I know how you feel. But I also know that when you have expectations it will only set you up for disappointment. Life happens when you're busy making other plans. Everyone will face loneliness from time to time. This is when you try to take your focus off what you do not have and be thankful for what you do possess. Try to figure out what is missing in your life that doesn't pertain to a relationship. Find out a way to be happy with your own company. If you can be happy and whole without a relationship, then you will have much more to offer. Try looking within yourself and you may find the answer. But you have to be honest with yourself because denial will only set you back. Good luck!

Just my two cents....

Red....you are a beautiful girl.

You are only 20...for cryin out loud...you have time. Just relax and let things flow.

Someone mentioned that the line that shows up next to your name doesn't exactly roll out the welcome mat...that is the honest to God truth. Guys see that and assume ( properly or improperly ) that you have a pretty big attitude.

Speaking for myself only ( and I know I probably don't count since I am almost 20 years older than you ) that kind of obvious attitude, even if not an entirely accurate depiction of who you really are, is a major turn off that would make a whole lot of guys just click to the next profile.

Stop actually " looking " and just start living for yourself. Talk with your friends here. You never know what can happen. Patience will pay off more often than not.

Here's to Venting