What is it so hard to find a good man? An if I do they never email me back, whats wrong with me? Is it my profile? I dont know but I'm starting to lose faith in the whole dating thing. I try my hardest to please who I am with but that is never enough! I feel like I will never find a guy who can put up with me. Im not a bad person I just have my days were I wanna be left alone or I want him by myside. Is it that hard? I see my friends around me finding guys left an right but when it comes to me... I got nothing!! Not even a nibble! Am I really that ugly? I just wanna know what I am doing wrong!!

I have no words of wisdom here that you haven't already heard.

Your a beautiful girl. You should stop worrying so much sweetheart.

Don't stress it, I don't get any action with mine either & dating sites are a longshot at best!!............

I hate being alone

Reading your profile, you could change some things. I am talking about the wording, but it is just cosmetic. I like your honesty in your profile, and sad to say, most guys on here just do not read the ladies profiles. If they do, sometimes they skim it. Anyways, you say alot about who you are and what you are looking for, which is very good. Maybe look outside the box, which means that if you meet someone on here who is not in Ohio and you like them, give it a shot. You never know what will happen. My girlfriend lived 7 hours away from me and thus far things are great. I wouldn't change a thing.

In any case, you are not a hopeless cause redhead. It's just that you haven't met a guy yet...one that appreciates you for you. I know. It gets frustrating. Just hang in there.

You should learn to be happy with yourself, and dont make your happiness dependent upon another person. You will be better that way in the long run.

you're stressing yourself out

putting undue pressure on yourself

life happens with and or without your permission

same as finding a partner, boyfriend

things happen when it's meant to happen
not when you want them to

good luck

stay positive

well just don't try as hard.

a relationship isn't planned out even though alot of people try to plan it out.

things often come to you when your not stressing out over them.

also when you get into the relation ship acknowledge that your partner has needs yes but at the same time you need to take car of yourself. So you first and then his needs.

does that make sense?

kinda

maybe its because you complain to much...

since you try so hard to please him you forget abou your needs and you just become another tool to groom him. for the relationship to work both of you need to stay visable and not sacumb to becoming an accessory.

ah... ok ty

np here to help

Love in all it's infinite possibilities usually happens when you least expect it and when you aren't looking it finds you. And sometimes from people you would never expect it to come from. Chillax and concentrate on making yourself happy not trying to make someone else happy and it will find you~


keep the faith gurly~

Sit back and late nature take it's course.
Sometimes the best things come into our lives
when we least expect it and are not looking for it. Don't try so hard when you find the right person you will know it and the effort will be 50% 50%. If you are constantly trying to please someone else all of the time you will be the one who ends up unhappy and exhausted!!!! Live your life and enjoy it!!!!!

Im tring but it hard

no one said life was easy
just make it worthwhile