Marie55 - I have grown up a long time ago, but this doesn't change the
truth and facts of what just happend ok???

No I am not negative nor insecure. Bill and I clearly stated so many
times that people just don't want to understand and never will.

The point is... most ladies here on this site purposefully STEROTYPED
out this guy and they know it. And now are here to post and cover up
because I simply pointed this out.

... We aren't whinning and we are not complaining. We are simply
pointing out that most ladies here sterotyped out this guy and they know
it. So don't try it because it doesn't work anymore and more people are
going to see this fact and more will speak out.

Hahahahaha oh now you come to answer him now after over 30+ something
views... GIVE ME A BREAK... don't try it and NO we are NOT woman bashing
and save that line right there for yourself.

We proved it again and again and again that most ladies are NOT honest
and most ladies here sterotyped out this guy because of HIS LOOKS and I
wouldn't WANT a lying, fake lady to come at me anyways.

But nice try!!!

That's because they don't WANT TO so nice try. The jigg is up and they
just sterotyped out this guy and they are all proving us right. So
please don't try to cover up this fact. But you see sir... The ladies
that love to sterotype people out like this guy. LOVEEEEEE to hide
behind a guy like yourself so they can do it again some more.

Yes we also are aware of that tactic to!!!

Exactly so the JIGG IS UP to most ladies out there. You just showed your
true colors with this topic.

... Trust me guy. I understand how you feel about not getting an honest
reply from a lady on this site about what they want out of a guy.

But case proven again as we speak. You have just been sterotyped out so
far and don't even know it.

... You see folks. This man just asked a basic question with dignity and
directness for the ladies here to answer.

He came with approachability and a basic question for you all showing
his courage. But you ladies SEE HIS LOOKS, PICTURE AND COVER APPEARENCE
and you are sterotyping him out for all to see.

.. SO I don't want to hear it anymore that ladies don't sterotype out a
guy based on his looks because you've just done it so far to this guy.

Wooooo catch me... ^_^ thanks for the flowers and smiles sugar pie. =D

It's so cool to see abit of people understand in a good sense of what we
are trying to get across here. The rest won't get it because they
haven't been through it, like we have.

... But I thank you catch, for the support. You are awsome!!!

Thanks buttons and yes I do know what sterotyping means. I have had it
done to me regardless by ladies. So I always got front row tickets in
life to know fully well what it means hun.

... Thanks for the flowers. It's good to see a woman that has abit of
understanding of what we are trying to come across here in away. ^_^

Newguy, I appreciate the nice gestures. But still you will NEVER
understand what we are trying to come across here and you never will.

... Becuase the more you peeps are speaking without UNDERSTANDING, the
more you are proving us correct with each post.

We said specifically.... "WE ARE BEING FORCED INTO LONELINESS,
STEROTYPED OUT BY MOST LADIES OUT THERE BECAUSE OF OUR LOOOOOOOOKS...
OUR APPEARENCES... OUR COVERS.... It's NOT about how nice we are, how
patient we are, how friendly we are. We've just told you people this
over and over again!"

Do people actually READ, without reading quickly to understand??

But hey, like I've just said. Your proving our points because most of
you here HAD somebody in your lifetimes REGARDLESS. you haven't been
FORCED here like me and Bill have by the opposite sex whether you wanted
to be or not.

... You will never understand and because you don't WANT to understand,
and maybe most here CAN'T understand no matter how much we try to point
this out.

Ok, I'm not going to shut up about it or how I feel because it's TRUTH &
FACTS and people know this and they want us to be quiet about it. No I
won't! I and Bill are a human being and there's others here on this site
that feel just the same way as me and Bill do. But are just afraid to
speak out about it. But keep it up folks because..

"A man / woman that is in the WRONG... CANNOT stand up against a person
or persons that is in THE RIGHT!"

Buttons my name is not CHRIS. my screename is Chismah... I'm not being
rude. But please take the time to READ first before SAYING. That's also
another thing I've noticed about most people. They are very quick to
JUDGE a person or say something about a person. But they don't THINK
before they SPEAK not caring about consequences of their words or
meanings to another person in communication.

... But to answer your question Buttons... "No I don't seek dates here,
I seek a lady that will come to see me as I am without the sterotyping
scene and that is non-judgemental. A Lady / Woman that will see my
heart. But is also within my preferences of what I seek or look for in a
lady" of course I can go further in what I seek. But that's just a small
Analogy, of what I look and am looking for in a person.

The point is... people need to stop sterotyping and I don't care who you
are or what a person looks like. I'm not the one that judges a person's
COVER / APPEARENCE / LOOKS... unlike most cruel ladies out there that
I've met either online or offline. It has happened both ways for me,
either way.

Also newguy. Bill does have pictures ok. But why do you want his
pictures up there so quickly???? Do you want to JUDGE him and sterotype
him out for yourself???

... I mean, WTF... People are actually WANTING to sterotype a person and
don't even know they are doing it, until they do it!!!

Also YES I do think I am better than that as a person and a human being
ok. But it's to bad a lady cannot see that from most that I come into
contact with in my lifetime.

Sorry Sadie... but I DISAGREE with most of what you are saying here.

I appreciate the apologies. But I don't want anybody's pitty or
sympathies on me. I've got plenty of them since my teen years to last me
for the rest of my life. I don't want anybody to feel sorry for me. I am
stronger than that. But I thank you for the compliments and concerns
there.

