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Topic: Still in love?
Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Sat 07/05/08 09:21 PM
I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...? I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Sat 07/05/08 09:22 PM
i will always love my ex's but i am not in love with any of them..thank god

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 07/05/08 09:23 PM
i love him...in love with him...that would be a no!!!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 07/05/08 09:25 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf.

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Sat 07/05/08 09:27 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf. Guess I'm SOL then

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Sat 07/05/08 09:35 PM Edited by lov2fish on Sat 07/05/08 09:37 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf. Guess I'm SOL then

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 07/05/08 09:37 PM
na my ex left me on wedding day,standing at the alter,so no

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sat 07/05/08 09:40 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf. i disagree. I know people who lost a spouse, moved on, remarried, but will always love the spouse that died. It didn't interfere with the new relationships because the past is the past and one must move on to continue living themselves.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sat 07/05/08 09:40 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf. You got that right

TheMissile Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 395	Sat 07/05/08 09:46 PM Edited by TheMissile on Sat 07/05/08 09:47 PM
You'd think after leaving me for another guy who was also a gearhead, also a student of engineering, and also living over 2,000 miles away, that I'd forget her and never look back...but she's all I ever really had, so I can't emotionally afford to let go of her completely. We still chat every once in awhile, but there's some days where I'll be fine and other days where I just want to ream her out in every way possible for leaving me like that.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 07/05/08 09:50 PM
I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...? I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away. i miss her but man she was mean when she drank, she was a sweet heart, but she hit me and cursed me for no reason, but no i really had to put a stop to lovin her it was so hard, cause i knew she meant well. chit now im hurtin.!!!!

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Sat 07/05/08 11:01 PM
He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf. i disagree. I know people who lost a spouse, moved on, remarried, but will always love the spouse that died. It didn't interfere with the new relationships because the past is the past and one must move on to continue living themselves. Thank you

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Sat 07/05/08 11:03 PM
na my ex left me on wedding day,standing at the alter,so no

YeaBigsexy Joined Wed 07/04/07 Posts: 6391	Sat 07/05/08 11:04 PM
Nope!

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 07/05/08 11:05 PM
na my ex left me on wedding day,standing at the alter,so no (((((fire)))))

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 07/05/08 11:06 PM Edited by UplandHunter on Sat 07/05/08 11:06 PM
I would say if he is deceased its ok to still love and be in love with him. When your ready to except that and be in love with someone else then you ar ready to move on. No reason to stop loving that person.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 07/05/08 11:06 PM
I think i will always have love for my ex She's the mother of my kids But being in love with her , nope That ended a while ago

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 07/05/08 11:07 PM
I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...? I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away. i miss her but man she was mean when she drank, she was a sweet heart, but she hit me and cursed me for no reason, but no i really had to put a stop to lovin her it was so hard, cause i knew she meant well. chit now im hurtin.!!!! Sorry bro

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 07/05/08 11:09 PM
I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...? I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away. i miss her but man she was mean when she drank, she was a sweet heart, but she hit me and cursed me for no reason, but no i really had to put a stop to lovin her it was so hard, cause i knew she meant well. chit now im hurtin.!!!!

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Sat 07/05/08 11:09 PM
"In Love"......hard tellin not knowin. I carry love of everyone I've ever been with, some to an extremely high degree. When you close the book, you don't lose your love for the story but YOU CLOSE THE BOOK. I don't think I've cheated any subsequent loves out of anything. Cheesey Metaphor Coming: Reading Tom Sawyer only helped me understand Huckleberry Finn better.