Live Laugh and Love.

No man is an Island.

I'm a rebelious, smartass who loves to fight live laugh and love.

*If you haven't gotten that yet* =)

Most women are like that though. Independent...etc. With the paying
dutch, if I have the money I either attempt to pay at least half. But I
would like to think that most women want to feel beautiful and desired.
There are the few who think they KNOW they are sexy,
beautiful...whatever. But being treated every once in awhile is nice.

I wouldn't go overseas. For male or female. My dad was doing that and he
got screwed over by a lot of women. Then again, I don't trust a lot of
people. I give them the benefit of the doubt though.

Why put labels to any one person? It's almost like high school. You got
the preps, goths, jocks, rednecks... The joke about sluts sleeping with
anyone is pretty much the same thing. Do you know the circumstances
behind the man/woman sleeping with a greater amount than others? My ex
called me a bitch because I wouldn't sleep with him after our
relationship was over. Then he called me a liar and a slut because
things got carried away with someone we both knew. Circumstances change
everything. It's like a woman sleeping with someone and then WHAM! OMG
she did what with who. SCOFF! What a slut! I mean come on who does she
think she is?...

Sometimes people make bad choices. Like it's been said before, who are
we to judge? We are not any better or worse than them.

That's because even though they may have an "all" black heart, there is
always at least a pinprick of light in there.

Okay, you say they all have possessiveness in them, but every girl has a
little in them. Granted I take it you are talking about them taking it
to the extreme... Why don't you find what you liked in all of them, even
if it was small (you had to be attracted to them to date them) put that
together and look for that girl. She might not be what you are exactly
looking for, but she will be close. Don't take her profile to heart
though, I know I have trouble describing myself, and get to know the
person. Don't give up, it takes time.

I had a boyfriend who was next to me constantly and controlled all of my
free time. Lets just say that didn't last long. We need our freedom but
generally it's only to an extent. You made a good comment about getting
married, about not wanting them to change. In the end we do though,
because we might not have gotten what we expected. Okay, I think I am a
little of subject here.

Thank you so far. It is coming clearer to me.

Okay, you answered that with the woman having a significant other...

What is it that men are attracted to? What makes a woman beautiful or
sexy or even hot?

Yeah, Love sluts because that mean you don't have to worry about
committment. See, I hate that. Some of us are really looking for
something more...sheesh

I love it when your exes call you those names after you break up with
them. So mature.

The Void

There are some things to be angry
But to what are they named,
For what Tragedy may occur,
Left with Words unspoken
Of the most precious jewel.

One not Found and yet Sought.
To have spent much Time,
Searching and Knowing love never be.
Hoping every day they will come,
To complete the Void within.