... But I disagree that a person with "GOOD LOOKS" will still never be
alone. I mean, how long do you mean by "LONELY OR ALONE???" a month... a
week... maybe a few months... do they want to be alone by CHOICE??
because if you mean alone for a short length of time that is nothing.

Ok Sadie question for ya... so I can get this out of the way and get
this right out here for everyone to see... ahem... (clears throat) and
here's a basic factual question I will ask you here for all to see and
think about.

Q: How would you feel, if you WENT WITHOUT having that happiness, love
and physical closeness of somebody in your life. For sayyyy.....
mmmmm.... 9+ years and going without anybody in your life?? How would
you feel if every guy sterotyped you out no matter what and they knew
they could do it to you to force you into a life of loneliness and to be
made to feel without love or care by one special person for that long
period amount of time?? Do YOU think you could stay sane after all that
time FOR YEARS without anybody in your life???




I'm so sorry for both of you not having the opportunity to meet quality
people. But I still maintain, not all women are that superficial.
Also, do you really think that "pretty" people don't go through lonely
times as well?
It's a well known fact that looks can be gone in seconds but whats
inside will always be.
In all reality if someone gives you the vibe that they're better than
you, why would you want to waste your time? Don't you think you're
better than that?

No problem Bill...

I'm glad I could get my 2 cents out there because it's dam well FACT and
it's TRUTH and if most people out here cannot handle this truth and
honesty of how this is going about. Need not care about what we have to
say and just keep going on in life.

No, not all of the majority of women are superficial.

But what you've just read is ALL FACTS & TRUTH ok???

Like Bill there... I've ALSO lived exactly what he just said. This whole
post makes PERFECT SENSE.

Unless you have LOOKS both man or woman. You will NEVER be alone. But an
AVERAGE guy that wasn't BLESSED with good looks, like myself. I've been
sterotyped out in all directions by women, have been played with,
emotionally abused, used and then when I was not good enough anymore. I
was thrown away each time like a bag of GARBAGE and forced to die alone.

I was denied happiness, no person that has ALWAYS had somebody in their
life will NEVER understand what Bill has just talked about in this post.

.... It doesn't matter how nice you dress, approach a person, how
friendly you are, how nice you even are to people or a person around
you. I was STEROTYPED out and DENIED a life and happiness by ladies out
there.

Most ladies KNOW this, and again! are WILLINGFULLY and PURPOSEFULLY are
forcing a person into a lifetime of loneliness and it needs to stop
because I am a human being and so is Bill and others out there like us.
I'm NOT being sorry for how I feel and I WILL speak up about it. Because
I've had enough. Ladies that know this and continue to things like this
know's full well it's WRONG ok, for both a man and a woman to do this to
each other regardless???

... That is just plain thoughtless and CRUEL and it HURTS. Most people
are SICK of it. And SO AM I!!!

I'm a NICE GUY... but did it get me the woman of my dreams as of yet?

Did most of the majority of ladies that I've come across see the
niceness that I have in my character, personality and appearence????

... NOOOOOOOO

Because again. Me being a nice guy got me NOWHERE in up to this point in
my life.

Most ladies out there are not being honest with me nor upfront in what
they MEAN by a NICE GUY they seek.

It's mostly about LOOKS at first before anything continues or develops
into something more meaningful.

.... Maybe if most of the majority of people out there would stop
STEROTYPING other people out based on their LOOKS. We wouldn't be having
such posts like this whatsoever.

Most ladies out there KNOW AND WILLINGFULLY sterotype out a guy based on
whether he is NICE OR NOT because of his APPEARENCE, COVER OR LOOKS!
there's no if's and's or but's about that fact because it's TRUE.

So my point is and I am NOT trying to be mean here at all. Because I
LIVED IT ok??? and still am. But STOP sterotyping out a person because
of their looks and maybe you will find the GIRL OR GUY of your dreams if
you'd just notice the heart of the character more than their own looks.

Sheeesh.... NICE got me nowhere in the end for YEARS ok!!!

... Hmmmmm

Very interesting indeed of this story. Sounds like what I've been going
through, and have been dealing with, in most ladies out there.

But what do most ladies "MEAN" when they say they want a "NICE GUY?"...
do they mean a "GOOD-LOOKING, HOT or SEXY" looking type of guy or
average looking?

I see ladies profiles on this website saying they are seeking a "NICE
GUY OR PRINCE CHARMING!" but when I see profiles like this really
confuses me. Because mostly in the end, when my pic is seen with my
charming messages. You never hear from a "Nice Lady" that is seeking a
"Nice Guy".

... So most likely the majority of most ladies out there put up "FRONTS
or COVERS" to what they are truly seeking in a special other.

But if it's LOOKS that a lady truly will see in seeking that guy. I'd
just wish they'd be more upfront and HONEST about what they are looking
for to begin with and stop sterotyping out NICE GUYS like myself because
of my LOOKS.

Ladies continue to do this and they know it and purposefully sterotype
out a person based on LOOKS and if most ladies cannot be upfront in what
they are seeking. Then they are FAKE to begin with and use TERMS over
MEANINGS to finding what they really are NOT looking for.

... They simply say they just are. When deep down, when a lady says she
wants to find a "NICE GUY!" still... what type of NICE GUY are they
truly seeking when it comes to... LOOKS / AGE / PREFERENCES??????

... YES PEOPLE... PAY UR BILLS!!! LmAooooo!!! =D

Woooooo... get the hot chocolate ready LoL!!

Yes Marie, I AM ur stepfather... (darth vader breathe sounds)....!! =D

Yes I know you want the money really bad Marie. But again... it's just a
joke... it's funny right??? ^_^