You know, people always wonder why they are single. Or, if they see their friends in relationships, then they wonder, "What is wrong with me?". Trust me. Try getting divorced cause the one that you loved did not love you anymore. That makes you feel like utter crap. Really makes you wonder about who you are and if it is possible to find someone to love you.

See, I don't know why you haven't met someone who will understand you and take you for who you are. What I can tell you is that trying to make a relationship happen can come back to bite you in the ass. And no one wants to be bitten in the ass. Well, unless you are into that sort of thing, but that is another topic all together.

Know this. People deserve to find someone to share life with. They deserve to find someone who "gets" them and is the perfect compliment to them. Fact is, sometimes it takes some people longer to find that. You are 20, and have your whole life ahead of you. Bet you have heard that right? Well, while that is true, let me say this. Just enjoy life. Enjoy friends and family. Date. Make friends on here. See where things go. Don't start to think every guy you talk to on here could be "that guy" for you. Just chill and see what happens.

relationships are hard. Finding a relationship can sometimes be harder. Just hang in there. Something will happen soon. Remember you don't want to date a psycho.

You're still so young

Enjoy Life

Love will come

No nibbles? Keep fishing! Sometimes we get suckers, no nibbles, and if we are patient enough...we just might get a KEEPER!


No worries, just keep your chin up!

Sometimes its better to get no bites then a great big BULLHEAD

just go with it...don't stress too much...here relax.

Thank you for your kind words of wisdom. Im just tired of tring an getting nowhere. sick of looking.

Best advise, stop looking, focus on making yourself the best you, you can be

I have stopped looking and I am working on bettering myself.

It's a 4 letter word, T-I-M-E. There's no time table on when you're supposed to meet your mate. Enjoy the friends you're making, and the rest will happen the way it's supposed to and when it's supposed to. There are much worse things than being alone. This post alone will likely attract men, but not the kind you're looking for, unless you're feeling like you would be willing to be used to feel a moment of happiness, which is short lived and leave an empty feeling at best in the end. And as for a guy who can put up with you. That would be the guy who cherishes you, enjoys your company, and feels comfortable with you. While you're waiting for that handsom prince to fall in your lap, there's this other thing you can do. Find your gift. You have one, and something that will make you feel good about yourself. Discover it and don't worry about the when or how part. Just have faith that it will happen.

Laconic, and accurate.

From a 'nice guy' perspective, do not force the process... It will come in it's own time, and if you force it, you may be wasting your time, spinning your wheels trying to make a 'mistake' work when he comes along... Just take your time, DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE, and have fun, like one of the other guys said here... Relationships are like any other thing, the more you want it, the more it eludes you... it is a test of patience.

Whats the rush?

words 4 you your attuide sucks and dont change your profile it never happen because shut f up will not get anyone to responed to you

((((( RELAX REDHEAD )))))


Just enjoy living .. it'll come

uhhhh ya sweets .. I would get rid of the "road rage" on your headline. Not a good way to put out the welcome mat

(((((Goof)))) yanno,,sometimes I'm AMAZED at what comes out of you

no better way to illustrate the hard work necessary to be successful

Thank you,,,I needed that today

just kidding but .........

has anyone noticed how most people think love comes with an expiration date or is on special (buy one get one free), that most want to race to the front of the line or get some before love goes out of style??? guess I'm just venting

Thanks Peekinin. I sometimes amaze myself with what I say.

And yes Fran, I have noticed how alot of people are in that "rush mode" to find love, especially when they have friends around them who have it and they don't. They want to try to force love with every prospect that they meet, and you just can't do that.

That be true,,,

usually,,it happens when you least expect it. Going about your day to day, appreciating the gifts and ~bam~ along it comes.

Ya think that might be cause your projecting happiness within yourself?

That and when you meet someone, first meet them, the two of you will just hit it off. People wanna know the secret to this, but in all honesty their really isn't a "secret" to it. It just happens.