GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!1

RUserious, I liked what you said about the jealousy thing. I have
questions on this subject I would like to hear opinions. I am not
talking about the kind of jealousy that makes your partner beat up the
bartender becuz he hands you a drink, but the slight concern that makes
you feel like you need to protect your relationship.
This is a very confusing issue for me and I believe for others as well.
How much is too much or too little?
And the question "what'd ya do last night?" Is that not just a
question or is that an accusation?

One thing they are in secure about themselves.

what did you do last night can be both an accusation and a question. i'm
not a jealous person but i had a girlfriend who would use the question
to start a fight(saying it was an accusation),that's part of the reason
we aren't together anymore. i think the best way to handle that
situation is not to assume that it is an accusation. if they are trying
to beat around the bush in their accusations ,they need to say it
outright and not be a pussy about it.

You know that lots of people get tired of being accused by their wife or
girlfriends about with whom and where u been. That u actually will do
it just to get them off your back.

I used to be like that with my ex husband nag him about being with
someone else. He got tired and went did it.

i didn't go and do it, i just left her.

Some women pick a fight for u to leave her or she has someone else in
the side. Good u got out of that relationship, before it turned ugly.

it wouldn't have turned ugly unless it was behind my back. they had
already tried to jump me and set me up but they always got their asses
kicked so they just wanted to talk about me behind my back. it's the
sign of a stupid and bitter person because all they had to do is say
something. i ain't worried about it anyway, it's just another chapter.

Scary topic -_-...lol...

yep! it is.

HEY!GIRLS AREN'T THE ONLY ONES WITH CONTROL ISSUES, I AM A GOOD GIRL,
WHICH HAPPENS TO GET ME IN TROUBLE SOMETIMES TOO
I'VE BEEN SINGLE FOR A WHILE NOW AND WHILE I STILL WANT SOMEONE TO SHARE
MY LIFE WITH, TODAY I'M ALOT MORE CAUTIOUS
GOOD LUCK PAPI, YOU'RE STILL YOUNG, A LITTLE ADVICE THOUGH,DON'T LOOK
FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, IF YOU'RE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF,WHEN
YOU'RE NOT LOOKING FOR HER SHE'LL JUST SHOW UP

I don't think there's any way to label a person to be good or bad,
unless they kill someone for the fun of it.LOL

But like beauty, it's in the eye of the beholder.

Ghostrecon

I agree with you on that one!

Love does not suck or so many people would not be looking for it...What
you are looking for is a woman who feels secure with herself. A woman
that can be alone or with a significant other...A woman satisfied with
life, but ready to share with someone else. (just my opinion...) Think
about it...no woman is perfect, but we (women and men) should be happy
within ourselves before we can share with others...

couldn't have said it better myself sweets.



hey recon, what about a person who kills someone who desreves it for
fun, is that so bad? lol

iv been told that im miss goody goody but those people only see me
outside the house so for all they know i could be snortin crack not that
I just saying that Im not all that good and sweet all the time.

i think that as long as that crack you're snortin don't belong to anyone
but your bf you'd be considered a good girl lol

lol

I'll be the first to agree with the fact that I'm not a good girl. But
most of my bad girlness is not in the context that was discussed. I am
an attention hog, I love attention. I'm playful and seducing. I like
getting my way. I will be aloof when I am unsure, and get defensive when
I feel rejected. I don't like rejection, but who does right, and
sometimes I take it hard. I can put up a good front, but most of the
time you can see right through it. I am afraid and sometimes insecure
about myself and like to hear when someone talks good about me. I like
things explained, I don't take to hints very well.I have goals for
myself, but sometimes I don't follow through on them.

to me whats concidered a good girl is some one who has not been gang
banged dose not have more than one kid and has not had sex with a lot
of dudes like shes trying to be in a porno flick or something some one
who has not done any of these things is the women im looking for